Welcome back pets, friends , fans and lookie loo’s. The title Mean Mistress Erika would come as quite a shock to many I play with. I also know some of you know a very different, let’s say LESS Sensual side of me. Make no mistake, they are both very genuine parts of me. That’s what makes me so delicious! My blog is replete with the sensual side of me so today: We are talking Mean Mistress , pets.
If this is your first foray to My little corner of the interwebs keep both hands above the table. You may have a cold drink or compress to get you through, as parts of My blog can get pretty hot! Today, I’m going to discuss why this Sensual Mistress enjoys her Mean Mistress side.
I’ve Said It Once I’ll Say It Three Thousand More Times
(Mainly because I like to hear myself talk…… Ha ha… kidding. Kinda..)
I’m a multidimensional Woman. I’m not just “one thing”. I am not just intelligent. But I also have a fun loving, silly side. I have a very seductive sensual side that has made many of you an Erika Addict.
What many don’t know about me is I do have a sadistic streak. One which is more or less properly trained per conventional standards. That’s reason 892 why I love doing what I do. I get to behave in ways, not typically acceptable.
I also enjoy variety in most everything I do. Sexual realm included. I also like tinkering around in your mind. How do I use this with our sessions? I not only listen to what you say, but more importantly how you say it. Perhaps you share a impactful sexual experience with me, I learn a lot about you that way. I have an innate way of picking up on motivators, triggers and strumming them to our mutual benefit.
I love expanding My boundaries and having a Kinky Good TIME! So if that means I need to be delving into my “not so sensual side” I’m in!
You’re Not One Thing Either!
You can identify with this mindset, I’m sure. We all put on different selves, for different occasions. Sometimes you appear and behave like an Alpha male, taking charge running the ship! But another part of you wants to give up that responsibility to release the tension and stress which builds up and becomes toxic for your mind and body. Submission is what you crave.
I am no different. However, I crave that Dominance, in whatever form. I take to leadership like a duck to water. It feels good and familiar to me. I feel confident and whole taking charge! Whether it is in a “vanilla” business arena, taking care of my home or Dominating submissive males. I do so , generally , in a sensual manner. However, in my experience not all people have a submissive response to sensuality. You require something quite different. Let’s talk about the various ways to move from sensual to being a mean Mistress.
Mistress Stimulus Stern
One type of stimulus some respond to is a stern approach. Some enjoy this level of humiliation. This stern approach is certainly part of a mean Mistress sessions.
This approach you will experience a commanding presence and a no nonsense demeanor. The backdrop to this play is: You are the puppet and I the puppet Mistress. You will obey. Period, I expect nothing less. Yes, I may not be yelling or degrading you but you feel that power and control wash over you nonetheless.
Stimulus Harsh
Others respond brilliantly to my wicked laugh and uncaring attitude. From verbal humiliation while listening to your erotic confession, to task oriented sessions like having you fuck a melon the fun is ours to be had. But how harsh is the question!
Humiliation is a complex response and some are more rigid with the humiliation elements, than others. Specific trigger words are a must! While others who think they wanted harsh humiliation soon find out teasing or mild is their style, for now.
I’m careful, when a new pet begs me for harsh humiliation. One persons harsh is another persons teasing and vice versa. IMO Harsh humiliation includes a bit of degradation. But how much degradation fits the bill? I play hard so keep that safe word in mind! It is often more of an indicator of a boundary than most can communicate. It also lets me unleash whatever comes to mind, knowing you have that safe guard. I’ll make sure we have enough time to put your pieces back together before we depart.
Mean Mistress Humiliation Stimulus Is In Overdrive!
Mean Mistress takes these elements and puts them in overdrive! Ramps up the “harsh” factor to the nth degree! Combined with a: No Mercy, no fucking mercy attitude. Include is a large heaping of objectification and loser degradation! You could be my my footstool, or fuck-toy but remember considering your “FEELINGS” is just something that won’t be happening.
You have the power of your safe-word, idiot. Use it or keep a stiff upper lip. You, slut are the epitome of masochist, you want me to break you down to your base elements. Tiny little fragments of yourself, littering the floor. As some say “Make me into a puddle of goo” Many cry, and I welcome it.
pain play / nipple play
I revel in your tears!
You got a tingle when I mentioned reducing you to puddle of goo.
Combine Any and All With Physical Pain
Into pain play? Not sure? Certainly combining some physical pain CBT, spanking , nipple clamps and other assorted toys will propel you further and deeper down that rabbit hole than ever before! Don’t have any sexy toys? That won’t stop me. There is a ton of items around the house we can employ! Clever and resourceful you’ll clothes pins, shoe laces, hair ties , boots string and more around the house are handy tools.
Are You Ready To Experience Mean Mistress Erika?
Listen to the audio clip below for your first Mistress Assignment. Check out my profile on Mistress of Mean
Then check out a taste of Mean Mistress at the Phone Sex Audios site! It is listed at a very reasonable price, plus a very unique offer! If you are a humiliation addict, or even curious about ramping up your humiliation, buy the audio. If you follow my instructions and DO Not Cum, then email me (Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com) and tell me you held that cum!
I will verify your purchase, and approve you for Five Free Minutes when you call me! Your Call Must be ten minutes or more to qualify and once we are set I’ll email you to confirm your five free minutes With ME are “good to go” This way you can taste Mean Mistress Erika Live in your ear! All sessions apply: Voice, sexy texting and cam calls! You’ll have 30 days from your free minute award to use them or you lose them!
Now, you dirty slut, click on the audio for a little tease, a taste of Mean Mistress Erika, and I’ve got a naughty task for you!
