Hey there naughty f’er! Looking for some Cuckolding Mistress Tips? Welcome to cuckolding 101 with your favorite smart ass Goddess! I know I’ve written a lot about cuckolding over the years but it’s always good to refresh! Cuckolding is a complex dynamic that involves a LOT of “other” kinds of kink. There is no one size fits all, but there are some common elements that I’ll discuss today.
If you don’t identify as a cuck, or are not aroused by the thought of cuckolding, don’t click away!
1- That would make me very sad! The longer you stay and the more pages you visit the better it is for me!
2- Cuckolding involves or CAN involve lots of other yummy kinky elements so perhaps ONE is up your ally!
The Cuckold Third Element
The main difference between cuckolding and all the kinky behavior that may ensue is the element of that “Third Other”. This “other” receives all the sexual accolades. Most importantly this third element is desired by your love interest, over you.
Now you might think I’m trying to be difficult with the use of “other”. Some of you are saying “Just say STUD or Bull“. The reason I don’t jump to those stereotypical terms, when it comes to the umbrella term of “cuckolding” there isn’t necessarily that element. Only with a narrow view of cuckolding that you think your love interest is interested in cuckolding you with another male. (WOOOOOOOOT?)
That’s right. Your love interest stepping outside of your relationship and getting the pleasure she deserves doesn’t necessarily involve another male. Ever hear of lesbian cuckolding, toy cuckolding? In both of these scenarios the “Other” is not a male.
Can you imagine your love interest cuckolding you with another woman? Many enjoy lesbian porn, you don’t have to deal with your feelings about seeing another hot n hard cock.
How about she’d rather have sex with a TOY, over you? Talk about “mind fuck” , hum? “OK hunnykins time for m
e to have some pleasure, please fetch me my vibe! Ha ha, you get to sit outside listening to her moan or better yet, sit in a chair as you see how a TOY pleases her better than you ever could.
Another cuckolding Mistress tip will be: when talking in general terms about cuckolding, the labels of stud or bull may not be welcomed by the participants. By all means if it gives a rise to your fries and drives you insane to hear “Oh that big bull cock feels Soooo GOOD!” then I will employ that tool!
Cuckolding Basics
Most who are interested in cuckolding usually come about it in one of two ways. Either a nice long jerk-o-thon and you stumble upon some hot cuckolding porn. You, identify with the cuckold, vs the woman or the other partner and “away we go!”. Your brain screams “Yes yes MORE OF THAT” and Voilà, a cuckie is created!
Others have been cuckolded in their relationships. Although painful at first, their journey turned into something erotic. Processing the emotions upon finding out or encouraging your love interest to “get what she deserves” is a total Mind Fuck for many. Many who love cuckolding turn those strong emotions into erotic arousal and interest!
Cuckolding always has an element of humiliation in it. The humiliation can be mild and sensual, all the way through to soul searing and debasing.
Otherwise ya just have some sexy people having some sexy fun!
Cuckolding Journey
There is no right way or wrong way to be a cuckold. That’s really the main cuckolding Mistress tip I have. It really is up to the Woman In charge, traditionally referred to as the hot wife. So if it pleases her to have you in pink panties, in a chastity cage and fluffing her lover then that’s what, ultimately, you’ll be doing.
Some will never get so intimate and close to their love interests sexual pleasure. Perhaps you get to hear first hand. Kneeling at the door listening in. Or even more removed than that: they get to hear naughty stories regaling the accolades of their sexual satisfaction at the hands of another..
Cuckolding desires
Some kinky elements which can be found in cuckolding fun:
More cuckold Mistress tips would be that one or more of these kinky activities may be found in a cuckolding journey! But I have to warn you, wherever you start on your cuckolding journey, chances are as you grow into your role you might find yourself incorporating some of these kinky activities in your future. It is the nature of the game, the more you play the more you want those boundaries pushed!
Feminization– The cuckold is not only humiliated by not being the “man” and being replaced. But you are also physically transformed on the outside to match your weak persona.
Servant /Submissive– Not necessarily feminization but definitely existing in a submissive role. An apron wearing servant for the Alpha couple. You get to pay for her baubles, clothes , car etc. You get to serve them meals , keep house whatever makes her life easier. Plus you never know, she might take pity on your peanut and let you stroke and squirt on her leg!
