Welcome to “Am I Gay if I Want to Eat My Cum” blog. I’ve written about men who eat their own cum, or are thinking about taking the plunge into the “land of creamy goodness” plenty times on my blog. I most likely wrote about the ‘gay’ question as well in one of those blogs. But it bears repeating since I’ve had a lot of conversations recently about this exact subject. Here we go!
Men Eating Cum
Men who eat cum or think about how hot and erotic it is to be coerced into eating their own ejaculate are not necessarily in the category of gay. For them it’s more of an erotic taboo stimulus. The mere fact that you are engaging in a taboo activity is hot and thrilling!
There too, is the ever present “Power exchange” sexy element, when you are coerced into eating that load. What’s even more fun, is how that power exchange plays out! Is it sensual and you are so wrapped up in rapture that at the time it seemed like a hot thing to do, eat that cum off of those tits. Is that sweet ass spanked until you orgasm and is fed that load from my hand? Perhaps a more protracted approach. Days, weeks, dare I say longer with weekly deposits into, mmmmmm the “cum bank”, in the freezer? Although your mind is reeling, screaming “WTF” yet your cock is hard as a rock. I just love that truth detector , hmm? It betrays you time and again.
While other men don’t like it at all, regardless of the play. But, they will do it because it’s what Mistress wishes, and they always aim to please. For them the arousal is all based on me, my pleasure. So it’s something they will endure. Is it erotic for them to submit to that task? Sure, but on a different level. It would be perfectly OK if I never asked for it again.
With all this said we are left with
Men Eating Cum
Am I Gay if I Want to Eat My Cum
Let’s put this out there: You are who you are, and how you choose to identify yourself. So if saying “I’m gay because I do XYZ” feels RIGHT then run with it! There is nothing wrong with being gay!
On the other hand if your naughty games and association with gay activities (sucking cock to eat cum) is a hot stimulus for you, Yay! You are not alone! So if being teased or even humiliated by being called “gay” arouses you!
You see, using words like gay , faggot , cock sucker and cum eater are very naughty and still pretty taboo subjects in many social circles. That’s why it is so stimulating for some, and is an awesome erotic tool for me to use.
Some who enjoy me using words like faggot, enjoy listening to faggot meditation, for being a fag. Recently I had a lot of fun with other Mistresses creating just such an erotic audio! I worked with Ms Brighton, Ms Claire, Ms Delia, Ms Kellie, Ms Scarlet , and Ms Willow on a trance/meditation faggot audio! It was a fantastically fun project to do with some these ladies! Check out the sample on this page: Faggot Humiliation and while you are at it , click and buy it. Not expensive and I know I KNOW you’ll love it!
Getting Started Eating Your Cum
So if the idea of being labeled gay or faggot stopped you from eating your cum before, put it behind you. Then just do it! You see, just getting this far on the blog, and you are still engaged tells me that it is time for you to move forward! Some people move more quickly than others. You also learn a lot about your desires when you involve a play partner! I’m patient and knowledgeable and well versed in the challenges a first time cum eater faces.
While sometimes , men discover through our play that it’s the tension and tease of MAYBE eating that cum that makes up their boundary. That’s great too. I enjoy tormenting and teasing that cock with all the naughty cum I’ve made men consume at my behest.
So, where are your boundaries? If you really want to move forward in your cum eating journey let’s connect! I know you’ll enjoy eating that load for me!
My motto is: It’s not a matter of “IF” , only a matter of “when”, pet.
Until We Chat ????
Mistress Erika
Erotic Audio
An excellent post Ms. Erika. You know I have eaten my cum, and I would do it again. I fall into the category of eating my cum because you have told me too. Certainly there is an attraction to it while I’m aroused. The taboo of eating it, the submission of following the command, and loss of interest once I’ve climaxed.
I don’t even question myself on if it makes me gay. I don’t think the action creates the label, however you want to apply the label. And the reverse, a label doesn’t insight an action. I know several gay men, and i know one who hates to eat cum.
