Are you a prick? If you are, you probably don’t realize you are. As I close out 2018 and move to 2019 I thought I’d take a moment from our typical fun and try and help educate you, and help you not be a PRICK! After all, I hear all day long “Mistress how can I please you” , well here you go: Dots real close together easy to follow. Ready? Let’s go!
Respect Her Time
Some of you are very respectful, others of you are not. Let’s do a compare / contrast to help clarify.
Message or email Mistress and patiently await her reply ????
Message or email then spam her with several more messages before she replies to the first email. ????
I typically reply to your email ASAP or within 24 hours.
If I have a busy day on calls, or am knee deep in a blog or other “Mistress” duties I may only check mails periodically through the day. It’s one reason why I ask for 24 hours notice for appointments.
Request an appointment and show up on time, or communicating ASAP if there is a change of plans ????
Request an appointment and show up ten minutes late (or not at all) with no communication????
I work hard to ensure I am on time and available for appointments. Sometimes that means I “hold myself” for ten minutes or more from taking other calls waiting for you. For you to show up late, or not at all forfeits your ability to schedule future appointments and may have prevented someone else from connecting with me. #Selfishprick
Having the privilege of contacting me (skype or email) outside of session and send a few words of worship and a smile letting me know you are thinking of me or to report on your task????
Feel entitled/ get annoyed if I don’t respond when “you think I should” or expect me “sit and chat” ad infinitum if I’m not on a call.????
I love staying in touch between sessions, either to follow up on assignments or discuss role play or fantasy for the next session. But as much as I may like you, or like to play with you I have other things to attend! I know you don’t realize this but Mistress has a lot of duties and tasks to accomplish between calls, if she is to prosper and “stay here” those things have to be done. If I allow you to take me from those tasks then my ability to be successful at what I do diminishes. If I am not successful here then I will have to move on to other things.
I’ve had some fantastic conversations over the past year about “What I do” and how it does and does not fit in with our current climate of the Me Too Movement. Since I’ve been sporting a vajaja all my life, I automatically qualify as moving target for degenerate troglodytes. Women in any walk of life , from Nun to Porn Stars are subject to disrespect from penis creatures. Why? In many ways because penis creatures are conditioned tend to think the world revolves around their fuck stick and since it’s the most important thing to them, it should be important to you as well. *sigh*
Add to the mix that I am a “Sex Worker” and well, it seems the degenerates feel entitled to treat me any way they wish. You can’t. You won’t.
You see, guys,the only difference between your sainted female figure in your life (which you treat with the utmost deference) and myself, is I give you consent to talk in ways, behave in ways, you are not allowed in “your world”. In session you are free to explore erotic fantasies, play with your kink or fetish knowing you are welcomed to do so. In addition: your calling , having texting or cam sessions is respecting that I have a valuable skill set (like any of your service contractors) and you are happy to compensate me for my skills. Expecting me to do so out of session, or worse yet- never having a session with me is disrespect and is abusive.
I must verify everyone I engage with is 18+ to keep my sweet ass outta trouble! The ONLY WAY to do that is with your session. I will entertain your communication regarding a session, to confirm it’s something I’d like to play with,with you but I will NOT engage in adult topic conversation.No more discussions end of story. If you do so you risk being blocked like this one…..
Recently I was contacted by someone who was trying to get me to session (talk about adult topics), without knowing him or having a session! I spent way too much of my time (In retrospect) explaining to him that I’ll be happy to discuss these things IN SESSION.
He tried: being sexy and alluring (didn’t work) , he tried the old “Compliment her until she takes off her panties approach” (yea, panties stayed firmly in place). Finally, he tried impatient, condescending and when everything in his current arsenal didn’t work. He started to “whine” (in text which is worse lol) about not being “sure” if he wanted to session with me . I still refused, and guys if you think you are “that much of a sweet talker” to risk my sweet no no’s to prison, lemme tell ya: You ain’t, and your feeble attempts are transparent to me. The women you might know may be vapid and fall for it , I’m not.
So, his last “hail mary” attempt he insisted that the company should “give out” free samples. (ha ha ha, listen to the audio for a bit of a fun ad-lib)
After I picked myself up from the floor from laughing at his immature response, I reminded him that LDW has a Quality Promise! Call any of our Mistresses and if after the first few minutes it isn’t working for you, politely excuse yourself hang up and talk with the Dispatcher. She’ll be happy to work with you, we have several options including, resetting the clock with another Mistress, having credit on account, or even not charging you! I’m not making this up: Quality Promise check it out!
Blocking and Banning
I am a reasonable mature woman, if you are lucky enough to be in my orbit you will respect me at all times.
The following will get you blocked, banned and put in the proverbial trash without notice.
If you think I’m “one of those girls” who will give second chances once I “put you in the trash” you are wrong.
Breaking one of these rules will have you deemed “trash”.
-Sending dick pics without my permission, or without being my client, and in particular if I’ve told you NO!
-Barraging me with messages, asking me to discuss adult themed topics without me knowing you as a client.
