Hey there, cock control fans, I have a confession to make. I’m a cock tease! I know, SURPRISE! Ha ha! This statement probably made some of you laugh, others who may not be intimately knowledgeable of me are, hopefully , very interested at this point. Confident sexy women appreciate the power we have over that naughty dick, and well, males you love that power too, don’t you? Everyone loves a bit of a tease, right? Igniting the imagination, and your nether regions with subtle and not so subtle ways. Making you want more, explore more , feel more. Mmm… See what a tease can do? You are still reading these words, right? Your eyes traveling side to side, drinking in each word, waiting for me to be more sexy, more taunting and even more of tease? First things first in the art of cock control is the tease….
Read on for some more naughty bits
Art of Cocktease
Life Long Cock Tease
Ever since I can remember, and for the sake of this blog and keeping the status of my freedom as it is, let’s just say I was 18. All I knew is that I wanted to be liked, and liked by this particular guy! Trying to gain his attention. When low and behold, I started to notice the simplest of things would get me that attention! Sure, a low cut blouse or short shorts got me attention but , previously, eh, not the attention I was looking for, necessarily. I was young and not looking for a fuck, just romantic attention. So back to those simple things. Like playing with my lips. Either with my tongue, finger or even a Popsicle or lollipop. (listen to the audio for more ways I tease) The next thing I know, my crush is finding ways to hang out with me!
Cock Tease: It Clicks
Fast forward and I find myself teasing him , in what I thought was a non sexual way, with my wit and humor. I said something naughty but fun and he pretends to be offended and “get me”. Giggling and laughing I “try” to run but of course he catches me from behind and hugs me tight. That’s the day, I felt his hard penis against my ass as we play wrestle. It turned me on but not being who I am “now,” that arousal went nowhere except in the vault of my learned behavior. It was summer and I made it my mission, to learn more. Do more. It’s all I thought about day and night! I don’t have to PUT out, just allude to the possibility of more, and I get what I want. Right guys? Get that motor running, and you are putty in our hands.
Cock Teasing and Edging
So it wasn’t for a few years that my love of teasing cock took on an entirely different meaning and level regarding Female Control or Cock Control. But those early years were so hot and horny it really is what we spend so much time today doing. Recapturing that passion, the long periods of arousal when making out , “petting” as my G-ma would say! (OH, Grandma! ha ha). In many ways, I was edging cocks long before I knew what I was doing. Bringing them to the brink of ecstasy, but never following through. Come on guys, admit it! You dream of earlier years making out the complete desperation and level of arousal which felt like it could crush you. Feeling good, feeling “high” from extended arousal. Mmmm, I know my panties are wet just writing about it!
Edging and Conditioning Your Mind
A few years later when learning more about behavior, how behaviors are formed how the mind can be manipulated into new behaviors is when I realized the power of orgasm edging. How simply intoxicating it is for us both. When that first lover, gave up control. When he allowed me to control his cock and his mind for the first time, is when my Femdom was born.
But I’ve been going on and on. I have to go. Perhaps I’ll write about that first lover, my first submissive next time? But only if you want me to. Do you? Want me to?
*giggles*
Until we chat
Cock Tease Mistress Erika
I’d love to be in relationship like this where women does dress me up and teases me. To have me in bra/panties under my boy clothes would be sweet!!! Masseuse kinda has done thi but she watches over my spending and well being which is good. She does spray me in perfumes and lotions for my massages and uses them on my cheeks. I asked her to keep doing this and she has. I’ve fallen into to the friend zone which has pretty much ended any type of relationship. As I said before the ship has sailed as most women are married with kids and I’m not.
Hey petey! Thanks for stopping by! Girls need girl friends, so just because you are in the “friend zone” doesn’t mean you can’t have fun! You’re a girl, girls have girlfriends. You can learn a lot about BEING a girl from your friends, ya? It’s all a matter of how you look at it.
