Hello humiliation lovers, today we are going to take a look at Sensual Femdom Humiliation. I know a few of you might be  scratching your heads , not able to wrap your head around humiliation and sensual. Others of you know exactly what I mean! ‘Cause you are a kinky Mo fo and this is your forte! Ha! Since this is not only Masturbation May we are also shining a spotlight on erotic humiliation this month. “Hip hip …… OMG are you serious with that little peen”  (insert laughter here 😁)

Let’s take a look at Sensual Femdom Humiliation

Styles Of Humiliation

Yes, there are styles of humiliation! Employ the wrong style and Mistress doesn’t get that response she wants! The humiliated, is also left with an equally unsatisfying experience. So one of the first things I would ask is “how do you like your humiliation”. It can range from implied, subtle and sensual to the other end of the spectrum which is more hard-core humiliation and all the way to degradation humiliation. Today we are focusing on the sensual side of humiliation.

Sensual Femdom Humiliation

Sensual humiliation, differs from hard-core or degradation because it lacks overt meanness. Is the result the same? Certainly. Are similar words used? Often that is the case, but when it comes to sensual humiliation it’s all about the delivery.

I have a special pet, who may or may not “out themselves” in the comments. I’ll leave that up to them. However they are very KINKY, and experienced and they do enjoy sensual humiliation. I asked them their thoughts on humiliation, and of course they were brilliantly articulate about it. So much so I had to share with you! Here are some words from their perspective

My Humiliatrix must administer that playful, gentle treatment and I am willing to do anything to make her pleased.

Sensual Femdom Humiliation

Humiliation With A Smile

Those adorable pet names you call me? I just melt into your voice. How could anyone see these names as belittling or demeaning?
How delicious to be called “puddin’” “hunny bunny” or “punkin”.

Of course I have a little pee and I love frilly things but to be harshly ridiculed for that doesn’t compare to the affectionate teasing: Such a pretty gurl! I think we’ll just throw out all those nasty boy clothes, let’s put that tiny little clitty in a cage, okay sweetie?

With that approach you’ll have me eating out of your hand in no time! Unless you want me eating something out of my own hand! You have but to ask!

This gentle persuasion is what got me to go into Walmart en femme with two Mistresses, even though I knew I wasn’t passable.

More flies with honey than vinegar as the saying goes!

I am sure everyone of you agrees referring to your male appendage as a tiny little thing, or clit is humiliating! But what about Dominating?  Some of you might even think the above is not very Dominating or demonstrating my dominance over my pet. If so, then I know your experience is quite different, and maybe sensual humiliation doesn’t get that willy werkin. The sensual approach just doesn’t elicit those submissive feelings, humble, vulnerable and so willing and wanting to please.

That’s ok! But I will assert this is very much Dominating my pet.  Remember Domination is simply Me making the rules, controlling you in some fashion and you submitting or acquiescing to My desires! Domination can be and often is carried out in a sensual fashion, including sensual Femdom humiliation.

Sensual Femdom Humiliation Evolution

Humiliation, like many kinds stimulus has a potential for desensitization. Meaning what “worked” before, doesn’t hit home, have that same thrill as when you first started with humiliation. Don’t think it’s any fault of your Mistress or yourself, becoming desensitized is a normal and typical process of  our minds.

Like a lot of other things, I encourage you to bring this to my attention. I may already suspect the same, and push you a bit in session, based on the energy I feel from you. Or I will inquire myself,  if you don’t bring it up.  All it means is that we have the opportunity to evolve together. That we will explore that humiliation rabbit hole further.

So remember, your tolerance for humiliation may change,  What was once sensual teasing humiliation, down the road may look a bit more like harsh humiliation. As we get to know each other, and you trust me to take care of you, this energy lends to our evolution. One reason why you trust your humiliation to a professional. We understand sex, and sexuality and are more than willing to tweak and adjust things as we go.

In Conclusion And A Task

Sensual humiliation is more popular than you might think. It is is still Domination and your taste and tolerance may change over time. If you enjoy sensual humiliation I would always recommend you do so with a professional. Humiliation , even if sensual is an art. It can also lead to more destructive behaviors and mindsets, your Sensual Femdom Mistress is well versed and will ensure, as I do , that you will walk away from session, whole , happy and dreaming of our next session!

Here’s an assignment: If you enjoy any kind of humiliation, think back to the beginning. how has your humiliation needs changed? Comment below!

Tune in next time for- Masturbation Humiliation.

Until We Chat 💋

Humiliatrix Erika