Bi-sexuality– Adding a cock sucking element to cuckies play, turns you into a cock sucking cuckold! Getting that hot cock ready for her! But not only cock sucking is in play! It can include stroking and even cuckold ass pounding. This is a difficult element for some cuckolds, others take to it like they were gay, or something. *shrug*
Ha ha *winks* Seriously, tho. Many with repressed bi-sexual urges find their place as a cock worshiping cuckold at the behest of their love interest. After all you’re “not gay” you just suck cock as a cuckold, right? *smirk*
Chastity – Orgasm control is often a favorite past time for Any Dominant Woman and cuckolding is no exception. Although many cucks don’t have much of a cock, those little buggers still work FOR THEM, just not for her. I don’t mean erectile dysfunction, I’m talking pussy rejection, sweet pea. It is well known that if you control the cock you control the man, and chastity training is a great way to train that male brain and is as easy as Ring, Cage and Lock!
Humiliation – As I’ve mentioned before , for it to be considered cuckolding some level of humiliation is present. The humiliation can remain purely in the cucks head, all the way to harsh degradation. Do you know where you are in the cuckold humiliation continuum?
Each one of these elements are chock full of details and each can easily be an entire blog post as a continuum for My Cuckolding Mistress tips. My question to you is: Are YOU interested in delving Deeper? Let me know!
Cuckolding Mistress Tips – Sessions
There are a lot of emotions and things to work through, when you are a cuckold. Not only what I do involves erotic sex play but being a sounding board, and having a safe place to be is always needed when you are a cuckold.
If you are turned on but are afraid to go down that “rabbit hole”, I understand! It’s true, cuckolding is a very challenging kink on many levels, in particular for the cuck. You were conditioned that as a “man” you shouldn’t enjoy this kind of erotic play! So why does your dick get hard thinking about it? I understand your reservations and know you might have questions that you can’t discuss with anyone else, hat’s why I’m here!
If you are into role play cuckolding sessions, or needing cuckold training to help and support through your journey I’m but a phone call away! With role-playing sessions, we work through the behaviors required of you as a cuck. Much of your consternation about being a cuck, can be about how well you perform. Could you imagine the horror if you spit out, or gagged on Her lovers big cock? You want to perform your duties well, after all it is the ONLY way you’ll please her. Since your male appendage doesn’t do it.
Cuckold Assignment
For my last Cuckolding Mistress Tips is an assignment. After all if you are a cuck, you need to learn to obey!
For your cuckold assignment listen to the audio, and obey! I’d love to hear your thoughts!
Until We Chat ????
Cuckold Mistress Erika
Erotic Audio
Goddess Erika, Another great post. I have always thought of cuckolding as being hot. The thing is though that i am not even worthy of being a cuckold. As most cuckold’s aren’t virgin’s. I like most of your kinky elements. Especially harsh degradation and chastity. One that i really like that you don’t know about is servant/submissive in one way. I have always thought about serving a Dominant Power Couple. Which includes a Master and a Mistress. I hope you don’t think i am weird but i think a Master brings a whole new element to domination while going along with a Goddess.
Can’t wait for ignore call #3 tonight.
Well Hello there tiny !
I happen to be on the phone with you right now, as you are kneeling on your knees. Experiencing Goddess in her home. What a lucky virgin loser you are, humm?
XOXO
Off to make some popcorn, shower pedicure and mmmmmmmm what else? We shall see!
❤????????????????
Goddess Erika, I did hear you make the popcorn and eat it. This was the best ignore call so far. I also love that you get paid to be pampered like getting your feet massaged.
hi slave! What fun! Yep popcorn was YUMMY!
Did you enjoy being propped upon the laundry hamper in the owners suite bath while I showered and listened to music?
Then there was that lovely foot massage, painting my pretty toes listening to TV and talking about Murr from the tenderloins!
I had a lot of fun! Did you hear the part where you should pay me to take a nap? ????????
Yes i loved the part where you showered and listened to music. I did hear the part about me paying you to take a nap. That was funny. Would you want to get paid to nap? Maybe after the pool party one. This has me wondering about how many things can you get paid to do while ignoring me? There a lot things you can do.
LOL oh slave, 2021 is going to be fantastic!
Mistress Erika,
Another GREAT and long awaited blog post. And it is my favorite subject! Cuckolding truly includes so many kinky elements. You have nailed it!
I am so fortunate to have an amazing mature Wife that has made our journey in to cuckolding include everything you described above, other than Chastity. Yes, you are correct, she does cuckold me with her bi-female friend. You know I dream about her elegant pussy lips.
