You’re Naked & exposed, just like in your fantasies. Which, by the way, have been really hot and never fail to reduce you to a horny mess! Hello friends, pets, and lookie-loos. Let’s explore the Clothed Female Naked Male (CFMN) Scene. Why is the CFNM kink of being naked and exposed for Mistress so popular? Speaking of popular, I’ll give you a peek at some popular CFNM Scenes. Then, finally, how can you please me with a CFNM scene!
Buckle up, buttercup, here we go!
Naked & Exposed = Vulnerable
I think one reason CFNM is so popular lies in the three simple words above. It doesn’t (but often does!) get more complicated than that. This is what I mean.
Naked, We mask ourselves, in a way, with our clothing. We become what we wish to be, simply by the attire we choose.
Exposed– You expose your true, naked self. No pretense, no mask.
Vulnerable – With your mask removed, and your true naked self exposed, you feel vulnerable to the will and treatment of another.
Will they accept you as you are? Or celebrate and engage with you like a breathless lover? Maybe they will humiliate and demean you? Are you just an exciting plaything to be used and set aside? These are some of the popular avenues CFMN kinksters bring to my table. I’m also often asked which I prefer. My reply would be “yes”. (laughs). Although if you expect me to react like a breathless submissive lover, that’s a no bueno for me, amigo! Any lover of mine will arrive and engage, knowing I’m the one who is worshiped and followed, not the other way around. Although I’ve been told I *can* treat a dick with a great deal of reverence! l! Ha!
Why CFNM Is Popular
One thing I know about male conditioning is that you are not permitted to be vulnerable in your everyday life. You can be, but how do other men meet that? Not too well, right? Hopefully, that’s slowly changing. But more often than not, you are expected to have a stiff upper lip and always be in charge.
It is also challenging to know if, when, and where you must keep that stiff upper lip, and when you can let your guard down. So eventually, you learn to block that part of you out and not experience it at any level. But that doesn’t bode well with personal relationships. Intimate relationships are affected. All humans need to be accepted for who they are. Some, like celebrities, need hordes to love them, but do they really “love them” or the persona they portray? Most of us just want to know that “just us” is ok, accepted, and even celebrated.
CFNM is a way for the man to experience vulnerability and acceptance. The fact that they do it sexually is not really odd from my experience, either. Granted, most of my “field study” has been with men, so I welcome your thoughts about females, but men tend to sexualize damn near everything! Even with applying more humiliation or embarrassment than simply being naked provides, CFNM is a way for men to experience emotions safely, explore their fantasies, all within the boundaries of our play.
Another Reason
Very closely related to the above is what I call “look at my dick syndrome.” Either they are super proud and want to show (that willy) off to any willing participant, or they are a bit insecure and honestly want to know their penis is perfect. But it’s ok, guys. I’m not judging just categorizing the play for easy understanding. Of course, you have the penis of a God, and any woman would drop their panties just at a peek of such a God-given creation! (How many are picking up on my teasing here? STOP now and comment!)
Penis Pleasing Mistress
But what fun things can you do to please me? Here’s my list. Make your own and hit me up for a fun text session, or ring me up when I’m available. What’s that? You never find me available? Always that darn “cock block” YELLOW? Head on over to my schedule page and find out how to make an appointment!
In no particular order
* Helicopter that bitch! Put on some sexy music and strip for me
* Decorate it, and/or cage it!
* How do I love the, let me tie the ways: Colorful rope and tie it up!
* Show me how you masturbate: I’m always telling others how to stroke, now it is YOUR freestyle time to shine!
* Send me a sexy role play, not an entire script, just a paragraph or two of a sexy, fun scene!
* Commission me for an erotic audio: reading your sexy CFNM fantasy!
How Are We Playing This?
Finally, as I insinuated above, I want to know your CFNM fantasy! How can we blur the lines between fantasy and reality by using Discord? How about by playing out your favorite CFNM scene? I am game for most anything, including a feminization fantasy, where I catch you dressing enfemme! Are you a teeny penis person and want that humiliation from light teasing, putting you in untoward predicaments, even breaking out Mean Mistress Erika to make that dick dance for me!
What’s it gonna be, boy? Yes or no? (extra points if you get this reference!)
Until you are naked & exposed
I got it. hmm to be feminized . swinging a strapon because these nothing to my real thing . but to be corsetted totally femmed and swinging a strapon for you and your friends
Oh Ms Kristi! Boom Bam Zoom! hot hot hot! Thank you so much for stopping by!
cfnm and edging for you. naked and stroking the way you command is control. add to that being edged again and again making me desperate and horny for you.
giving you full control. and of course my current regime of ruining every orgasm for you.
i am sure this pleases you ?
Hi Jay! You are spot on, you are doing so well! It does please me greatly!
edge for 5 days befire i call you. tie cock and balls on my knees. begging for an orgasm. you love it and make me edge for another hour non stop getting me so close and making me stop. you look down at me and ask who owns you stroker boy ? I say of course you mistress. you smile and ask me if I want a full release. I say yes mistress very badly. u smile and get me to the edge and then say ok pet 2 more strokes and then Ruin it.
Oh that sounds fantastic! I’m really impressed and so pleased you made it all the way to July! The rest of the year will be here and gone before you know it!
