Hi there Fans! Sex Secrets is today’s topic. We all have them, something we can’t or don’t (yet) feel comfortable sharing with our intimate partners. As you can imagine I know a lot of “your” secrets. I was searching the web about sex, who isn’t right? Ha! But this was for work. Looking for inspiration, and I found it! I’m going to share some of what I found and my musings on the topics.
Sex Secret People Are Kinker Than You Think
The article (video) recently, which was my inspiration for my topic, it referenced a study stating that- out the participants, 1 in 3 have fantasized about or participated in something kinky! The most popular kinky activities were voyeurism, watching people have sex. Fetishism – being aroused by non-sexual objects and exhibitionism- having inmate relations in places where you might get caught.
Erotic confessions: You Know You Need To!
In my little corner of the internet, and personally, I’ve encountered and enjoy all of the above! From my experience, I think we are all a bit voyeuristic. Even if you tell yourself it just for “curiosity sake”. Humans are ego driven creatures so of course we want to compare ourselves with others. It is also taboo in our culture to view such intimate acts so doing so adds another kinky element: breaking taboos.
I SoooOOO enjoy watching men masturbate and particularly when I’m in control of that masturbation! If there were such a thing as Femdom kryptonite, controlling that cock with guided masturbation has to be on my list! As much as I love keeping you denied, it is sometimes very difficult for me to do so! How much so? I guess you’ll have to click here: To Hear My Erotic Confession.
What about you , have you thought about or engaged in any of the above kinky behavior?
Bi-sexual Sex Secrets
One in ten men who identify as straight or heterosexual is having sexual relations with other men.This article specifically mentioned men in NYC. But I will venture to say that number is probably pretty accurate for men in general. Also the number of men fantasizing and masturbating to bi-sexual encounters probably would increase those numbers to three in ten, perhaps four in ten. There are A LOT of secret cocksuckers and cocksucker wanna be’s out there!
The human mind is a fascinating thing, since (even in 2019) many can’t express their need for bi-sexual activities find a way to do so “through the back door” (pun intended). Coerced bi or seduced bi being at the top of the list, for those brave enough to step out of their comfort zone but need a “plausible out”. “Mistress made me do it”. “She looked so pretty by the time I found out she had a penis…..” so on and so-forth you get the gist.
There are so many kinky scenes we can play out that involve you being a dirty slut for me and getting that cock you fantasized about! Perhaps your fantasies didn’t start with dick, that was way beyond your comfort level. But your brain and desires just don’t go away and even if your conscious mind pushes gay fantasies to the background, doesn’t mean they are not there. Here’s what I mean.
Someone who really gets off watching a woman orgasm on a dildo, might start wondering one day how that feels! Moving onto using a vibe or dil on yourself, graduating to girl cock play. As this behavior is rewarded and safe place to play is provided the mind and body are FREE to explore. One day feeling particularly horny and comfortable enough to confess it’s always been a turn on and want me to use my girl cock on them. You see where this is headed, yes?
Others who start out with cum eating desires, then one day during a heated session you confess. I want cum , I need cum…. I want cock, Erika!
Cuckolds, fantasy and person to person contact is a naughty way to get that dick without having direct responsibly.
More Sex Secrets
Of course there are many many more kinks and secrets to cover, this just gives you a taste. I hear a lot of people’s erotic confessions, and some of what I do is behave as a kind of sexual therapist. Providing a place where you can feel comfortable sharing those secrets. Unlike a popular gym out there , this truly is a “Judgement Free Zone”. Letting you know your naughty desires , although seemingly perverse are more normal, or should I say more common than you think.
Do you have a naughty secret you need to tell someone? Need to find someone who will listen and “get it”, or even “listen and humiliate the F outta ya for it?”. I adore creating a safe place for you to explore, and confess. I also enjoy providing a place where you can experience that humiliation without any “real life” repercussions.
What happens in session , stays in session. Well, unless you beg me otherwise! ????????
Did you enjoy my sex secret post? Let me know comment below or email me!
Until We Chat ????
Kink Mistress Erika
Goddess Erika, i did like this post as even i have sex secrets. i was wondering if You like watching men masturbate or having control over a cock more? The other thing is i don’t consider myself bi but would clean up or suck cock because it is my place and purpose. Only real men deserve pleasure.
Well watching DID come first but that only gets me horny. Controlling makes me horny AND HIGH! So what do you think,????.
You bring up a great point, tftt. You taste ejaculate and are a cum dump because it’s your place to do so.
Mistress Erika,
Thank you so much for this post! I’m taking this as an opportunity o reveal MY secret. I’ve posted numerous times under the name “Gay Boi Fire Fighter, which you affectionately call me. My name is Aaron C. I’m a firefighter in California and I’m Gay. Not many people know but this is a golden opportunity for me to take a tiny step out of the closet. Thank you for ALL of your support.
