When someone is cuckolded, it’s not always his desire. Sometimes he has no choice. Sometimes the clues are whispers men don’t always pick up on. Enjoy this little trip down cuckold lane and tell me, would you pick up the cues? Do any of these scenarios resonate with you? Check out these clues and how they present to “him” and what’s really going on!

Misinterpretation of Intent

All he knew was that he had a crush on her. Insecurity told him that she was way out of his league. But he changed his lunch time to match hers, and over time, they became quite friendly! Then the fateful spring day, when he shows up for lunch, and she’s heading out with two others, she sees him, and she invites him to join them! From there, “meeting for coffee” on weekends or going to the baseball game together was the norm! He still didn’t dare to ask her on a date. He was happy (or so he thought) just to be able to bask in her beauty, to give rise to her giggles. The scent of her perfume haunted him in the most delightful of ways

So imagine how excited he was when she called and asked for his help! She was just going through her wardrobe and needed a few things! Who better to give an honest opinion than her bestie! Off to the stores they go. Shopping was thrilling; he delighted in the gleam in her eye when she spied a dress or blouse she loved, what he wouldn’t give to have her eyes twinkle like that when she saw him!  The dress was a halter, and darn if she didn’t even have one decent convertible bra for it! Off to the lingerie section, where he became very nervous. She found the perfect bra but her pretty smile frowned when she saw the price tag. “Oh darn, I wasn’t planning on spending so much on just one bra and panty set. I don’t know what to do! She spoke to him through the curtain in the dressing room, and before he could think, she pulled the curtain away, standing there in that sexy floral bra and panties!

His head spun, his crush right there in bra and panties?

“So what do you think?” as she turned this way and that. “I was hoping to get three new sets, but I love this one so much, and it just blows my budget! What do you think? Go for it?”

His face turning ten shades of crimson, he finally blurted out, “That set is perfect, don’t worry about the price, I’ll buy it for you!”

The squeal he heard with the little bounce in her step sent his mind into overdrive! Yes, yes, yes! All signs are a go, no woman shows herself in a bra and panties to a GUY … unless she’s laying down that trail of breadcrumbs! He took a deep breath to try to calm his fast-beating heart and throbbing dick.

More shopping, and as they headed out of the store, with him holding her prizes. She exclaimed, “Thanks, Bestie, I can’t wait for my date tonight with Shawn, think he’ll love the panty and bra set?

His heart sank.

Together For A While, Cuckold Clue He Didn’t See

He didn’t notice at first. Men typically don’t. However, when he sensed something was wrong, he couldn’t pinpoint what it was. A vague feeling of her not being as attentive. him. He was a clever and considerate person, accustomed to solving problems. But this problem wasn’t one he was used to solving. Typically, a step-by-step process is used to find where something went wrong. But this felt different. There were no clear-cut elements to analyze,  just a weird gut feeling that something in his life wasn’t connected right anymore. He tried to ignore it, telling himself he was overthinking, that work stress was getting to him.

The first sign he couldn’t ignore hit him one morning. He was sipping coffee, going through his bills, when he came to his credit card statement. When he saw the entry, a rather large entry. There was a charge for expensive lingerie. Not just expensive, designer expensive. Agent Provocateur was the purveyor and had to search for them on the internet. He hopped on their website and was blown away. He saw items, expensive bras, panties, all types of high-end lingerie. Looking through the site, he didn’t recognize any of it. He’s never seen this kind of thing on her. When is she wearing these items? She’s never worn them for him. He even tried to reason through it,  thinking maybe it was a surprise for him. But deep down, and as the days passed and lovely curves were never in them, it started to feel like something else. Something more impactful to their relationship than a large financial shopping spree.

Pampering The Princess Clue Two

He also noticed charges for a day spa. A full-day package, the kind with massages and facials.  One evening, he casually asks her about the charges. She brushed it off fast and said it was a girls’ day out, and that she deserved to treat herself. And why was he questioning her? He backed off, but the way she snapped at him stuck in his head. That wasn’t how she used to talk to him. It felt like he was being pushed out of his own life, one small excuse at a time. Like he was the idiot footing the bill while not being told the full story.

Getting In Shape Classic Clue

The last one made his stomach drop. Personal trainer sessions—private ones, expensive as hell, booked multiple times a week. He didn’t say anything this time. He just sat there, staring at the numbers, adding them up in his head like he would a job estimate. Except this time, the total wasn’t money, it was something worse.

It was all the signs pointing in one direction he didn’t want to face. He started noticing more clues. How she’d dress nicer to “go out,” how she’d leave in a hurry, how she barely looked at him anymore.

Working Out And Working Late

Rarely out at night except with him or the occasional girls’ night out, her schedule became too busy to work out in the morning. So working out became an evening activity. Sometimes, she wasn’t home by 8 pm or later.

Then came the pressure at work, the last minute deadlines, and too much work kept her out of the house more evenings than not. Little did he know what all those evening workouts and hard deadlines actually meant. She was meeting deadlines and working hard with him.

Conclusion

When the clues all add up, and you realize what a cuckold you’ve become, you can lean in or walk away. I want you to lean in, explore your cuckold self and sexuality! I’m waiting.

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