Of course our journey may have never happened without your early and continued guidance in to the kinks I have experienced and now can’t live without.
# Erika Addict
Your C&N, Cum Slut, Boy Toy, Erika Addict Tom A.
oh Tom! Thank you for your support and kind words! I know you’ve come a long way and I’m so happy and proud of you! More fun in 2021, ????
Do you think my cabi friend has made me into her cuckold sissy girl? There’s no sex just her dressing me as a girl. Honestly I don’t mind as I told her I wear women’s clothes and since then she’s measured/fitted me in her old bras along with wearing dresses/blouses/women’s turtleneck sweaters/leggings/yoga pants/wigs/makeup and lipstick. Especially saying she’s super excited about helping/dressing and keeping me as a girl all the time with having cabi fashion experiences when new clothes are released 2x year. Just bummed out there’s no harmless lipstick kisses on my cheeks.????????
Hi Ms Paulina!
What a fantastic suggestion! True she has sex with another, and not you. Interesting observation!! Oh For most lipsticked kisses are “harmless” but come on hunny bunny, our delightful cream puff girl, those lipsticked kisses FOR YOU explosive! *winks*
Stayed to read the whole post, Mistress Erika. And, glad I did.
The thought of being cucked by a dildo sparked some naughty thoughts. Especially employed as a strap on, by me, while in chastity. That’s a fantasy I could get behind….pun intended. LOL
I love the audio addendum, great way to enhance the blog. An answer to one of the questions. Wearing panties is arousing to me when done on command. I’m also finding more and more that humiliation in some ways arouses me mentally, while my cock often doesn’t respond the same way…interesting to me.
Mmmmmmmm Interesting WS, interesting!! and LOL with your funny punny!!
Mistress Erika,
I can comment on this blog topic all day long! ????
One of my top 5 kinks: The time my wife had me and her lover BO on her strap-on. She then took turns entering our butts using our mixed cum on the dildoe as lube. She then made us take turns eating her out. It doesn’t get much hotter!
#Erika Addict
Your C&N, Cum Slut, Boy Toy, Erika Addict, Tom
Oh you are living up to your moniker “cum slut” ohhhhh yea!
Loved your share!!
Great post and audio…..Humiliation, serving, fluffing, chastity, sissy wear….pussy denial are all part of my cuckold experiences! Thanks for the cuck 101……Now on to graduate studies lol!
Thank you prissy!! You are right, onto graduate studies! LOL you are ‘advanced’ for sure! Thanks for stopping by!!
Mistress Erika,
Another top 5 kink: The day my wife got her permanent Q♠️ tattoo on her left side just above her pubic hair line but below her panty line. Hot, Hot, Hot!
She can get me hard instantly every time she tells me to kiss it!
I am sure the Cuckold lifestyle is not for everyone, but if you have a Wife that craves it and a Mistress that helps you understand and prepare you for the fluffing and clean-up duties there is absolutely nothing more exciting and fun.
Your C&N, Cum Slut, Boy Toy, Erika Addict, Tom
Mistress Erika; From the wealth of information you provide in this blog post it is my opinion that I could quite easily find myself as a cuckold.
Not “clicking away” as per your instructions, combined with my penchant for pretty panties (and all things frilly) my diminutive dinky and to have it teased and humiliated willingly certainly sound like qualities that “fit the bill”…(or should that be “fit the bull”?)
In addition my recent foray into self imposed chastity may raise expectations, (well at least “something” is getting raised!) for a successful introduction to a new, for me, kink.
Down the rabbit hole? Methinks if I indulge in this new twist I doubt that I will be going down the rabbit hole, or anyone else’s hole for that matter. Going down however, sounds like a certainty. In all likelihood I think it will be my holes that will be travelled down, be it by the bull or Mistress’s strap on.
Certainly I seem to have checked off a number of the boxes in this post
Thanks Mistress Erika for yet another informative, enjoyable and (of course) deliciously naughty read.
Oh my darling little pink peg! As your moniker suggests your diminutive size ????certainly sets you up to be the receiver rather than the giver! Add to that your lovely submissive nature and you have all the makings for a pretty in pink panties sexual aid for larger endowed males ????and my lovely bouncy strap on!
I am THRILLED over your chastity and how lovely of and effect on your mind! Opening up to ALL the possibilities! YAY! ????????
