Masturbation May is here, and what kind of kinky Mistress would I be without talking about Masturbation Techniques my submissive men need to know! It also doesn’t hurt that our Stroke-a-thon is nearly here, and some of these tips and tricks may help you win BIG! With 60,30 and 15 free sexy minutes to be won, with one of the participating Mistresses!

Masturbation Techniques Every One of My Submissives Knows

The goal for me with guided masturbation, or JOI sessions (with or without a side of control!) is for us to have a great time! How that rolls out for us is pretty unique to our connection. But I do have to admit I have some favorite ways to play with cocks.

Reverse grip with a twist! Turn your hand over, your thumb is closer to your body, vs your cock’s head. Slide up and twist at the end! A great variation is using your opposite hand!
Frenulum Rub: So teasing, so not able to edge! At least, at first! Every submissive guy should learn how to edge this way!
Get your body into it! From hands and knees being “milked” to thrusting into that fist, masturbation claims to burn 10-15 calories a minute? With me, you’ll burn so many more!
Tight, loose: If I tell you to stroke, but not with what kind of pressure, use the grip that keeps you off that edge!
Fisting: No, not your ass, but your two hands around that dick, interlace those fingers, and fuck that fist!

What Propels Or Inhibits Your Orgasm

Learning what propels your arousal and what doesn’t helps keep that cock teased, but not exploding. Here are some examples.

I typically check in with you during JOI sessions and ask, “What’s your number?” That number represents your arousal level
1- flacid and maybe not even interested in sex (yeah, right, does that last part ever happen? lol)
10- PONR, point of no return! You can let go, but that ejaculate is coming out!

So an edge is a 9.

When I check in with you, I am evaluating “what we were just doing, in relation to your arousal” and “how much I can push you from there,” so if you say “I’m at a 6 Mistress”, then if I have you do a reverse grip with a twist, and you edge quickly, I store that information for later. This is how I learn about you and what I can do, or not do, to keep those cum in those balls until I say!

Pay Attention To Your Arousal

With JOI Sessions, you have the opportunity to learn about your sexual responses. Often, men don’t pay attention to subtle changes, and one moment they are pumping away happily at a level 5, and in the next, what seems like a second, you are at the PONR! In reality, that doesn’t happen; you just fail to realize what’s happening. Also, pay attention, because I do, to what your behavior is like right as you approach orgasm. Some folks tense up, even hold their breath! Often this is a natural response, but in the Femdom world, if it propels you to orgasm, you want to stop that $hit if you are not allowed to cum!

The last Stroke a thon I trained someone to not tense up, because that was exactly what they were doing. Over the course of a session and homework, I trained them to recognize the impending spike in arousal and natural responses, then to consciously relax, don’t tense up, and breathe! He didn’t win the big prize but got closer to the grand prize than ever before! I was so proud of him!

No Shame Being Coached

So there isn’t any shame, only celebration when you sign up with me or any of the Enchantrix Mistresses to learn how to control that arousal, control your orgasm to be the best submissive you can be! We can identify areas where you can improve, and give you tips and tricks on how to last longer and longer! Not ready for this year’s stroking fun? Start today to win big next year!

Until I Tease You