Your right Ms Erika-I am a girl, after all what real man has bras given to him such as I? No to many. I have leaned a lot about being girlish from my masseuse as she gave me her old bras. She & I have same size and cup in 38dd. I’m a part of her with this happening. She’s using perfumes and lotions on my massages as well on my cheeks and spraying me all over my arms/chest/back and behind my ears along with using same facial lotion she uses. I’ve told her everything about myself in dressing up at home as it’s so enjoyable and she asked if I ever got caught and I said no. With her controlling my spending so I can do massages 3xweek for 2 hours and monthly waxings I don’t dare question or back talk her. She has her nails dug into me with no intention of ever letting me go as she has total control of me.
Mmmmmmmm Oh petey! I sure bet she does. You can feel those nails now, hummm?❤????
Goddess Erika the cock tease. Something tells me i don’t qualify. Yes i would like to hear about Your first submissive. I love reading no matter what you write about.
TFTT, well you might qualify. But by very little. *tee hee* Get it? Very little ????❤????????
I don’t want my masseuse to let me go!!! After last night with tennis girls I’m in friend zone with them as relationship is out of question as they are in 20s and at my age there’s to much of 20 some year gap. It was fun going out but after much much much thought I’d rather stay home and dress up as girl and do regular calls with you and the mistresses for regular feminization training. The ship sailed on finding girls to dress me up????????. The tennis girls don’t know I dress. My masseuse sprayed me in perfume last night and no one noticed ????????. It’s bummer but I’m done with the socializing as I’m left out and have accepted that I am a cream puff girl forever who would rather have all of you continue my feminization.
Petey! Girls need girlfriends! Do not give up on socializing. Please understand as Women we are conditioned by our upbringing to be polite and being polite is not bringing up something that might embarrass another.
So the ladies , I am sure did NOTICE but wanting to “Include you” and not put you on the spot, or potentially embarrass you. Kept silent about it and just accepted you for you, smelling pretty and fem!
It’s only when you encounter Women like us, at LDW. Ones who understand the needs of a cream puff girl, embrace and share the love of being a girl with you, that you find what you are looking for and are wanting and willing “to go there” with you.
Men, however are raised to be assholes to each other when they want a “friend” to be included. You see it all the time. “busting balls” they call it. Humm?
I love sitting on a chair across from u naked wearing only my stockings garter belt with straps and my extremely high 10 inch high heels with my legs crossed and I tease me
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha! YOU ARE a FILTHY WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOORRRRRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
FILTHLY WHORE TOM I love wearing my 10 inch high heels with my nylons and u make walk sexy in them and shake my hips and I hear my high heels clicking on a hardwood floor
I have always supported confident, attractive women like you. I love the power you have over me. I am still reading your words.
I appreciate how you wrote “Art of the cocktease”.
I wish you want to be liked by me, too!!!
I love listening to your pretty voice.
Like your crush, I would love to find ways to hang out with you.
I agree, all you have to do is get the motor running and I will do your bidding.
Your grandma was very mature in knowing about “petting”.
I wish you would have edged my cock too.
I wish you would crush me.
❤???? Hey there adam! Your wishes COULD come true, to a certain extent. Let’s get to know each other better!
So imagine that power you mention a confident sexy women such as yourself has over a cock Miss Erika. *squirm*
Now imagine that cock was …
1) Already very horny before you even started on it!
2) Denied, so unable to get any relief even after you had finished cockteasing it.
3) Not in physical chastity, so there’s no barrier preventing you from doing anything you wanted with it!
And you can start to appreciate just HOW vulnerable I am to an experienced and hot cocktease like you! *adjusts erection*
petertease! Hey there! Good to see you here! We miss you at Enchantrix Empire, but I get the ebb and flow of life, and when things change up, you have more time we’ll see you there more often!
Peter I love the additions you mentioned, and love how your mind works!
Hi Miss Erika, *squirm* it’s good to hear from you, too!