-Disparaging me in public because you have the emotional intelligence of a fluke.
So, as you see, my list is short for the worst transgressions that will get you banned.
Look, I’m a fun loving erotic Dominant Woman who delights in meeting new people, exploring kinks, fetishes and helping your sexual life be fun and rewarding. But like anyone I have boundaries and I think mine are easy to abide by. Don’t make me put on my capricious Mean Mistress Hat! (well unless you like that kinda thing! Then CALL ME ha ha)
Together let’s make 2019 the most respectful and KINKY ever!
Until we chat ????
I think having a caged clitty helps limit my being a prick lol…..That and being born to be a devoted submissive sissy slut! 🙂 …..In fact, reading how disrespectful some so called’males’ are, i am even prouder of my being a sissy!…..I do hope, in the future, you and EVERY Mistress are treated with the respect you deserve….I for one am grateful to have Goddesses like you, my Mistress and all the Ladies of LDW around to serve…..
princess, you are a role model for many, in many ways. Not only your chastity and devotion to Mistress Constance but also to those who let their selfish male ego, and penis ruin everything by being that “troglodyte”
Goddess Erika, i don’t think i am a prick. I have so much respect for You. A lot of it has to with i know where my place is. Looking forward to 2019. I don’t want You to put on Your Mean Mistress Hat.
No tiny, you are not a prick. You do know your place: Worshiping me from the ground up: Isn’t that right, tiny?
Ha! No mean Mistress? Then don’t forget that spoon.
I’m no saint but it’s hard to believe some guys are still like that. I know they probably won’t read this so my plea is to all the good guys out there. Look around. All the blogs, websites, community, that cater to all sorts of kinks and fetishes. That all takes time and hard work. It’s more than just calls. It truly is an empire. So next time you call thank dispatch for putting you through. You read a blog you like, leave a comment. A simple “thanks for the insight” will do. May not seem like it but even tough strong Mistress’ like to know they are appreciated from time to time. Let’s make 2019 the best we can for all the LDW staff. Hey Miss Erika? Can you bring that step stool over here. I need to get off this high horse 😉
Thank you C man.
I’m so glad you enjoy Enchantrix and all the Empire has to offer!????
Oh, yes your high horse! Mmm….I’ll let you have your moment. You’ve done well, I’m pleased!
Like the others who’ve commented above you are all fantastic, and fun a great support and three reasons why I love what I do!????
Thankyou Mistress Erika i will do better .Thankyou for your teaching .
You are welcome, ted!
Shame on those people that have neither the patience or respect
In my world you must
Show the utmost respect
To everyone and you will
Receive the same respect 10×
Thank you Lexi! I get how scrambled male brains get when horny but it’s no excuse! 😉 Thanks for stopping by!
Yes Mistress thankyou for posting this .By this standard and by this test yes Mistress i am a prick .Yes Mistress ibeg for your forgiveness. I topk selfishly a pver abundance of your time .i beg to be punished if you so see fit .Yes Mistress thankyou for this teaching i will strive to do better .sincerly yours a cocksucking sissy
Good! I’m glad ,you learn well!
Dear Mistress Erika,
I love this blog but it saddens me to think that you have to deal with fools who are too short-sighted to appreciate all of the wonderful things that you and the Mistresses of LDW do for us.
C articulated it better than I ever could.
No matter what the fools say or do, they will never overpower the love that the rest of us have for you. Never.
We, the true LDW beta bitches, worship and adore the Mistresses of LDW unconditionally. And we subscribe to the lifestyle wherein you will do what you please; when, where and with whom it suits you.
Because you call the shots. Period. And we wouldn’t have it any other way.
Thank you for these words. You and others do make this a fantastic way to earn a living! I appreciate you all. Don’t fret too much re: the troglodytes. One reason I made this blog was to “have it out there” so in the future I won’t waste much of my time, if they are being a “Prick” they will get a link to this blog,and no more.
Agree with C and Pee Wee. It is hard when the inferior pathetic male personality takes over.We should have a humble heart and thank Mistress Erika and other Mistress’s of the Empire for tesching us a better way
You are welcome Ted, 2019 is going to be a great year for you! *eyebrow wiggle* Welcome back to the Empire!
Being new to the Empire, I must say that I’ve found nearly all of my callers and emailers-yet-to-call to be very well-trained in their manners. Either they were raised right or you ladies before me whipped them into shape already – either way, I’m a very happy mistress here 🙂
Yay! I’m so glad to hear that. True only a few ill mannered virgin types! I seem to have had an influx of a few during the last few months!
Thanks for stopping my Ms C!
I admire all of you with all of the crap you deal with. From the time wasters to those who are disrespectful it has to be extremely difficult. You all are human beings at the end of the day and deserve the respect and courtesy any one does. I’m sorry that you deal with what you do. You all deserve much better.
Stephanie, you are wonderful. Thank you for those words! True the knuckle heads are far and few between and two years have been great. I’m going to focus on all of you wonderful people who continually support and appreciate all we do here! ????????????????