Today’s blog is a follow up from last week when I talked about Coached Cum Eating. Join me as we take a closer look at the winning vote for cum eating lessons. I put up a poll to see which method you want used to help a virgin cum eater swallow that first load of hot white cum!
The winning vote was so interesting, and as I started to write about it , I realized this subject will need to be covered over a few blogs! The reason behind my madness will unveil itself right before your very eyes. Stay Tuned!
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Most Effective Cum Eating Lessons
I would be hard pressed to guarantee success with one method or the next. People are funny creatures, so dynamic, diverse and complex you just can’t say there is ONE method that has more success than the next for every single person. It also depends on your goals regarding eating your own cum. If your goal as a Mistress is to have the sub eat cum, then a threat to (or actually) throttle you and /or pull on your nut sack until you are screaming in pain will make sure you eventually acquiesce. Unless you get the subbie that prefers nut sack torture or throttling, right? Then perhaps negative punishment works best for them.
Mind Fuckery Not Necessarily Evil
But if you are like me, and “enjoy the journey” and would like to have an everlasting effect on behavior and desires, then one of the most enjoyable way to change a person’s behavior, some might view as mind fuckary. I don’t necessarily think it as “mind fuckery”, nor do I think all mind fuckery is all evil. Don’t get excited, mind fuck/behavior modification is something we all have either done, participated in with others and encouraged by lack of omission. So we are really just discussing where on the continuum we feel comfortable playing with and allowing in our lives. Right? Also, never fear, no one is doing anything without consent!
Beneficial Behavior Modification
Now, let’s explore and have some fun! But perhaps I’m preaching to the choir? After all, you are here because you have an interest and are not easily offended, are you? So then, let’s roll. Mind Fuckery: the process of changing your mindset, then your behavior to achieve the desired result.
But, if you come to me with a goal and ask for my suggestions, I am more likely to suggest a several-pronged approach to achieving the goal. Many of which were on the poll. Yes, including mediation, masturbation affirmations. Negative punishment, positive punishment and another popular one is food play. I personally think it’s fun to play with a bit of food! Bread is a trusted choice, but perhaps your favorite food would be more palatable? Pair up the favored thing, with the less desired ingredient and you can have some fun with food. I have to give a big shout out to one voter, who voted under the “OTHER” option. They said to use coconut oil as lube to add a nice flavor! Several others thought more than one approach would be fun as well! Thank you for your input.
Eating your own cum is easy when you work with a coach. On your call we’ll discuss various lessons, to encompass the protocol that would be best for you. Don’t delay Oh, wait…please Delay ???? , call me and let’s create a customized cum eating lessons today!
Tune in Friday when I announce a very hot promotion for Affirmation April!
Oooh, you know what? Coconut oil is a genius way to sweeten the load when trying out cum eating! I wish I had thought of that. Organic raw coconut oil tastes sweet, and I’ve even put it in coffee (whipped in with an immersion blender to help with the texture). It’s also very slippery and wouldn’t dry up like water based lubes would!
Piper, our readers often come up with very clever ideas! Why I felt compelled to put the “other” option on the poll. Glad I did!
MS ERIKA has made me HER cum-luving sissyfaggot. i had always thought about eating my own cum when i would masturbate, but i would always pussy out afterwards. NO MORE. It really wasnt a certain lesson or anythng specific, it was because i knew how much it would please MS ERIKA if i did it for HER. i get a warm feeling in my body/mind when im able to please HER and/or make HER smile. Now i have “cum” to make it part of my allowed sissygasms. i ALWAYS now clean up ALL of my messes. MS ERIKA has instructed me several ways for me to eat my cum. i get VERY excited when SHE decides i have earned a release & will email me INSTRUCTIONS on how SHE wants me to cum & how i am to clean up. It reinforces HER CONTROL over me. i think my favorite way now is to clean it off my BBC DILDO(MASTER KELVIN). i think it might be MS ERIKA’S favorite as well. Bottom line, MS ERIKA, to me, is a HALL-OF-FAME CUM-EATING COACH!!
🙂 That’s right brit, it was “any specific” lesson 😉 but I can’t tell more, it will give away my “Mistress secrets”
I think UR right…… re Dildo
MS ERIKA, i love how U have incorporated “MASTER KELVIN”, in my cum-eating training. It reinforces the connection for me of BBC & cum-eating.
Ms Erika – the cum eating teaching mistress…
I wish the thought of that didn’t turn me on as much as it does.
*smiling* Niiiiice , very nice I’ll keep that in mind…. 😉