Hello humiliation lovers, today we are going to take a look at Sensual Femdom Humiliation. I know a few of you might be scratching your heads , not able to wrap your head around humiliation and sensual. Others of you know exactly what I mean! ‘Cause you are a kinky Mo fo and this is your forte! Ha! Since this is not only Masturbation May we are also shining a spotlight on erotic humiliation this month. “Hip hip …… OMG are you serious with that little peen” (insert laughter here ????)
Let’s take a look at Sensual Femdom Humiliation
Styles Of Humiliation
Yes, there are styles of humiliation! Employ the wrong style and Mistress doesn’t get that response she wants! The humiliated, is also left with an equally unsatisfying experience. So one of the first things I would ask is “how do you like your humiliation”. It can range from implied, subtle and sensual to the other end of the spectrum which is more hard-core humiliation and all the way to degradation humiliation. Today we are focusing on the sensual side of humiliation.
Sensual Femdom Humiliation
Sensual humiliation, differs from hard-core or degradation because it lacks overt meanness. Is the result the same? Certainly. Are similar words used? Often that is the case, but when it comes to sensual humiliation it’s all about the delivery.
I have a special pet, who may or may not “out themselves” in the comments. I’ll leave that up to them. However they are very KINKY, and experienced and they do enjoy sensual humiliation. I asked them their thoughts on humiliation, and of course they were brilliantly articulate about it. So much so I had to share with you! Here are some words from their perspective
My Humiliatrix must administer that playful, gentle treatment and I am willing to do anything to make her pleased.
Humiliation With A Smile
Those adorable pet names you call me? I just melt into your voice. How could anyone see these names as belittling or demeaning?
How delicious to be called “puddin’” “hunny bunny” or “punkin”.Of course I have a little pee and I love frilly things but to be harshly ridiculed for that doesn’t compare to the affectionate teasing: Such a pretty gurl! I think we’ll just throw out all those nasty boy clothes, let’s put that tiny little clitty in a cage, okay sweetie?
With that approach you’ll have me eating out of your hand in no time! Unless you want me eating something out of my own hand! You have but to ask!
This gentle persuasion is what got me to go into Walmart en femme with two Mistresses, even though I knew I wasn’t passable.
More flies with honey than vinegar as the saying goes!
I am sure everyone of you agrees referring to your male appendage as a tiny little thing, or clit is humiliating! But what about Dominating? Some of you might even think the above is not very Dominating or demonstrating my dominance over my pet. If so, then I know your experience is quite different, and maybe sensual humiliation doesn’t get that willy werkin. The sensual approach just doesn’t elicit those submissive feelings, humble, vulnerable and so willing and wanting to please.
That’s ok! But I will assert this is very much Dominating my pet. Remember Domination is simply Me making the rules, controlling you in some fashion and you submitting or acquiescing to My desires! Domination can be and often is carried out in a sensual fashion, including sensual Femdom humiliation.
Sensual Femdom Humiliation Evolution
Humiliation, like many kinds stimulus has a potential for desensitization. Meaning what “worked” before, doesn’t hit home, have that same thrill as when you first started with humiliation. Don’t think it’s any fault of your Mistress or yourself, becoming desensitized is a normal and typical process of our minds.
Like a lot of other things, I encourage you to bring this to my attention. I may already suspect the same, and push you a bit in session, based on the energy I feel from you. Or I will inquire myself, if you don’t bring it up. All it means is that we have the opportunity to evolve together. That we will explore that humiliation rabbit hole further.
So remember, your tolerance for humiliation may change, What was once sensual teasing humiliation, down the road may look a bit more like harsh humiliation. As we get to know each other, and you trust me to take care of you, this energy lends to our evolution. One reason why you trust your humiliation to a professional. We understand sex, and sexuality and are more than willing to tweak and adjust things as we go.
In Conclusion And A Task
Sensual humiliation is more popular than you might think. It is is still Domination and your taste and tolerance may change over time. If you enjoy sensual humiliation I would always recommend you do so with a professional. Humiliation , even if sensual is an art. It can also lead to more destructive behaviors and mindsets, your Sensual Femdom Mistress is well versed and will ensure, as I do , that you will walk away from session, whole , happy and dreaming of our next session!
Here’s an assignment: If you enjoy any kind of humiliation, think back to the beginning. how has your humiliation needs changed? Comment below!
Tune in next time for- Masturbation Humiliation.
Until We Chat ????
Humiliatrix Erika
It certainly would be a dull (kink) world if we all ordered the same thing off the humiliation menu.
“One Size Fits All” certainly does not apply at all when it comes to this topic. Sort of like condoms! (Wanna talk humiliating? You should see me in a Magnum!) It’s understandable that one mans junk is another mans pleasure…(to paraphrase)
Looking at an A to Z list of all the various kinks it would be unrealistic to think we all have the same tastes.
We experiment and find our preferences. Some things work better than others and perhaps windows of opportunity open for us to expand into new worlds. Luckily we have a huge resource of knowledgeable and professional Mistresses to guide us in our pursuits.
There is no right or wrong way to experience your humiliation. As long as we’re all consenting let those cheeks redden in shame!
Thank you for another wonderfully informative post Mistress Erika❤️
little ms peg! how delightful for you to read and leave your comments!And I have to thank you for that snippet , above sharing your thoughts on how I humiliate you! ????????
All of you say is spot on, and one reason why I love what I do. Figuring “you” out and creating fantastic experiences for us both! Thank you for your lovely comments, hope you have a lovely day!!
Oh Mistress Erika I’m glad one us has me figured out! Lol! I liken myself to a new BBQ I’ve assembled with all these leftover parts I don’t know what to do with! Luckily you are there to put the pieces together for me!