Regarding the additions, that’s how Miss Violet, *squirm* has me living my life. Always horny, and always SO vulnerable to any cocktease that wants to take advantage of me! *adjusts erection*
Ms Violet is as brilliant as she is sexy!
Oh, so are you saying that you are in agreement with her Miss Erika? *squirm*
But she also says that I should be kept heavily teased? *adjusts erection*
Hey Petertease!
I do agree with Ms Violet. Tease tease, and more teasing and DENIED!
NO orgasm!
Well, maybe there are SOME ,right? A couple of O’s a year ,yes?
It is a special treat for you When Ms Violet allows such things!
But Miss Erika, *squirm* it sounds like you’re saying that cockteases should take advantage of me whenever they get the chance, even when I’m already very horny? *adjusts erection*
Miss Violet *squirm* has allowed me 3 O’s since New Year, but it has been over a month since the last one!
You are spot on, peter! *giggles* Only 3? O MAH!
Oh, I am Miss Erika? *squirm* Well I suppose I’m lucky then that you haven’t confess to being a one of those cockteases? Oh, … wait! *adjusts erection*
ha ha ha ha Ohh peter! you’re fun!
Why thank you Miss Erika, *squirm* and you’re hot! *adjusts erection*
I would like to be more intimately knowledgeable of you.
I am glad that you wanted to be liked; and, I can definitely love you. I hate the guy you wanted to be liked by!
I would love to have “hung out” with you, as you seem so sweet.
I would appreciate being putty in your hands.
Oh Adam!
Not sure why this comment needed to be approved, and the other not but here we are!
That guy is long gone, left in the dust of my tracks! No reason to expend hatred energy. ????
Save that energy for me!
I am a very sweet soul. Nice for you to notice!
However, my sweet nature only belies what is inside, what your submission to me, brings forth. I wouldn’t say I’m necessarily the stereotypical Dom of having a capricious nature.
But a leader I am, in charge, and one who loves to play with men’s bodies and minds!❤????
There’s a meme I saw that represents me almost to a T.
I’m mostly peace love and light, and a bit of “go fuck yourself”
Let’s just say you want to stay in my good graces!
I can’t stop thinking about You; and, what You have to offer me.
I appreciate that You are a very sweet soul and You liked me noticing.
I am considering letting You play with my mind and body…
I have decided that I would love to replace that guy and “hang-out” with a sweet woman!
Currently, ILIKE You a lot!
I will submit to You tease me. I am humiliated that You learned quick.
I still dream of
Mmmmmmm talk about cock teasing! You are Mistress Teasing, naughty naughty! ????❤
I hope I impressed you!
I can’t state enough how much I appreciate that you learned early.
I am debating whether I should have you as my Mistress…I would like to know if there is a connection.
Dear Man with an iconic name, you won’t know until you pull that trigger! Word and comments in an R rated world can only go so far. I say if you are still sniffing around (how many days later?) you owe it to yourself, and ME to call and find out.
I appreciate how your grandma called long periods of arousal “petting”. I do dram of earlier years making out with the complete desperation that felt like it could crush me.
I would sell my soul for that “high” again!
I would let you manipulate my mind into new behaviors.
I would like for you to write more about this.
I would love to be known as “Grandma’s Boy.”
Adam!
Hey there, back for more, are you? Well we have to connect so I can learn more about you!
Thanks for stopping by my little space in cyberspace!
Dear Mistress Erika,
i am here checking out Your earliest blogs, discovering who You are. i like what i see. i love Your reminiscences about those teen years. Discovering Your sexuality. And how You discovered Your inner Mistress. i have fond memories of my high school sweethearts. And those prolonged make out sessions, heavy petting, and steaming up the car windows! Getting to know You is a joy! i am SO looking forward to our first call!
Lust!
jagoff
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Mistress Erika,
I can picture you making me BEG for release only to apply ice to my cock making it flaccid, then taking me to the brink again. You laugh and tell me if I don’t like it, I’m free to walk away. Oh, wait…