You are a definite loss for “my side”, Aaron. But hooray for gay’s, they get you. It’s OK to be gay, it’s GREAT to be gay, Aaron. How are you feeling now, you posted this?
If anyone has any helpful advice, feel free to email me or post it here for our nervous wanna be out of the closet gay friend?
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Sissy tedi, are you ready? hum….. We’ll see
PLEASE MISTRESS ERIKA please go slow ,no go fast ,do what you have to do ,sissy tedi is afraid of her sissy life catching up her vanilla life and her panic mode ,purging, and that is more painful than anything a MISTRESS could ever do ,depression, you doubt your sanity ,to avoid that pain do daily sissy affirmations ,and as the assignment said i am a sissy and i live to serve the LDW /MISTRESS’S .sincerly beta bottom beta bitch tedi
Deep breath, time for sissy meditations………. Next session
On a daily i do not good feelings of subspace as a session would give me ,following your blog ,walking in high heels ,wearing panties everyday i feel good ,sincerly beta bottom bitch tedi
But the daily good sissy feelings are enpugh to substain me sincerly beta bottom bitch tedi
Tedi, what great reports. Also congrats on being Member of the Month ova at Enchantrix Empire! ????
I’ve already confessed to you what I need and want and with my feminization ongoing and permanent this is what need And best for me. Also with my masseuse asking that dressing up as a girl is therapeutic for me and saying yes to her this will change the dynamics of our relationship which she picked out another dress/2 blouses/black slacks for me. Especially Now that she’s seen me in wig/dress/makeup/lipstick/bras/breast forms. As you said there’s no hanky panty. Once new clothes come in I’m going to ask her to take pictures of me with her phone all madeup/lipstick/bra/breast forms/wig on me and tell her I look better dressed up as a girl then I do as a guy and see if she agrees with me. I want to tell her I have you as a mistress but iffy on this.
Paulina this is diving I just love Freudian typo’s! You are the best! One step at a time, you must respect her at all times. That means not pushing your agenda and allowing her to lead you! So if she asks you personal questions you might say “I have someone(s) who help me with my feminization as well. Go from there
Your absolutely right about this Ms Erika!!! I won’t rush this at all as she is in total control over me and yes I’ll do whatever she wants and asks of me.
???? OMG & I used to think of you as sort of a prude. Now I love it when you talk dirty ????????the barber shop. Would be a gold mine. Is it legal? But it could be ewwww for some to work there. On second hand & thoughts . hospital workers have to do some jobs like that.
Shirley I saw your comment but evidently I have to have a few drinks in me to make out what information you are trying to convey.
I’ll check back later and re read your post I haven’t a clue as to what you are referencing????.
Mistress Erika: This won’t be a lengthy comment (coming from me how could it?). I’ve yet to reveal many of my “sex secrets”. I have revealed 3 and one half of them…could my top 5 evoke a gasp from my beautiful Mistress?
*eyebrow wiggle* My my my, itty bitty short davey (in more than one way) It would be my pleasure and delight to hear you confess the top five!
Mistress Erika…I certainly am enjoying trying to rank my top 5! I have been quite a naughty little one over the years! I have not decided in what manner to reveal these peccadilloes but you touch upon some topics in your post that I am an “old hand” at!
Little Daaaaaaaavey! I have all the time in the world. Can’t wait to hear of your naughty experiences!!
Thanks for stopping by!
Mistress Erika,
What can I say!!!!????
Your C&N cum slut boy Tom
LOL Ooooooooooooh and we hear from another SLUT! ???? Hey there Tom!
Hey there to you too Mistress Gorgeous, Beautiful, Hot, Sexy and Delicious! Will call you soon to fill you in on part 2 of the latest. Yes there was a part 2 that just happened!! YourC&N cum slut boy Tom.
Ok with me ????
i am confident You know much of what is my mind, Mistress Erika, but i have been thinking lately about kneeling before You and being made to say it all out loud.
Hey joe, I do know a lot about you. But I don’t think I know enough, do I? It feels good to say it “out loud” it feels GOOD to confess.
i look forward to crawling before You and begging You to interrogate me, where i will reveal everything to You. i will say all the words out loud. Perhaps You would like to ask a question here, so that i might be made to confess in public, Mistress Erika?
Joe, Busy Weekend for me and getting caught up and what do I see? A begging humiliated, emasculated fuck toy’s wish for exposing his perverted thoughts, actions and desires.
I don’t think anyone has any doubt what and who you are now. Joe. Humm?
Get to my inbox, email me.
Erika do you drink? I gave up on a girl named Erika cause she drank too much. She never knew about the CD side of me cause i think i knew her before i Cross dressed.
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