What I do know is that the thought of eating my cum in front of someone, particularly a dominant women, excites me. The embarrassment, the power exchange, the humility, the ability to complete the task all are part of it. And when I know that she is enjoying it, even better.
Thank you Ms. Erika for the trip down memory lane.
Thank you WS!! I’m glad you enjoyed! So great for you to chime in and support my message that YES, heterosexual males can and do enjoy such a naughty experience!
Great post Mistress Erika. Though since i am not worthy enough to cum means there is only one way for me to eat cum. From other men.
???????????? Hey slave tim! You are so right, not to mention as small as you are “down there” it’ll probably only be a drop or two!!
Mmmmm num num num cockie mmmmm licky licky mmmmm num num swallow
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Miss Erika,
I always love your blog posts! I love this one, especially. As you know, I’m a bit of a cum aficionado. And while I occasionally snack on one of my own loads, I MUCH prefer the experience of swallowing SOMEONE ELSE’s load. Does that make gay? Perhaps. Ok, most likely. But, what I LOVE about this post is your avoidance of hard and fast labels. You acknowledge taboo subjects, accept them, and encourage us to explore them in a safe place (here). I also believe that sexuality is fluid. Putting oneself in a box is limiting. Why do that? I am attracted to men but there are so many other levels to me that the word “gay” feels limiting (although, honestly it’s the most fitting word we have ????).
Keep up the the thought provoking posts!
Hey Aaron!
Thank you for your words of appreciation and flattery! I like your thoughts, and I agree no need to put labels, put each other in “boxes” that we must work outside of at times. Just don’t use the freakin box, right?
See you around, cutie!! ????
We both know I’m not very good working in a “box”????
Bwaaaaaaa ha ha ha “that’s what she said” ????????
If you are serving your Mistress and she allows you a release whether full or ruined you have to expect to eat your cum for her. 1 it shows how much you adore your Mistress 2 it amuses her 3 it’s humiliating and 4 you shouldn’t expect to leave your man mess on anything of hers and of course she won’t give you a towel
I like how you think Cslutt ????
Mistress Erika,
An absolutely amazing new blog. I love it. I hope it inspires other men that aren’t sure about eating cum to take that all important next step. They should call you to start the most important journey of their lives. You will help them progress from eating their own cum, to clean-up of another mans cream-pie to the ultimate blow job and swallow. They will learn that absolutely no drop of cum should go to waste.
I have experienced everything that anyone can imagine with Mistress Erika’s guidance yet I do not consider myself gay. I am married to a mature gorgeous woman who loves to see me pleasure other men.
As Mistress Erika’s incredibly hot picture says “Cum Compels You”
DON’T WAIT.. ENJOY THE JOURNEY!
#Erika Addict
Your C&N, Cum Slut, Boy Toy, Erika Addict Tom
Hey naughty Tom! Thanks for stopping by and leaving such lovely words! I am one lucky Mistress to have such a delicious boy toy in my stable!! ????
I try to get every drop!
Mmmmmmmm Thank you prissy for stopping by! Naughty cuckie slut like you should ! ????
Afternoon mistress. As you know I love eating my cum for you. So no it’s not gay to eat your own cum. I wish I could do that right now, it would be a great stress break for me right now.
Hi Bob!
Oh Yes I do Know! Thank you for chiming in and supporting my assertions! Eating cum can be an erotic experience and has nothing to do with being gay! yay!!
Hope you have a good week, bob!
I love eating cum and I have recently admitted to myself (and to some other people) that YES — I AM GAY.
I love saying it out loud and I can’t wait until we have a call when I will tell you about all my years of cocksucking and cum-swallowing. You can then humiliate me and tell me the truth that I am a sissy faggot cumslut — AND I LOVE IT !!!
cdCindy
Hey Cindy!
Wow what a fantastic introduction to you! I cannot wait to hear about it all!
Welcome !!