Oh yes Mistress Erika, as i have said often, “CFNM and SPH…my favourite 7 letters in the alphabet. CFNM is something I have indulged with in real time sessions with many Mistresses. And many times “multiple” Mistresses! Yes, you could say i am a bit of a show off, despite the fact there is really nothing to show when everything is off!
Nonetheless, everyone has a good time, and that is the main thing.
You referred to Meatloaf with the “what’s it gonna be boy?” I’ll give you an answer in the morning!
You are a bit of a show off but such an adorable fem show off! LOL
you are clever, thanks for “getting my tease” and my answer is “I gotta know right now”
Let me sleep on it….🤭🥰
Oh I guess you’ll tell me your answer in the morning?
Stop right there.
I gotta know right now.
Before we go any further….🤭🥰
LOL you won, you totally WON! Hahaha , thanks Peg!
You’ve done this to me with other mistresses!!! 😳😬seeing how small I was and sooo girlish smooth and soft!!! Especially when you had me wearing bras/panties/dress/lipstick kisses on my cheeks as well applying on my lips with being sprayed in perfume/blush on my cheeks as well wearing dresses with heels in being turned into your girlfriend!!!
Oh you are so right Carli! Thanks for stopping by! Oh what fun we had!
Love this post! Ther is something truly freeing in the vulnerability that CFNM brings. It’s like letting go of all that you fear about other’s judgement and saying “this is me”. I’ve been absolutely hooked since the first time I showed you “the goods”
Oh Dr, and what “goods they are” thank you for showing off for me!
Ha, yes I picked up on your teasing…but I also know there is an element of truth in it. You may not be fawning over the exposed male in front of you, but you do appreciate it.
For me, the exposure, the risk of being a disappointment is real. a little humiliation is nice. I will also say, the quiet “mmm”, or “ooo”, or surprised little gasp is a huge rush…and worth chasing.
Hi WS! You are right, I am very appreciative! It really doesn’t matter to me what sized dick you have. The only choice is “what it can do for me” LOL
and I’ve seen your penis , and he is a very good boy*wink*
Wow Goddess Erika, Very interesting. 🧎♂️🧎♂️🧎♂️ CFNM is so scary. It is something i have never done before. Maybe because it is to intimidating for me. I would be more embarrassed then proud. I wonder how it could be decorated.
Oh what a great idea , slave! Decorate it for me! Here’s some examples; Pingpong ball, vienna sausage, oh of course the cork to a muselet
Hi Goddess Erika,My favorite is always cork to an muselet. 🧎♂️🧎♂️🧎♂️ Then again i guess there is no CFNM when in a dark room. I could also see it as being vulnerable.
Oh my, I lived the CFNM lifestyle in many variants although the most humiliating one was being paraded at beach resorts in panties on 6 different vacations with my ex-wife.
And I have NOTHING to be proud of but lots of memories to keep me humble and dripping.
Of course, Head Mistress Erika, you know about those and so much more that it may be difficult for you to choose the example that makes you laugh the hardest!
Shut the fuck up, simp. But good going leaving a comment, maybe I won’t expose and humiliate you on EE!
yea, no, that’s not going to stop !
Thank you for not naming my ex-wife and the places we went on vacation, Head Mistress Erika.
I didn’t name them here, here on my blog, are you daft?
what if your exwife Joanne, or any of her friends like Lori, who knew what a little penis you have finds my blog?
Then what numbnuts. You would really be exposed then! She was right tho, Tom is Joanne’s bitch
Good point, Head Mistress Erika! If Joanne or Laurie, or any of her other close girlfriends from back then, saw this then they’d know exactly who I am.
I’m pretty sure that some of them trolled me on the chat line back in the day when I was looking for public humiliation.
Oh I know about those stories , short stuff! That was the quest chat line where you becaeme joanne’s bitch
I keep thinking about the last time we did a call… I one of the first things you had me do was strip off my panties before you gave me a firm discipline session! Being naked and exposed like that really put me deep in the sub space! My Chasity, cage and naked branded touch exposed to your laughter established immediately that you were firmly in charge
Oh what delicious memories, indeed! Lay you raw and bare, no hiding your nub behind panties , forever!
I’m taking a pretty lead off of third-almost daring you to pick me off.
LOL Oh DR! Thanks for the giggle!
I ache to be naked …
Exposed… abused and used by you Ms Erika…. Just like after yoi commanded that I stripped off my panties exposing my caged nun on my last call!… such deep sub space !
Oh dickless you are delightful, I so enjoy humiliating and spanking you!
Erika, This is great! I can just picture a guy helicoptering his peen and how you laugh and laugh. Any guy is lucky to be exposed by you.
Thanks for stopping by Ms Andi! I was over at your blog today and you did a great job too! GMTA!
Who here would love to be naked and exposed for Andi and I?
*raises hand
*tosses a bottle of lube into that raised hand*
Now , what are you waiting for, hot stuff! LOL
Nice refernces, Mistress. LOL You nailed it. The tension of exposure in CFNM is a draw. Wondering if your body will be accpeted, critiqued, appreciated, mocked creates the nervous tension and anticipation. Add in some humilaition, whether gentle or pointed, intentinal or not and you amped up beyond the arousal of the situation.
Also, for me anyway, when you can catch that genuine reaction. The subtle intake of breath, or maybe a quiet, “mmm” or “ooo”. It doesn’t have to be because you ae perfect, just some element that elicits the response. It can even be a genuine laugh at something like a helicopter.
The attention is the real reward. As always.