Cock Sucking Men is up next in my submissive male play series. I’ve been talking about other types of submissive male play with many of my pets, and I promise at some point I will get around to YOURS! There are so my fantastic ways we can play it will take some time to get to them all! Since this months Enchantrix Empire’s focus is on our site suck patrol cock sucking male play was moved to the top of the list! That means it bumps yours down the list! (Boo hiss! I hear you)
Motivations For Sucking Cock
When looking into the kinky world of men sucking cock, there are plenty of motivations for a sexy cocksucker, which we will look at some of the more popular motivations. Also, some find it erotic just to practice sucking cock with a cock substitute , aka: Dildo. Incorporate it into a sexy role play. The desires to suck cock, almost always start with a fantasy.
Fantasies For The Cocksucker
We could fill the halls of congress, with all of the fantasies cocksuckers have. It thrills me to know yours! Common fantasies surrounding cock sucking include being exposed as a cocksucker. Perhaps a significant other , or friend discovers your naughty secret, while you are getting hot and horny with a cock!
While cruising for cock among the numerous apps, you make a date with a hot cock. Literally, you’ve not seen his face. but are hungry for what you did see. Call it kismet, your hock cock date turns out to be an old college buddy, or coworker!
Another popular fantasy includes a female energy! When you include a delectable vixen into the mix, amplifying the arousal, with her encouraging or even demanding your cock sucking activities , driving you into a cock frenzy whist tickling your tonsils with my lady dick. Or dare I say sucking cock on cam for me? Explosive!
Many times cock sucking men want to leave it as is. Fantasy. That’s OK!

Cock Sucking Men Real Time
For some, they want to realize their fantasy, and actually bob that knob. For these cocksuckers they are often looking for something along the following lines.
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- Support
- Training
- Sexy coercion
- Guidance
Maybe you weren’t sure before, about wrapping those wet lips around a cock. You just need, let’s say -a nudge, in the right direction. You know you won’t make your goal to suck a cock, without one or more of the above. You want the best possible experience with your first foray with the phallus!
I understand, It’s not the easiest thing to work though! I’m proud to say I’ve helped many wanna be cocksuckers become full fledged cock sluts!

Common Questions Men Who Suck Cock Ask
Will you be come addicted? Will you come out to friends and family? If so , as what? Bi?Gay?It’s overwhelming! For for those who were born in the last century, you have to overcome a lot of negative mindsets about being anything but heterosexual. To be gay, meant life was going to be ten times harder than it already is. Why would someone choose that?
With all of this said, would it surprise you to know not all men who suck cock are bisexual or gay? It’s a common misconception that if a man sucks a cock, or wants to suck a cock , even in fantasy he’s “at least” bisexual. After all, it’s the most common motivation we can wrap our heads around, that man is gay or bisexual. But there are many more reasons! Let’s take a look!
Submissive Cock Sucker
This Submissive is an open book, a canvas for Mistress to create a work of art. If that means sucking a cock because it pleases her then guess what he will do?
That’s right, he will suck cock for her. I know many of you who are in this category! For you, It is the act of submitting and pleasing Mistress which is his focus. He is strong enough, and willing to do and experience anything for her. If given his druthers, he wouldn’t ever be orally pleasing a penis. But he does it because I said he would.

Suck for me
Phallic Focused Cock Sucker
There isn’t a face, name or even body to the penis he pleases with his mouth. The power of the phallus is a common symbol of power in our culture. Some are drawn subconsciously, some consciously, to that power. To harness , enjoy , consume some of that cock is erotic for them!
Focusing on the penis itself, and sometimes the testicles is all they want is to experience! Touching, orally worshiping and pleasing the penis. Often Mistress’ girl cock is the object of lust, for the fantasy player or novice in training.
Feeling her power penetrate your slut hole as you swim down that rabbit hole is enchanting for you. Word of caution, Introducing anything more “male” is a distinct turn off. Often the style is more sensual, encouraging if not manipulative, as well.
Bro Blow
Yep that’s a thing. Two heterosexual males, for whatever reason, find themselves some privacy, a raging libido and away they go. Also known as Straight Cocksuckers. For these guys, there isn’t any pressure or “strings” of a relationship. Just one bro helping another in need. Some men allow men to suck their cock in some convoluted way to demonstrate they are NOT gay. I don’t have my head wrapped around that concept, more diligent research is needed there. If you can help me fill in those blanks, I’m all ears!
