Hello there gurls, I hope you enjoyed feminization week! Today’s blog is about being your best sissy self. What does that mean, exactly? It means being dedicated, sincere and always looking for ways to be your best sissy self! Now what that means is as individual as the individual! But here are some fantastic ways my gurl Lisa has done in order to be her best sissy self for Mistress. Which can you adopt? Do you have any other ideas how you can be your best sissy self?
Lisa’s Best Sissy Self
Darling Lisa has been enjoying Enchantrix/LDW and our feminization for quite some time now. She’s even had sessions with Head Mistress Ally , back in the day! Just like anyone with sissy dreams life sometimes gets in the way and she can’t be her “complete” sissy self 24/7. Even days where no feminine attire can be worn (Oh the horror!). But as I’ve mentioned previously, you don’t have to DON feminine attire to feel gurly! That’s how Lisa gives me her sissy best, buy doing what she can every day to be her best sissy self!

Be Your Best Sissy Self
How To Be Your Best Sissy Self For Mistress
– Taking care of your body , and health.
Watching what you eat, and getting plenty of exercise. Although I thought Lisa’s body, when she first came to me, was “Just fine”, we talked a bit about our dreams and goals. We and decided that yes, Lisa needed to improve. To date she’s slimmed down by 25lbs, down 8% body fat! Now her belly looks Oh So fem, slim and firm! Why her sexy belly chain needs a few links taken off. Oh yea, Lisa has a sexy fem belly and I simply ADORE her belly chain. We had a lot of fun discussing and picking it out.
– Grooming your body
Lisa has been doing so well with My gurly body! She’s a good gurl and keeps up on her sissy hair removal by going to get a full wax every 4 weeks along with facials and massages! Using feminine lotions to help her skin feel and look its best. Did you notice? I bet some of you did. I said “My gurly body” darlings, don’t you see. When you commit to a Mistress, asking for her help to feminize you. When you are devoted then Mistress is too. That’s My body and you are at task to take care of it for both of our pleasures!
Your Mindset And Your Best Sissy Self
Finally , how you can be your best sissy self for Mistress is your attitude! You see, even though Lisa can’t engage her sissy self as much as she wishes her attitude remains as Mistress desires. To feel as fem as you can , every day. Employing secret sissy mode as needed. Keeping in mind that what she does (and doesn’t do) always reflects upon your Mistress. Your Mistress is dedicated and devoted to helping you be your best sissy self and you should be too.
Having an open mind , willing an naughty spirit is all that’s needed. With Lisa’s continued feminization training we also use fantasy sessions to explore Lisa’s sissy side. How far will she go for Mistress? Check out some other posts on this delightful sissy and ask yourself: So how can you be your best sissy self for Mistress?
Until We Chat
Feminization Mistress Erika
Next week I’m delving into the subject of Kink And Couples.
Our relationship is for real and forever!!! After doing feminization circuit training program with you. If only I could do this in person with you and the other mistresses:( diet is a must!!! I really need to and will focus on this!!! No more going out late night with tennis friends for parties/eating food hour before bed and getting less then 4 hours of sleep!!! This is reason I can’t lose weight and got fat. I never did this when I was bodybuilding and now I got off track and need to get back on track!!! You said to keep open mind on not giving up on finding girls but where I’m at it’s not happening as I’d rather call you and the other ldw mistresses for ongoing feminization training/therapy and assignments which I can do in privacy of my bedroom/home instead of going out which I hate as I’m to old to do this and it’s for the younger crowd. With women my age that are married with kids and I’m along being put in friend zone by girls I know this means I’m not boyfriend material anymore and calling you/ldw mistresses for feminization training/assignments/therapy is a way of my life now-Paulina is part of my life forever as you were right in saying feminization circuit training will take over my life/body and mind forever.
Paulina is part of you, and your life now. You are right to focus on what fulfills you, makes you feel “right”. The rest will fall into place as it should be.
Totally agree with you Ms Erika!!! With that being said it’s tome for me to start seeing how I look as a girl when th the makeup assignments you’ve given me. I’m not going to worry/lose sleep if I can’t find women that want to do this to me anymore. It’s hot how you/other mistresses have made me into Paulina forever!!! As long as I’m not hurting anyone/breaking the law and this being legal I’m
going to step up my feminization training with all of you.
Goddess Erika, i enjoyed reading this post even though i don’t dress. As i always have an open mind and real all of Your posts. It is important that everything reflects well on Mistress.
You are so right TFTT, everything you do reflects upon Mistress. Regardless if you are a sissy gurl or a tiny peanut loser, humm pet? ????
Peanut?
Being a proper sissy is a lot of work! Shaving my whole body regularly…maintaining a landing strip….nail polish…..pedi’s….moisturizing and picking daily sissy wear!…But i wouldn’t have it any other way!
princess! I know you work very hard to be the best sissy for Mistress C, and you’ve done brilliantly. An example really of how to Chanel that sissy chaste energy into something fantastic
Goddess Erika i appreciate all your hard work in writing these wonderful educational blogs .Thankyou for caring me .Shaving is a pain .i will try waxing .i use perfume .fat beg you help me with that ..mindfullness answner maybe .sincerly beta bottom bitch tedi
Yes Goddess ERIKA looked around found nail saloon will go wednesday .time seems to be standing still .sincerly beta bottom bitch tedi
Yessssssss! What a good pet! I cannot wait to see those pretty toes.
I think we need to work on your attitude, however, missy. Being fem and doing fem things are NOT PAINS they are necessities for a botto bitch like you to LOVE TO DO! Shaving is honoring your Mistress. Each stroke SHOWS YOUR DEDICATION to her! You need to LOVE to remove that hair~!
With that said, when you go to the salon ask if they do waxing or can refer you to someone who does.
You make an excellent point that when a sissy belongs to a mistress, is “Her gurl”, then she is grooming and primping and making herself up to please more than just herself. Taking care of a Mistress’s property is always the #1 priority, regardless of how time-consuming it may be. Keep it at, gurls!
Great Minds Think Alike!
🙂 Thanks for stopping by Ms Claire!
Yes agree with ENCHANTRIX Claire i am the property of the ENCHANTRIX EMPIRE wear the LDW brand ,always take care of their property sincerly beta bottom bitch tedi
Yes MISTRESS ERIKA yes GODDESS ERIKA what i do to be a good sissy is a honor a pleasure .Thankyou for correcting my bad altitude .sincerly beta bottom bitch tedi
Oh Ms Claire I’m owned by Ms Erika
Hey SissyBelinda, you naughty fresh girl! I know you haven’t been behaving, not with those pretty short dresses, petticoats and your penchant for trying to expose your tiny girlie parts…….
No no noooooooooo, blushes they they made me lift them
Thankyou MISTRESS for your words i reread them and always pick up gems of wisdom i missed first time .my best sissy self protects me the bad of world hard to explain .but thankful sincerly beta bottom bitch tedi
what a wonderful submissive! Learning more and more each day. Everything is a lesson, that’s smart to keep in mind- And You DO! #Brilliant
Yes MISTRESS ERIKA i will commit myself to being my best girly self every day .thankyou .toxic masculinity really bothers tedi .sincerly beta bottom bitch tedi
tedi, You’re doing fantastically!
Thankyou MISTRESS ERIKA tedi my sissy self protects me somehow gives me comfort makes it ok to have feelings cry be sentimental .Thankyou MISTRESS ERIKA for letting me experience this sincerly beta bottom bitch tedi