LOL you are adorable ‘extra parts”
This is what you are doing to me Ms Erika, Especially having to wear panties/bras/heels/makeup/lipstick pink sissy collar and long black wig for our calls on Skype. Love how you call me hunny bunny/darling/doll face/baby/cream puff as I am your weak helpless submissive and feminine cream puff girl forever with lipstick kisses on my cheeks reminding me of this
HI Ms Carli you most certainly do love sensual feminization humiliation! yay!! We adore you for it!
There is no turning back now!!
You hit the nail on the head, Ms. Erika. Humiliation is a drug where you build up a tolerance for a level or amount and you keep needing more to get your “high”. Obviously, a sissy’s clit determines what gets her off. Mine started just thinking about cross dressing as it was known when I started. Then to actually wearing articles of Female attire was exciting. Next step is where the humiliation starts. To share your fetish with a Woman who can’t help but.laugh at and be amused by you is the jump into the rabbit hole. Once in with the right humilatrix, She will determine the path you’ll walk along. Shame fuels the humiliation. To be told “you’re not a real man” or “you were meant to be a Girl” is an addictive thought. To be ordered to do “Girly” things like wear makeup and use tampons furthers the humiliation when you comply. Eventually after living as much as possible like a Female, you get treated that way by your Mistress. My ex Wife stopped seeing me as a man. I became her sissymaid and She made me a cuckold. Once you’re humiliated like this, there really is no turning back. She left me for a real man which has left me in a state of permanent humiliation. The Mistresses of sissyschool took it from there and have convinced me I wasn’t meant to please Woman as a man. More humiliation! I’m a sissybitch who was born to serve a Mistress in any way She insists. Every Mistress I’ve talked to says I need to suck cock. I’ve practiced and fantasized about it endlessly. Humiliation upon humiliation! So now my main source of humiliation (and getting off) is talking to a wonderful Mistress of sissyshool and admitting my interest in cocksucking and performing for Her as She mocks and taunts me for being a cocksucking sissy faggot. Making me say those words. I’ve been thinking of chastity lately.That’s where my humiliation journey is at now.
SFT! Wow! Thank you for sharing your journey with me and my readers! You are chock full of humiliation fun. Chastity? *raises eyebrow* par for the course. Of all the things you mention which is humiliating, taking away your ability to touch your clit, even absentmindedly is a road worth traveling. I find it increases your submissiveness your feeling of Ownership, do stop back and update us!
I think there’s another commentator on my blog who knows exactly what I mean about chastity. Isn’t that right , little Ms P
Definitely Mistress Erika! SFT has certainly been put through the humiliation wringer….why stop there?
Yes, get a cage and lock it up!
It can be for yourself (but I recommend having a Mistress to lock up for!) My little clitty is locked daily, sun up to late night for Mistress Erika. It is basically hers now and she decides when and how I can enjoy it!❤️
Sensual? OMG! Is it ever.
little ms peg! Love you giving encouragement to others! what a good gurl. I adore you!!
Ms Erika,
My humiliation is always sensual with you.
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Twirllll and curtsey
aww cute peanut!!
Goddess Erika, I do like sensual humiliation. Especially from you. Though i like all forms of humiliation including degradation. How has my humiliation changed. Maybe a little but i still like all forms of humiliation. where i have changed is i really like being ignored for my humiliation now.
I liked reading this post. What a lucky pet.
hi slave! It’s true you are one of the rare ones who enjoy many different kinds of humiliation. IMO ignore humiliation can be placed on the severe category. I mean, paying me not to talk to you? WOW!!
Plus you are such an obedient slave, fun to have around ????????
I love this post Ms Erika, humiliation is close to my heart. I was born a bitch goddess diva and I loved tormenting boys. As always your studies go into fine detail. Thanks for the insight. 🙂 By the way, I’ll be posting on iwillhumiliateyou.com more often. Pop in and comment with your excpertise.
OMG Ms Cassandra! I would love to pop in on iwillhumiliateyou! I admire you and we have had some humiliating good times together! Woo hoo!
See you around the Empire and thank YOU For stopping by!!
Your insight is brilliant as always. When I started CFNM was enough, but over time it moved more into performing well, in whatever way mistress wanted. This led to one particular moment that I would definitely put into the humiliation category and one that has stuck with them. While stroking and edging for Mistress, things went a little too far and resulted in a very ruined orgasm. As if that weren’t enough, Mistress had me clean it up on the spot.
Mistress Erika, your desire to learn, respond, and push your pets is one of your best traits.
Thank you for stopping by WS. I bet it was humiliating, trying your best to impress, be the best submissive for her and all ya got was (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_asNhzXq72w )
And …….. Humm ???? your story sounds familiar. ????????????????????
Familiar? I’m sure it happens to lots of people, not big deal. LOL
Set the bar low and then show how good all the training is paying off over time.
It doesn’t happen to all men and it IS a big deal
https://youtu.be/uqPNc6uo18U
They were insulting each other back and forth,” says Malins, “and I had this idea in my head, [Rachel] says, ‘Well one time, when you prematurely ejaculated, I told you it was okay and it wasn’t.’
https://ew.com/tv/friends-rachel-it-is-a-big-deal-meaning/
LOL ????????
I am addicted to your delicious humiliation, my Headmistress.
The conflict of fear and arousal when you trigger me is beyond compare.
It is a privilege to be one of your many beta bitches.
what a nice tiny dicklette holder ! Thank you peewee!!
I am not intimidated by your brain. I will jusr get drunk on wine after making spaghetti or an Alfredo linguine or fettuccine so there can you cook Mistress Erika? If you can’t i am sure you taste good other wise ????