Welcome to Domination Phone Sex Month, Slut Week edition! Our site of the month is Domination Phone Sex and what better way to demonstrate what domination phone sex is, than to give you a first row seat, behind the scenes to what I call Slut Week. But first a bit of perfunctory fodder about Domination Phone Sex for those new to the scene, or simply enjoy talking about the subject.
Domination Phone Sex
As you may or may not be aware there are many ways I can dominate you over the phone. For those who are new to Long Distance Domination, it is a skill and art form to transform domination play and use phone/ internet for long distance play. We are not necessarily bound by geography, but depending on where in the world you are, we will have to find an agreeable time for us both. Negotiations of play are in full force just like any other Femdom session. Speaking of negotiations.
Domination Negotiation
Contrary to what some pets are conditioned to , the submissive has as much say about the play and parameters as the Dominant. Either party may decline certain play, but once those negotiations have been fleshed out, this is where I take command. During negotiations we will cover our boundaries, both soft and hard boundaries. A soft boundary might be something you thought of but never tried and have some trepidation about engaging in it. Cum eating is a popular curiosity and soft boundary. A hard boundary might be: No cocks/males. Each person is unique and I have as much fun getting to know you, and your boundaries ,as engaging in play! I like to think of it as Femdom foreplay! Where my mind alights with naughty delights thinking about what I could do with you!
Also included in negotiations are:
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Journey Of A Slut
So, back to Domination phone sex and slut week. First you have to have a willing slut. I know there are a lot of wanna b’s out there, and some tried and true sluts. Take a look at “C’s” journey and see if you can relate!
I have a delicious pet, we’ll call “C”. and he happened upon my radar within the first month of my tenure at LDW. His voice was sexy AF , very vocal (which I love) when I worked him over, er… up! Deliciously obedient as I put him through his JOI session. I remember saying to myself at that first call “Wow, what a hot fucker he is!”.
The boundaries for our play at that time, were guided masturbation, and edging with a negotiated release at the end. He would call every now and again, and in May of that same year, I wrote a blog: Ruined Orgasm. Don’t you know, that next session, he asked about ruined orgasms. I gleefully put him through his paces, ran some test runs, focusing, stroking, stopping, over and over. Then when the time came, at that precise moment I commanded him to LET GO! He complied, and all I heard was “ahhh Fukknnnnnnn biiiiiiiii” coming out as a cross between a moan/ grunt, beefore he caught himself and realized what he was saying.
Myself? I was laughing hysterically. Partially over his enthusiasm, but mostly over his response. There was NO DOUBT in my mind he had ruined that orgasm! I was delighted he was so flummoxed over it! I’m sure he expected me to go all cray cray over his spontaneous outburst, but instead I told him how THRILLED I was, he “got it” on the first go! I’m sure my response put him at ease, taught him all he needed to know about submitting to me. Since that time, has been an ardent Erika Addict!
Slut Journey Ramps Up
Since that time over the years, my hold over that hot cock, and the rest of him, from the tips of his toes to the top of his head became Mine. Also during these past years Mr. If I’m paying , I am spraying turned into quite the denial slut. So his pleas of “Edge Mistress” and me telling him what to do next, denial, ruined or full orgasm, turned into begging to orgasm at each edge, just so I can say NO! Now these days, slut is begging to be denied! OMG, I know right!? Now let’s not get this twisted, I do deny him at times, and we’ve even moved onto Chastity, and being under lock and key. But the Mistress “slot machine” of Orgasm is in full effect. You know the methodology of slots, right? They have to pay off once in a while to keep you gambling! And this is where this particular slut machine has found himself.
In addition to the above naughty play, my influence over this naughty and the trust we have developed has allowed his sexuality and boundaries to expand! Previously, zero humiliation, not that kind of fella. Just hot stroking, now our sessions include some pain (spanking, nipple clamps) and sensual humiliation. How wet are my panties when I see My dick dance, when I giggle and point out that twitching throbbing swollen teased and denied cock, what a slut he’s become for me. I am so proud of my pet that our play includes, panty chastity, cum eating and riding my girl cock! And lets not forget he has TWO different lovense toys that I use to tease and torment.
Will our journey follow his? Probably not, and I hope not ! I’m not looking for a cookie cutter experience with you. I’m looking for your own special something only you can bring to my table. To journey with you as you with I , and see where we can go. Maybe we’ll engage in similar play? Perhaps well go in a different direction. That’s what’s exciting and fun for me!
All Play Leads To Slut Week
A year or two ago (Help me out pet) this hottie found some extended alone time 24/7, for several days where he could be at my disposal. Quite different from the 30 to 60 minutes at a clip we were afforded previously. This was the beginning of slut week! He cashed in all of his Enchantrix Perks Points, which was about a hours worth. Purchased another hour of Sexy texting and that week I used that time over several days to randomly call him to me on skype, to stroke , to edge, to slip on that cage. Whatever I wanted to do, he was all mine.
This next week is Slut week 2022! Where the same rules apply. He is mine, lock stock and barrel, to tease, to deny to ruin or peg! Slut has offered up his submission for the duration. Between sessions, he will remain naked, caged, pantied or however I want him. He has a lovense gush, and Domi and I predict a lot of time not directly engaging but ordering him to perform tasks with the GUSH firmly in place while I play! Washing dishes *bzzz buzz* , throwing on a pair of shorts and taking the trash out? *BZZZZZZZZZZZZ BZZZZZZZZZZZZ* slut will never know when Mistress will tease her cock!
He is to remain logged on to Skype 24/7 lest he miss my command! If he is not at my beck and call, he will forfeit the rest of the week’s play! EXTREME Denial for his punishment for not being there for me. You see, when you agree to be my slut, I mean business!
Your Slut Week
Sound like fun? It is! So if you are thinking of a slut week, or even a few slut days, I want to hear from you!
We will negotiate the play, I will customize your package to your budget and if you have any remote control toys, then my Long Distance Toy Tease package will be the perfect augmentation of our play!
Great post Goddess Erika. ????♂️????♂️????♂️????♂️ I enjoyed reading it. Slut Week sounds fun.
thank you slave, almost as much fun as office after dark! ????????????????????
I could use a slut weekend. Sounds like bliss.
Mmmmmm yaaaaaaas. *eyebrow wiggle*