Edging self control may seem like a simple concept, you get to that edge, and just stop, or employ various techniques to stave off orgasm.  But, we both know when a male is highly aroused your body and mind have one goal: To orgasm! But you’ve heard of, I know of , a way to help you improve your sex life, both alone and when with a partner. I also think it’s a lot  of fun, probably some of the most fun you can have without orgasm! Don’t get me wrong, pets. I like orgasm as much as the next person. I particularly like when I get to control them, play with your sexual response to have a bit (ok, A LOT) of fun and even achieve certain desired results.

What are those desired results? Depends on who you are and what you bring to the table. Some come to me to improve their stamina, others because it’s just fun to have a woman, interested in your penis and telling you what to do with it. There are many reasons why edging is on the erotic menu , but regardless of that reason you need Me. Here’s why.

Edging Self Control

Orgasm Feels Good

So, while you are masturbating, ramping up your arousal level, hormones flowing and you are feeling good. You get to that first edge and you can stop or slow down. Great, so you’re good to go for a few more edges.

But before long, you always give in and that great idea of edging longer “this time” , and all those orgasm edging tips you read about, go right out the proverbial window. You orgasm.  You can’t help it, your body’s chemistry is already set against you. That wonderful mix of hormones flowing through your body, increasing and whispering to your brain to get to that goal, get your reward,  compel you towards orgasm. Orgasm and all those feel good hormones dictate you reach the goal of orgasm. By yourself it is easy to rationalize or ignore previous ideas.

Male Mind

Let’s take a look at the typical male mind. The mind of a male is typically centered around goals. Getting to that goal, doing what works to achieve that  goal as expertly and efficiently as possible. In many ways men apply that to their masturbation and love making. Get her to orgasm, you orgasm and you are the hero, right? The provider? It speaks to your very essence, doesn’t it. I get that.

But my horny stroker, if you want more, need more. Hell ,I can tell you right here as sure as I have a vagina your FEMALE partner needs more! If you don’t listen to another word I say, heed this advice:  being a provider, a hero, dictates that not only do you achieve goals but that the experience while you are headed down that road for “goal-ville” is probably as much or MORE important to your female partner. So, provider -start providing what she needs!

Edging Self Control

Improving your edging is best done with a partner. Edging with a partner  addresses the two major challenges above. You can’t help but improve with a level head guiding you. That is , if you submit. Give that control to me. If, on the other hand you are unsure if you can submit, to give over that control it is a non-issue, really. We’ll just set different goals and train your brain to learn to submit. Once you submit your mind, the body follows.

Let’s have some fun, and check out my strokers rewards page regarding edging and edging phone sex.

Until we chat

Mistress Erika