“Locked” and “loading” (as I am sure you’re aware!☺️)
Thank you for such a lovely reply Mistress Erika
Mistress Erika,
I have another top 5 cuckold kink I have experienced with my Wife:
The day she surprised me in a hotel bar picking up a late 20s beautiful woman. After a number of drinks and flirting they decided that we should all go up to our room. i thought I was in for a hot WWM threesome. Was I ever wrong! My wife had arranged to meet our beautiful third on-line. The surprise was that “she” was a pre-op trans with a full functioning 8” you know what. I couldn’t believe the fun the three of us had that night into the next morning. Of course “she” was there to please my wife but was a lucky Cuckold and got to enjoy the fun.
An incredible Hot Mature Wife, An Amazing Mistress Erika, A desire to eat Cum everyday…What more do I need?? I am so fortunate!
Your C&N, Cum Slut, Boy Toy, Erika Addict, Tom
Hi Tom! What a fantastic addition! If I follow you correctly Your lovely Hot wife met the transgirl on line and arranged for her to met her (and you , ultimately) at that bar?
You know I adore your lovely wife, she’s definitely has you owned and serving her every desire!!
You are a lucky Boy TOY!! ????????
Mistress Erika,
Yes, you are correct! All pre-COVID of course!
AND YES, I am a lucky Boy Toy, I have her and I am allowed to have you too. ????
# Erika Addict
Your C&N, Cum Slut, Boy Toy, Erika Addict, Tom
Mistress Erika,
Another top 5 Cuckold Kink: Creampies
A Cuckold lifestyle provides for an endless number of Creampies to be savored, enjoyed and every drop consumed!
Traditional filled pussy – Dive in and be the best clean-up boy you can be. If you are fortunate, sometimes your partner will need you to enter her for sloppy seconds. A double load mix Creampie should be your greatest reward. You will always remember your first.
Anal Creampie – Dive in there too! Of course on a rare occasion your partners Lover will require that his prostate be massaged with your less than adequate pecker. Make sure you satisfy him and clean him up!
Finally the oral Creampie (Snowball): I love when my Wife snowballs me with her lovers cum or mine. Yum, Yum, Yum!
Mistress Erika can help you fulfill your Cuckold Creampie dreams and fantasies. She helped me make all mine real.
Your C&N, Cum Slut, Boy Toy, Erika Addict Tom
Oh tom! You could write a blog all about those yummy cream pies! Gives me ideas! Not all cucks get to imbibe in the creamy goodness, lucky for you……. YOU have!
You are such a great submissive, cum slut boy toy and Erika Addict! Yay!! ????????
Mistress Erika,
My Ultimate Cuckold Fahtasy:
Waking up in the morning, rolling over and having my Wife tell me “ there is more clean-up work down there for you” AND then realizing you are on the other side of me and saying “same here Boy Toy”
Wow…..
Your C&N, Cum Slut, Boy Toy, Erika Addict , Tom
Miss Erika,
Knowing my ex wife was busy with a local cop still turns me on! I think I’m a natural cuck as it took no time at all for me to accept my role. She fucked as much as she wanted and h cleaned up. Win win!
And like any good cuck, aaron you knew your wife (at the time) couldn’t be pleased by your gay dick, after all “he” wasn’t really into it, humm? Yes, every cuck is “lacking” something in the bedroom. Be it size, skill, ability and interest. You have challenges in more than one of these arena’s! Plus getting to slurp the cop urp was/is more exciting for you than just pussy, humm?
Cuckolding and sissy humiliation are the bulk of my calls Ms Erika. Combining them is the real fun!
Hi Ms Britany!
Thanks for stopping by! I’m with you, girl: Popular and FUN FUN FUN!
Hey , we’ve not played together in a while……… we should! Hear that naughty cuckolds? The more sissy the better
get on the phone ask for us both and can you say “blow your sissy mind” LOL I can! Woo hoo!
Mistress Erika,
I’m happy I found your blog. I can imagine you & your lover taking me to a restaurant, in my wheelchair, so I can watch you enjoy the 5 star meal and champagne I buy for you. Then you’d take me home and wheel me into the bedroom where I’d be expected to sit quietly and watch you enjoy Earth-shattering sex and a comfortable night’s sleep. Can you picture it?
Thank you for giving m an outlet.
Gratefully,
Jim
Hi Jim! I’m so glad you did find my blog! I wonder how that happened? #EmailSignature #YouPaidAttention LOL
Oh Jim, I do like that idea! I deserve a nice meal with a sexy man, humm?????