As I mentioned in my tumblr and twitter feed  yesterday , I’m talking about edging phone sex. Surprisingly, I find some people unaware of  the joy’s of edging. When I find out they don’t know about it, I can’t wait to explain it and gleefully encourage them to try it! In reality we’ve all probably experienced edging you just didn’t realize it.

Edging Alone

You can begin edging on your own, bringing yourself to a high state of arousal then decreasing or eliminating stimulation of your sex organs. Girls and guys can edge btw. Typically there is a cool down period and then once again stimulating yourself to the apex of ecstasy and again removing all stimulation.  I know a lot of guys who edge, but don’t quite edge to that “very edge” because they just won’t be able to stop! That’s ok, when you are starting out you may only edge to a certain height of arousal before stopping, and continuing on again. Practice makes perfect!

I suggest manual stimulation when beginning and  experimenting with edging.  Avoid using toys or other artificial stimulation, I find you don’t have as much control.  Control is key! Also, during this process you start to become very aware of your body, the small sensations leading onto larger responses lifting you higher and higher.  As your self love edging session continues  the time you spend teasing yourself to the same level of arousal becomes shorter and shorter. Not to mention it’s so sensual and erotic to just concentrate on you, your reactions and really get tuned in. Trust me, it will pay off in the long run.

Edging Phone Sex

So, you take “all of that” (pointing above)  and you combine it with a sexy experienced phone Mistress (aka “this”, pointing to moi) and when you combine “this” and “that” you’ll have  “the other!” The other my friends is what we are all (ok most of us) here for, that explosive O, that’s right orgasm! Unlike other infamous pairings of “this” and “that” and the subsequent failure of the  “other”, you cannot go wrong with this combination!  😉

What will  happen is I’ll test you. Playing and checking in often with you, adjusting how you stroke your cock, intensity and duration. Building your arousal slowing, and adjusting as we go.  When we have you riding a nice low edge, I’ll ramp up the fantasy play. Painting an erotic picture for  you, stimulating your mind into overdrive, while keeping your cock on an even keel.   If for any other reason because it arouses me to have you do so. What can I get you and your horny cock to do? Hum?

Eventually, like others, you’ll get to know your body, know how to adjust how to change what you are doing to stay at a level of arousal that I indicate without too much management.  I might want you on a slow burn for extended periods and a rapid finish.  Or perhaps, you are experienced enough, like I know some of you are, why I’ll have you riding that very edge, for a very long time. Speaking right to your subconscious, repeating affirmations, saying my name,  singing my praises, promising anything for that sweet sweet release. *shiver*  Incorporating, different sensations, and  toys to the edging session.  Giving up control of your cock to me, will push you beyond any other limits you had, when edging alone.

Extreme Edging Phone Sex

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As the name denotes, edging to the extreme. There are plenty examples, I know of one  edging pet. edging dozens upon dozens of times a day, for his Mistress, no release , hasn’t had release in over a hundred days. I think we can call him an uber extreme edger right? Most men who enjoy edging , enjoy it for the fantastic release. But incorporate edging with chastity like the previously mentioned pet , well then.  You not only have extreme edging you have extreme humiliation elements and extreme denial as well. I’d say that’s a sexual hat-trick if there was ever one!

So where do you lie on the edging continuum? I want to hear from you! DO you want to play today? Or come back for more, and ramp it up with home work and tasks? That’s your 11th reason to love edging!  It pleases me. Check out my strokers rewards page!   What’s your edging flavor? Bring it bad boy, I’m ready!