Feminization Transgender and Sissy
Not always, but sometimes, when a male has feminine desires their sexual interest focuses on pleasing a cock, as a woman. Being feminized or feminizing themselves part of who they are, and may desire to suck cock as part of their fem persona! Those who are transgender, AND their sexual desires are male oriented are also motivated to please a cock orally.
Next is Sissy cock suckers. They are also feminized, but typically only for erotic play time. For some males with fem desires it’s a way process their desire for cock. A male is given “permission” to crave and please cock, after all that’s what WOMEN DO, right? Typically cock play is seen with sissy’s. But not always. Not all males who find feminization erotic,or call themselves “Sissy” will want to play with a cock. With that said, I’m not going to correct someone who comes to me and says “I am a sissy, but don’t want cock” If identifying and using the term Sissy is important to you, then I’m all in however that plays out.
Humiliated Cock Sucker
Humiliation can take on many forms, and doesn’t always include cock sucking or dildo sucking. Even though our culture has made great strides towards acceptance for same gender sex, being coerced or found out to be a closeted cock sucker hits all those humiliation buttons.
Humiliation and coerced to suck cock are common in many role play sessions. One popular coerced cock sucking role place is: Cuckolding! Cuckolding is a kink chock full of cocksuckers. They get to experience first hand (Mouth? LOL) why they are on their knees being a cuckold fluffer for their hot wife lover’s big cock!
SPH- Small penis humiliation sometimes involves a real man’s cock in some fashion. Either with a simple comparison or looking the shrimp dick holder in the eye and saying “are you fucking kidding me with that?”. But with the inclusion of that itty bitty clitty holder sucking a real cock, the humiliation increases ten fold!
Understanding Cock Sucking Men Play

Are You A Cock Sucker
But Mistress, you don’t have a cock, how can we play? We can play in fantasy, role play,train your cock sucking skills and develop strategies for you finding that fist flesh cock, or simply discuss your desires for cock. I am wise enough to realize not all fantasies are destined to become reality,tell me your boundaries as we negotiate our play.
Don’t forget sucking on that rubber cock counts as a cock , for me. So if you thought “just sucking a dildo” doesn’t make you a cock sucker, you would be sadly mistaken. A cock in representative form counts.
Lastly, it is important to have a Mistress who understands and is experienced with the various types of cock sucking males. It will make your experience that much better. After all, how disappointing if you are a sissy cocksucker, and you are not dressed in your pretties for the event? Conversely, if you are a guy who is cock curious and are considering a bro blow, It won’t be fun for either of us to dress you in a pink maids uniform!
This is why I am here, this is what I do. I create a fantastic experience for us BOTH to enjoy! If your cock sucking type isn’t listed I want to know! For those who are curious, or have played with me and your cock sucking desires, sound off below!
Until We Chat ????
Mistress Erika
Wonderfully post on a subnet near and dear to my subject sissy hearts (and lips)…. It’s almost like you’re able to read out thoughts ! …. Oh wait, it’s not ‘ ‘like you can read our thoughts’…. You obviously can and KNOW what we are thinking and. Craving ????….
Hi prissy! Thanks for stopping by. Yes, I’ve been accused more than once if I can read minds. I always laugh and say “Nope” I read DICKS! LOL
But we know when it comes to you, your lack of DICK speaks VOLUMES! ???????????? #NoMercy
i’m Mistress Erika’s slave, crippled jim.
Mistress Erika, i like to imagine sucking Your lover’s cock, then sitting there denied & ignored as You make love to an actual man. If You pay attention to me at all, it’s only to make fun of me and laugh at me.
crippled jim ????
Hello slave,
I like that image, very much. But I’ll take your submissive /humiliating male sucking cock and raise you twisted testicles. “THEY” say worms suck cock better when their little nuggets are twisted! Ha!
Mistress Erika,
Of course, if my pain can bring You pleasure then i should suffer with twisted testicles for Your amusement.
crippled jim ????
????????????that’s right, worrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrmmmmmmmmmmm
Good post Goddess Erika. I fall under two categories. The Humiliated and submissive one. I have done it in real time with my former friends because you ordered me to do it. The fact is since i always obey you because i am your slave.
When i did it was humiliating because my friends and their girlfriends were there. We had a measured size off and all the men were bigger soft then i was hard and so i was made to suck cock. They showed no mercy on me once they found out that i am still a virgin.
