Cock control and ruined orgasm is today’s subject, and some naughty strokers are doing for me this month with My Masturbation Calendar. Why ruined orgasm is part of any cock control regime? Because they are “magical” and any cock I’m worthy of controlling needs to be able to run an orgasm, or two or several dozen! Let’s take a look at ruined orgasms and why they are on the table when you give me control of that cock!
Ruined Orgasms
Why Ruined Orgasm
I’ve written about ruined orgasms before on my blog and why would I want a ruined orgasm from you? Because they are such fun for many reasons.
For one it’s evidence of My control. No man will want to give himself a ruined orgasm when a full satisfying O is in site. I appreciate the effort it takes to actually perform and stop stimulating that cock at the right moment. Every ounce of your very being is screaming to keep pumping that cock. The fact you acquiesce to my request, submit to my control is thrilling for me!
Another Reason For Ruined Orgasm
Second they are magical! Like I mentioned above, your get some release from those poor achy balls yet you still stay interested sexually. We all know most men they are LEAST interested in sex, and sexual things after a full orgasm. Some don’t want another SECOND of naughty play, particularly after a very KINKY cum probably the reason some of you just “HANG UP” without even a “thanks good bye!”. Now, mind you, any good pet of mine would NEVER do such a thing, Just using the “OH OH OH and hang up fellas” to illustrate my point.
Still Need More Reasons? Here You Go
Third I love to play with cocks, orgasm and your head. Both of them. I prefer a cock (and the guy attached to it) not to be a “one trick pony”. Sad for those who can only cum by one type of stimulation, the old “UP and down” the meat and potatoes of masturbation. Sure that does the job and is very much needed but a Woman like Me , well I like to mix it up!
Mind Fuck Ruined Orgasm
Now, for your “other head” A ruined orgasm is a total mind/body ‘fuck’. For one you are left unsatisfied, as mentioned above. For the second you are going to be thinking about that ruined O a lot longer than any other O. “Fuck, I can’t believe she had me do that!”. It also leaves your brain and body flooded with those sex hormones which is another “mind fuck” as you are as horny or hornier than before!
Pros and Cons of Ruined Orgasm
The pro list is long, as I’ve sampled above. The cons, not so much. Actually the ONLY ‘con’ i can come up with is they are slightly painful for some men. But that shouldn’t stop you from experiencing them and at least twice! I always recommend you try something new once, twice or even three times before making up your mind about it. Any discomfort only lasts for a few moments, certainly nothing you can’t handle, cupcake. Right? You just might find that discomfort lessens as you have them as your body adjusts.
Ruined Orgasm and Addiction
Are there some who are addicted to ruined orgasms? Sure there are! Once they experience the “magic” for themselves they can become quite addicting. Still sailing high on those delicious sex hormones. Flying in their own special subspace, they never want it to end! I’ll remind you of this fact when you’re begging for release. More MF: “Remember yous said this feels so good? Well I WANT you to feel that good, always! If you cum, it’s over. You don’t really want that , do you? You want to be Strong for me, yes pet. You want to make me so proud of you, humm I’ll be strong for both of us pet. STOP!”
Cock Control And Ruined Orgasm Submissiveness
Considering all that I’ve said today, as you can imagine, ruined orgasms are a fantastic tool to train other behaviors. Not sure what I mean? Well, let’s say a certain someone wanted to eat their cum. But you have always failed Mistresses before.
In reality they are failing themselves, but let’s leave that for another day and another blog.
When you’re sailing in subspace you are more easily coerced. When you truly give up control of that cock and orgasms, you’ll find your inhibitions are lowered, and you will do things , for me , during this time, that you wouldn’t necessarily do at other times. Whatever it is, It all sounds sexy and fun!
This is where I come in. I parlay this state of mind into improving your submissiveness. Improving on your ability to say “Yes, Mistress” with little thought of your own, other than the mechanics to do as I say. Just because I said, just because you trust me. Just because you want to please me, and pleasing me increases your pleasure, all of these factors are paramount and your submissiveness improves.
Then, what behavior would I like? Oh , you mentioned cum eating. Cumming right up! *laughs*
Ways To Ruin Orgasms
There are many ways to ruin orgasms, to detail them all out would be a feat. It’s much easier to direct the stroking and / or perform the ruined O! But I don’t want to leave you high and dry (tee hee) with no direction after I’ve teased ruined orgasms for about (let’s see) 900 words by now!
Ha! Can you tell I’m in a playful mood?
N. E . Way
Some ways to ruin O’s. and a brief description..
- Abandon- Just let the fucker go!
- Scrunch- Squeeze the tip in your fist/fingers
- Slap/cbt ruined orgasm – Slap it at the PONR
- Thumb – Just as it sounds, plug that hole! You can also use a forefinger, or palm of your hand.
Which Ruined O satisfying are different methods?I have a poll up on twitter about ruined orgasms and here’s what the twitter verse said:
I want to know which ruined orgasm method is least satisfying?
