Sissy Acceptance and finding a community is often a challenge for Sissy girls and many kinksters in general. Regardless of the reason, you are in the closet; it’s a lonely place without that feeling of acceptance and community. Enchantrix Empire has recognized this for years and years! One reason why we are so successful is that we recognize you are much more than your KINK! We offer acceptance and community on top of our sexy sessions! But today I’m going to look at the issue of acceptance and community with a critical eye.
Sissy Acceptance and Community
We are all human, we all need to feel that we belong and if you consult all the headshrinker articles and even go to a therapist yourself, you will find that common denominator regarding their advice: We are social creatures, we need and are hard wired to want to belong, nay NEED to belong. While I don’t discount that advice, it applies to many. My question here today is: But is it? Is the need for a community strong in all people? Could some people be either overwhelmed by the thought of being part of a large group and being social, or those who simply don’t enjoy being part of a larger crowd and don’t need or want the support a community can bring? Interesting, humm? Let’s take a look from my curious mind. Please keep in mind, I’m not a trained therapist, and these are the musings of my curious mind. Do they resonate with you?
Enchantrix Empire Sissy Pageant
One of the examples of the community and support we offer everyone who is in our orbit is the example of an event focused on those who are fans of Feminization, or also referred to as being sissyfied. Over he years Enchanntrix has sponsored many sissy pageants and they are all so popular, this year and the sissy pageant is no different! The Empire is alight with the girls talking, planning, and getting their entries in! Much like other pageants, there’s a fashion portion and a question/answer portion! We don’t just evaluate you based on looks, what’s inside that head is JUST as important!
I know many who will enter love the attention, support, acceptance, and community this event brings! There’s still time to sign up! Check this out: 2025 Sissy Pageant!
I am also offering preparation sessions and advice, so if this is exciting to you, it’s a great option!
Acceptance Without The Community
In my experience, there are those from all walks of life, and kink who appreciate and bloom with another’s acceptance of their “true self”. But they don’t “need it” in the same way others do. I’ve also met people where social gatherings are more of a nuisance and obligation than something to enjoy or even want to do. So is the Sissy Pageant right for that person? It doesn’t matter to me why they feel that way, why social engagements might turn them off or even if they deal with social anxiety; the whys aren’t important to me, unless it’s important to you. If you feel you are happy running your life as you have, perhaps a loner or have limited social engagement, then I accept that. I’m not here to convince you that you need to “heal” over something and “get in the social game”.
I am often mystified over certain schools of thought that insist, as humans, “we must” do this or that. One lesson I’ve learned is that everyone is different, and the best part of who I am is allowing you the room to be who you are! Can I mold you into the person I want you to be? Perhaps, there are many who have met that fate. But I don’t assume everyone who crosses my threshold wants that!
If that is something you do want, because you are not happy, then that’s a different story. So if you desire to be more social and want help, I’m here for you! However, if you know you prefer a more intimate connection, one-on-one pageant, for example, I am here to celebrate and support you!
So if this is you, and you’d love to show off your fem self, but the idea of submitting to the peagent fills you with more dread than joy, come my pretty let’s have our private pageant! I think you’ll probably win!
(giggles)
Introverted Sissy
So my sweet introverts, I see you, I hear you! I have referred to myself as an introvert with extrovert rising, or was that extrovert with introvert rising? LOL Either way, I get it I’m like that sometimes too! Can I put on glitz and glam and be a social butterfly? I sure can, but I also like the less “noise” and conflicting energy a crowd brings, and I’m just as happy! So let’s make beautiful music together with the sissy pageant style that suits you best!
Until Wear Panties For Me
Music by: Broken Girl Paco Periago Auth for Commercial use, creative commons attribution
I can’t help but agree with everything because it’s very nicely written and it’s true! We are all original but it’s important to be able to admit it and to treat ourselves to what we need. It’s a pity that the sissy contest is subject to an entry fee but I can accept my feminine part without having to participate.
thank you so much Ms Erika!
Hi Casandra! I appreciate your comments and we are tweaking the sissy pageant this year we are always tweaking
learning and growing! This year the prizes are valuable, I’m surprised they are not asking for more! As it is
all you have to do to qualify is to do a 30 min session, which is two sweet treats in one! Not only
do you get valuable time with Mistress, that you’d (or whoever) would spend anyway and it earns you an entry!
You are right, we can enjoy you and your offerings all for free at EE!
In general if life each of us mix better with certain people and each person we have as friends or family offer us something different.For me I do enjoy socializing with folks that have common interests and spend more time that way.Others with less interests I do socialize with but in a lesser way.
Then there are socializing in groups where that have same interests but one does not know all the people like concerts,movies,sporting events etc
Circumstances have an effect.Healh,age, environment,human growth,likes and dislikes evolve etc.
Then there are times one just wants to be by oneself not because they have to be but because one wants to be.
For me quality relationships matter.It is great to be able to have long term quality relationships.Texting,phone calls from those I care about is important besides being with them.
As a responsible person I feel it is important to also be socialable and helpful to others that are not in my inner circle.
One of the most important gifts one can give someone is their time.
Hi Gigi beautifully said, thank you for taking the time to share!
I agree the gift of someone’s time should always be cherished, welcomed, and enjoyed!
Not to mention one shouldn’t expect or demand gifts, that will ruin everything!
Hi Mistress Erika. Joining EE last year certainly was a big step for me. Until then, my exposure (if you will) was strictly sharing my experiences with you and other Mistresses via calls or comments on blog posts. There have been ups and downs as I have adjusted to the etiquette of social media, and overall I am so pleased that I took this step. My preferences are something that I shared with select individuals who gained my trust. It worked out well for me, but until EE I didn’t share myself my “other self” more accurately in a more detailed way. This sense of community is satisfying enough for me. It allows you to control how much you want or don’t want to participate.
Wow…it’s been a while since I posted a comment here Mistres Erika!🫢. Tsk tsk!
Hi Peg!
I’m thrilled you did comment! You are right SM (social media) can be a great thing or a bad thing, and I’m glad you found your balance! it’s so much
fun to see a post from you, it’s either sexy or fun/funny and most times BOTH! Your clever wit always has me giggling!
I just like the power and control you have in dressing me as your boy turned into girlfriend with lipstick kisses on my cheeks!!!
Hey Carli! it’s been so long we miss you! 💋💋💋
Everyone is different and every person has their own likes and needs when it comes to being a sissy but as you said that’s not the whole of you so sites like EE help cos they cover all sorts of things (and in that we learn about each other).
I’m always a bit taken about by the “one true path” approach well meaning take cos often they’ve not even tried to understand you as that person even if in the past some have found getting me to recognize and engage with aspects around sissiness such as finding your sexual side and just feeling okay to be open about had more in common with hunting for prehistoric bones, carefully digging and pulling them out before working with me to accept the evidence, learning to enjoy it all.
Circumstances can play a part, such as caring responsibilities but there are ways you can keep that connection to your sissy needs so you don’t lose yourself.
Jut accepting that I am innately a sissy and enjoy all that it can mean for me is really the best.
Hi Tammy Gurl thanks for stopping by! I love your comment, and agree! You make some good points!