That is one thing Goddess Erika is right about that no one will ever show mercy on a loser like me. It happens even in my working life. No mercy. ????♂️????♂️????♂️????♂️
hello slave,
What a lovely and humiliating confession you just told the WORLD! Yes, peanut smugglers like you don’t deserve mercy, well I guess you are afforded SOME mercy as a matter of course. I mean, I am replying to your message, I DO allow you to STFU and kneel and absorb my Goddess energy, on ignore calls! SO , there’s some but just a small crumb, perhaps just enough to sustain your duties. ????
Thanks Goddess Erika for giving this lowly slave a small crumb.????♂️????♂️????♂️ It is more then i deserve. Hopefully i can pay you to do e-mails soon. As i know you need to get caught up. That is my job to make sure you stay caught up on e-mails after all. I did get a phone in but i am having hard time activating it because the site want take the numbers. Hopefully soon.
Mmmm delicious, it is your job to make sure I am well taken care of, and pay me to do routine tasks I don’t usually get direct payment from. There are a few emails in there today I need to attend, get those fingers a dialing, slave!
Part of me is fighting to resist the labels in your post, Headmistress Erika.
Then I feel your smirk and I begin to blush.
Because we both know the truth.
Then I hear your laughter.
People turn to look.
You laugh even louder, this time in a clearly derisive tone, as though to bait them.
I have a small penis…
Pee wee! LOL you are right you hear my laughter and FEEL it in your bones, as you tremble and stumble on your words, becoming more flustered, and embarrassed feeling raw , vulnerable and small!! *smirk* you are not the only one who is afraid of Women.
Love this post. I love sucking Cock for a variety of reasons. First I love the physical act of it. Second the whole idea of submitting to another Man is mind blowing (no pun intended). Third is the humiliation of it which ties into the submission of it.
I am definitely in the Submissive/ Sissy / Humiliated Cocksucker….And I loooove it. ????
Hi Stephanie!
Thanks for stopping by! I am glad you enjoyed! humm a submissive, sissy humiliated cocksucker , is it? Yumm! Thanks for sharing part of yourself with me and the rest of the folks in my orbit! ????
A wonderful dissertation on the topic. Sexy, informative, instructive, honest, and dare I say, tantalizing.
Personally, I have limited experience in cock sucking. But, if it pleases my Mistress then I am all ears….errr…mouth?
thank you
Thank you wellspanked! and ???????? thanks for the smiles on a Friday Morning!
Hi Ms Erica, Loooove this post !! It is so sexy , I think i fit into the closet sissy category for sure I have only had the pleasure of sucking twice, but it was fantastic !! Ive been on the dildos etc forever it seems lol, On the common question category, I can vouch for the becoming addicted part, for sure, lol I am just really kinda cautious / paranoid with all the promiscuous crazy stuff going on out there !! Its hard to know whos been where these days!! ive seen alot of risky behavior out there !! thanks for the hot post xoxos !!
viola! Thanks for stopping by and leaving a comment! You do bring up a great point about risk! It isn’t a simple process to ensure safety, but lawdy lawd lawd is it WORTH it to get on that D! Don’t you think, girlie, girl?
Mmmmmmm Hmmmmmm it sure is Ms Erica !! makes me feel all girly n squirmy sitting here thinking about it lol thanks for the reply so hotttt !! xoxos its been to long hope i get some soon !! lol
xoxox ????????m
One thing for sure, the cravings for cock doesn’t go away.
And the yearning for control is overwhelming.
I truly need.
*smirk* Told ya, slut. ????Good to see you here! We’ll have to catch up, soon!
Yes Mistress Erika.
You are so correct.
mmmm I just love reading your posts about sucking cock . I get so much encouragement from your articles and comments on sucking cock . I went to a gay bar Friday night . I think after reading this I am going to the gay beach to look for cock right now!
TY AST!
I just got back from the beach . Surprise Surprise Surprise. Took a walk in the woods and I got with a guy with a nice along and touched his and before I could suck him he sucked me. I came in his mouth another man watched pulled his out and this 19 year old guy sucked him .I talked him into to try being a sissy he is an ass virgin and looking to bottom . I told him to go to the more isolated beach and layout wearing a thong. A thong invites ass action. I also told him about Enchantrix Empire
Thank you, AST for sharing your experience with us! Double thanks for sending him our way! 🍆💦👍
OMG it just dawned on me if I had stayed in chastity this wouldn’t have happened like this.
Ha Ha LOL😆😆