— Intelligent Phone Fantasy (@ErikaEnchantrix) January 22, 2020
Here is where we get interactive………
I want you to list below some ways you know of, or have tried, to have ruined orgasms! I would also love to hear of your experience with ruined orgasms. Even if you’ve never experienced on, let me know what you think, now!
Still not sure? Come on guys, it’s ONLY an orgasm. It’s not like your right hand that you are giving up!
You’ll have plenty more unless you are a chastity pet. So let’s give it a try!
Until We Chat ????
Mistress Erika
When You made me ruin the first orgasm, I was addicted. I can’t stop and don’t want to. It’s also a good source of cum. And absolutely abandon! I get so fucking hungry just texting this, I really need a ruined orgasm NOW!!
THANK YOU SO MUCH ERIKA.
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Goddess Erika, I have never had a ruined orgasm before but it sounds different. I am shocked that there can be a ruined orgasm in a chastity cage. How about a ruined orgasm with the ball crusher being used? If it can be done with CBT.
Absolutely! That would be fantastic and your widdle pp can feel even more impotent and loserish!
Lol. I don’t have a least satisfying ruined orgasm. In the rare chance I get to orgasm I prefer it to be ruined. Way more frustrating!
🙂 Ohhhhhhh YEs, yes YES!!
Back before my chastity became permanent i used to enjoy the abandoned orgasm…..stroking to the point of no return and then releasing….only to watch the cum dribble, not shoot out…thus not experiencing the pleasure of a real orgasm. Now that i am locked, ruined orgasms sometimes happen either with an Hitachi providing stimulation OR….from anal prostate vibration and or penetration…..This is the Only way i am allowed and I am lucky to sometimes receive a ruined orgasm!
As it should be #NoMercy for dickless wonders!
Ahhh yes ruined orgasms. That’s where it all began hummmm? Now look at me ????. For me by far the worst way to ruin it is by squeezing the head followed by caged. Look forward to many more with You.
See, they ARE “Magical” , humm, pet? ????
Mmmm RUINED ORGASMS!!!
Miss Erika, such a thrilling topic! In answer to your question, I have tried the “abandon” method a few times (once with you) and the squeeze method. I would say the squeeze method is more undesirable for me. For the record, you had me at “mind fuck.”
Tee hee…….. oh Aaron! Love it! “you had me at mind fuck” Tis true, it is. Isn’t it!
Mistress Erika,
Sometimes a ruined orgasm can be caused by the need for the “other” part of C&N. Yum!
Your Cum Slut C&N Boy toy Tom!
TOM! Oh yes, you naughty boy toy! AND you get more C!
Mistress,
You are so beautiful! ????And thank you for allowing me to eat more cum. BTW.. my Hot Wife just got a Q♠️ tattoo just below her panty line. I can’t wait to fill you in.
Your Cum Slut C&N Boy Toy Tom!
Oh Hells Yes! I would love to be “FILLED IN” Whoo hello
Similar to this!!
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Wow! Amazing , looks sexy ! Enjoy! thanks for sharing naughty one!
Mistress Erika,
I can’t wait to tell you about this! We are hooked!
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Your Cum Slut C&N Boy Toy Tom
Love it! instead of cheap metal though, perhaps a white gold anklet with charms? mmm 😉 She’s worth it!
I always learn so much reading your blog. Thank you for your insights!
You are welcome, Andre’ thanks for stopping by and lending your support! Much appreciated!
You can certainly equate a sissygasm to a ruined orgasm to some extent.However in my experience riding on a Sybian clad in the frothiest little hot pink cocktail dress and heels as Mistress looks on until I dribble out can hardly be described as anything “ruined”! If there was no orgasm how could it be ruined? Tree falls in the forest line of reasoning.
LOL Some great points Little One!
Oh what a treat it would be to see you riding HIGH on that sybian! WHOOP!
Mistress Erika,
Last night we had a long hot discussion and we both want to show my commitment to my wife’s new adventure that we will fully explore as long as we are together. I am going to get a Beta Male tattoo in the same location she has her Q♠️ Tattoo. We also feel that we are ready to have her wear a Q ♠️ ankle bracelet when she is out a bars, clubs and restaurants! Thanks for your support yesterday morning!
What Mine will look like:
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I am off the charts excited!!
Let’s talk soon!
Your Cum Slut C&N Boy Toy Tom
So exciting!!
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absolutely fantastic! 2020 doesn’t know what its in for with you and your #Hotwife! Whoop!
That was just an example. Most definitely… There is a specialty shop in NYC that we will go to that does custom anklets in white gold….. too much FUN
Oh that sounds amazing! Had a great time with you today! #Naughty #boytoy ????
Mistress Erika,
I will never, ever will spill a drop.
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Your Cum Slut C&N Boy Toy Tom
i have really enjoyed the ruined orgasms at the hands of Mistress’s in the past…i can’t think of another state of mind so conducive to eagerly lapping up every bit of cum that results!
i would love to be subject to them again…
Mmmmmmmm Pantysub , Oh yes. How I enjoy RO! Good to see you “here”!