I have touched upon a few guiding themes when it comes to cock control, Vis-à-vis orgasm control. Today we are going to look at Advanced Cock Control. Or some call it Extreme Cock Control. I refer to it as F-U-N! I have to warn you, what we are about to look at is not for the faint of heart. If, however you enjoy a grand MF, are in it for the long haul or just like to titillate your biggest sex organ, the brain. Have a seat relax and read on.
Cock Control Refresher
Cock control can be many different things, from playing sexy games in the bedroom, to make you last longer as a lover. Or tease and delay to experience mind blowing orgasms.
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Chastity and denial continues on the cock control continuum for those who love to experiment. Of course, for those in sub training it is a must. Feeling the rush allowing your submissiveness to wash over you like a warm blanket, moving your sexual focus to the pleasure of your Dominate and learn what it is to submit. Orgasm control is also something that appears in many D/s contracts. Giving up your ability to independently masturbate is part of the equation. Often your orgasm is regulated as to when, where and how you orgasm.
Submission and Conditioning
It is totally un-sexy and totally the opposite of erotic to say: Orgasms are largely a conditioned response. See, blah. BORING right? ???? Sure to some. But what that tells us is we can manipulate the factors, over time, with repeated lessons and we can change:
1-What you find arousing.
2-How quickly you become aroused.
3- How you orgasm.
How sexy is that? I find it very erotic. So, what does all this mean, my pets? It means with your submission, your dedication, your willingness to please me I can have you popping a boner, desperate for orgasm and possibly even having an orgasm in your pink panties, I’ve asked you to wear, just by a few whispers, or perhaps just by applying some perfume, or lipstick.
Advanced Cock Control
Now, advanced cock control isn’t for everyone and everyone will have varying degrees of success. Unless you are dedicated, and willing to submit further than you ever have before we can give it a go. The kind of advanced cock control I am talking about takes a long time, and many lessons.
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Therefore, once you become advanced in the art of orgasm edging we can then introduce a trigger. The trigger will vary with each person, and sometimes we need to build a bridge. So, during edging play when begging for orgasm I might decide your release word is “NOW”. Your body, overtime associates explosive orgasms to the word “now”. Once you’ve gained enough expertise with the trigger word, then I can introduce a trigger action. Like touching you with a shoe, or licking my lips, running my hand down my neck in sensual manner. Whatever it might be.
Combining edging and orgasm denial is so important when conditioning the trigger. When you are horny. I mean really horny everyday things become so erotic! This is the part in your training where we further train you with the trigger action. Teasing you over and over with the action, licking my lips perhaps as you pleasure me. Associating the action with high intensity arousal will train your brain beautifully.
Now I’ve gone and aroused myself writing this blog! Oh, what is a Mistress to do? ????
So how do you want to play today? Look over my previous blogs on the subject. Cock Control Denied Orgasm and Mistress Controls Your Cock , or just browse through the categories to the left. It would be a hot topic for a chat. You never know where it might lead!
My favorite thoughts: conditioning, triggers, and control. All expressed here in this post. It’s where all the seduction starts, mental fuckery and worshipping the creative woman who implants the thoughts! Thank you for writing about a large piece of my favorite things!
Nice to know there is a fan 😉 Mysterious W, person.
If you add perfume/lipstick on me I’ll do this. How can I say no if you put both on me along with matching bra to go with my pink panties. If you and the other mistresses use feminization for this I’ll do it as I’m up to the task with all of you taking control of me.
I see your on second life! Did you see what Ms Olivja & Ms Delia did to me? They transformed me into a girl as they plan on keeping me this way all the time.
Petey, Yes I am on second life! Did you get any pics of them dressing you! 😉 So sexy!
No pics yet. Both said they are going to do blog on me with what they did.
Oh I can’t wait!
How exciting. I love this.
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If you are considering this role play Erika is incredible at accomplishing the role play. Don’t hesitate to let her know your fantasies.
Blondi, Oh my full of the compliments. One would think you are being conditioned to be an obedient pet! 😉 They wouldn’t be wrong, would they 🙂
Dear Mistress Erika,
I have been a student of Advanced Cock Control for a very long time. More importantly, I have been practicing extreme orgasm denial for many years. I enjoy the pleasures of stroking my large cock. Even more fun is keeping all of that cum inside my testicles, seminal vesicles, and prostate. My last orgasm with ejaculation has been October 15th, 2015, and I have been enjoying my time, as my mistresses have instructed me: “Do NOT cum!” 🙂
In summary, extreme orgasm denial IS the way to go for me! 🙂 Thank you for your post!
Cum_filled_balls……….. puuuuuuuuuuuurfect. More men should be so dedicated at denial. 🙂
Giving up total control over masturbating and orgasms is something I never thought I would do, and definitely not with any level of comfort, yet now I can’t imagine things any other way. The physical and emotional rush of having to ask for and earn everything — if, when, where and how I stroke and cum — is incredible. I’m not quite sure if that meets the definition of advanced cock control, but I enjoyed reading about the multiple levels of control and conditioning.
this is very interesting,maybe i should try that.
bring it! 😉
Hi Mistress Erika, Chastity is something i have always thought about. Some males deserve and belong in chastity. Do you think permanent chastity is possible?
Of course it’s possible. Is it probable, is the question 😉
Mistress Erika, I think permanent chastity is probable as long as the male is accepting of it. You are one Mistress that i could let do it to me as I think you are a great Mistress. We will have to talk about this soon.
exactly TT, and I so look forward to the chat!
Ms.Erika, Chastity is interesting because of the consequences of it. Do you use cock size as a determining factor for permanent chastity? Like under 4 inches should be in chastity. Once in chastity the male is enslaved forever.
DJ! You raise some very interesting points! Certainly having a small penis means you have to figure out other ways to please a Woman, yes? One certainly would not be able to do that with a small one like that, hum?
Any cock, whatever the size qualifies for chastity. It’s about the male, and the mind. Chastity is a tool.
So Goddess Erika, This is interesting. So even with how small i am. That chastity is more about my mind and submission. Looking forward to chatting with You soon in the first week of September about this.
tftt, Well well well. Isn’t this interesting. You are going through my blogs, humm? Miss me tiny one!? ❤????
*smiles* I love it! Talk soon!