Tune in next weeks when I write about a particular little pee wee slut who deserves my stiletto propped firmly on her sissy sack. A Lovely Ignore Call Birthday Session and other naughty things I love to do, when you love humiliation!
Until We Chat ????
Intelligent Phone Fantasy Mistress Erika
Click And Listen
WOW! Incredible audio….I’m blown away listening to it. While i know you are aware of all my short cummings….i.e. CBT, nipple and pain play, as well as SPH (if i dare call what’s locked in the nub ‘a penis’) But since you’ve instructed us to put in one humbling term on your blog….I’m going with… ‘dickless pussy free sissy slut”….Is that ‘one’ ? Well, perhaps not….but it fits……Thank for your mean Mistress side!
prissy! Thank you loved your reply! ha! I know this year has been a total F for play , but don’t worry I’m keeping my leather paddle warm for ya! ha!
Goddess Erika, Mean Mistress Erika is awesome. I guess i will come up with a safeword for a session but then again it doesn’t matter if i can’t handle it because i am a total loser. I know that the only way i can be trained is in a strict fashion. Thanks to you i am finding value in my life for the first time ever.
slave tim, what profound words! Safe word is as much for me as it is you, tiny one.
Goddess Erika, I understand that about safe word. Then are can be red.
Hi Mistress Erika, How do you know when you are taking humiliation to far? Is that why you need to know a submissive first?
That is a great question TY! I can easily make that step into “too harsh”
Why I insist on a safe word.
Goddess Erika, I was wondering if red is o.k. for a safeword? I can’t wait to do a Mistress of Mean session with you soon. Would love to combine degradation and pain play. Hoping to have some new toys in. like where spikes dig in on the penis or something for the balls because i know you wont show any mercy on me.
slave tim, red is a perfectly acceptable safe word!
Mmmmm More pain play? YUMM! Email me for a list of things I want you to bring to session, including the spikes you mention.
#NoMercy for slave toys!!!
I’ve had the…erm..”pleasure”?…of disappointing you twice and facing the repercussions. You were strict, firm, and I believe enjoying it. At no time did it seem to be purely sadistic behavior. Like playing with fire, it is tempting to try it out. Careful what one wishes doe though. Another sexy side to a wonderfully seductive Mistress.
hey WS, yes I was enjoying tormenting you! True you didn’t get the full brunt of my sadistic side! 😉 Temping to try the fire, but would you enjoy it? Hummm. *winks*
I suppose I can’t really know until I try. So I would consult a trusted source. Mistress Erika, do you think I would enjoy it? 🙂
Mistress Erika,
You are the ultimate Mistress.
You can be can be or do anything you want us.
Who are we to question it. We are are your loyal CumSluts, Boy Toys, Cum Eaters, …….
YOU ARE AMAZING!!!
Your C&N, Cum Slut, Boy Toy, Tom
Thank you Tom! I so enjoy you, such an obedient boy toy cum slut! mmmmm!!
Mistress Erika,
Thank you and I also work hard to be the best clean-up boy possible. Yum Yum!
You look so irresistible in your latest Twitter post “ I’m ready to play”
BTW (your other tweet) there is only one acceptable topping that should be “shot” on to a “bi-valve”????????…. Triple Yum!
You are constantly on my mind ???? and I love it ????!
Your C&N, Cum Slut, Boy Tom
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Your Mean blog is both exciting and a little scary to this pet, dear Mistress. Your assignment was to offer You humiliation keywords to consider using when a pet comes to You for further training, so here are a few to consider for this one: namby-pamby, snowflake, fluffer, puta, pansy. Until we speak, I am,
Your Nora
Oh Nora! Hello naughty one! Oh I love those names, and trust you are being a good gurl for Mistress? ????
Mistress Erika,
OMG!!
I instantly got a HO after reading your post that referred to #ErikaAddict. I LOVE it !!
That is EXACTLY what I am. I can never get enough of your tweets, blog posts, pictures AND of course talking to you on the phone.
You are incredibly gorgeous and the sexiest woman ever. ????????????
Thank you for allowing me to enjoy “all things Erika”.
Your, C&N, Cum Slut, Boy Toy, #Erika Addict Tom
Aww Tom! You just brought a smile to my face! Thank you, I rather enjoy thinking about you lusting after me in this way! mmmmmm!!
Mistress Erika, This is very interesting. How you went from sensual to having a mean Mistress side at times. That could be you always had it but some submissive’s just bring it out of you. No mercy but with a safe word.
Hi cum slut!
Well it’s true, my nature is sensual. However like many dynamic Women I have more than one side of me. It is true too, that some inspire parts of me, more so than others. What part of me you experience is predicated on you.
Goddess Erika, I just read your profile on Mistress of Mean for the first time and it is awesome. It got me wondering if i can handle the cruelest meanest Mistress Erika. Wow, You calculate that only 1% of losers like me can handle your meanest side. I would like to try this in a session with you.
i was also wondering if you consider ignore calls as part of your mean side. I mean paying you to go into a chatroom to ignore me while giving everyone else in the chat your undivided attention instead of me is very humiliating.
talk soon. Hopefully this holiday weekend. I got to work today and on the 4th of July. As slaves don’t get holidays off. So maybe Monday.
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Hi slave!
Ignore calls are pretty humiliating! Yes! But am I being my meanest? Nope. I’m being my sweet sexy self and you are listening in, to make the ignore call really MEAN I have to kinda stop ignoring you. LOL My mean can come with verbal degradation as well as physical pain.
Work hard little nubbin you have a Mistress to please……. and Yep,I’m here Monday!