I know if you are a regular to my blog you probably have heard of, or are interested in, cock control at some level. If you’ve never heard of cock control yet through some freak searching engine “accident” you find yourself here, then you were probably using some very naughty words in that search box. *laughs* Didn’t you? Don’t be shy! But regardless, welcome one and all, let’s get down to some hard work. Masturbation May continues with a look at a favorite Femdom activity for me. Cock Control!

Why Men Want Cock Control
Cock Control Fantasy
You love to allow your mind to play with naughty ideas that involve cock control. You imagine yourself delightfully submissive under the control and direction of this raven haired vixen. you dream of you surrendering your mind and body to her. Her simple, curt directives leave you trembling in terror and incredibly aroused. Strip, shave, put on these panties. Kneel. Please Me.
Your head swims as your submissive feelings overwhelm your masculine desire to lead and you spin out of control. So out of control, but so controlled. Heart beating, breath short, those soft stockings, lace panties matching bra and lovely satin slip with the lace border. You take in every detail as you kneel in panties, waiting for her words. Yes, you have been claimed, and now owned by her feminine wiles and your deep desire to please.
Cock Control for Orgasm Quality
I know this will come as a shock to some of you but there are better ways to masturbate that actually increase your performance in the bedroom with the ladies. Or gents, IDK. Whoever is going to be on the other side of your pogo stick will just love your new cock after some control lessons. Guided masturbation sessions, where Mistress gets to say how and when you orgasm will get that cock into shape! You are going to love cock control because your orgasms will be better. I haven’t had a complaint yet. If you are doubting what I say then you haven’t really experienced cock control in any significant way.
Cock Control for the Compulsive Masturbator
I know, you all fall in love with the magic that is your dick *winks* early on, and for quite some time it was fantastic. Everything was new, the wind gave you a stiffy. Some over the top self love is to be expected for this time. But come on, two three more times a day, everyday!? You, sir need some help. But wait, just because you read that and say “Well, Erika, I don’t masturbate THAT much,” doesn’t mean it’s not a problem. Each person is different, and if your masturbation is a problem for any reason we need to chat. Being held accountable, having a guide are all important steps to take towards a more balanced future. You know it, too.
The good news is all of the above reasons are fantastic reasons to start playing with Cock Control today. It’s a lot of fun, and I can’t wait to see how I can control YOUR cock soon!
Stay tuned! Thursday’s blog will continue on with the cock control theme for Masturbation May and feature the power of the ruined orgasm.
Until we chat.
Mistress Erika
Wow that will work great being older I do not have the same drive I did at 20 so yes you have control. I keep it tucked now any way. I look forward to letting you be in control. You own my cock or clit whichever you want to call it
Cock control can sound scary to most guys. They’ve more or less been programmed to believe that control is synonymous with masculinity, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. It takes a lot of strength to be able to let go of the reins for awhile and be able to enjoy yourself. We ladies do it all the time. So what does that say about us? *wink*
You ladies are all fantastic and Erika just took control of mine. Thanks Alexis
Goddess Erika, I guess losing control of my cock would make me more submissive. The reason that i should lose control of my cock is i don’t deserve to cum. inferior loser males just don’t deserve to have control of a little 3 incher when erect.
Ms Erika has controls my cock since I confessed to her about getting off minutes into hour call. Since then she has dressed me in bra/panties/slip/wig/makeup/lipstick/has me wearing dresses along with women’s clothes all the time and even said chastity is needed as well.
Great post…I am not content unless my cock/clit is fully controlled!
Ms. Erika,
Seems to me orgasm quality and compulsive masturbating go hand-in-hand. Those stroking addicts are just like any other junkie – constantly chasing the powerful orgasm they remember. That’s why they need cock control. Only by being denied under the control of strict cocktease can they hope to ever get back to that toe curling, mind blowing cum!