Saturday night I had great fun, as always, in chat at Community Kink during the extra-long Sissy Pageant show!Ms Constance was our lovely Hostesses for the show. In chat were some very Sexy Sissies, some new and our regular assortment of funny, sexy chatters, some of which are very sassy sissies themselves, other Mistresses and some adoring groupies of Ms. Constance were in attendance. We were celebrating all types of sexy sissies, and giving them a chance to show off and strut their stuff. I think everyone had a great time! Three sexy sissies won prize baskets full of feminine fun things!! All of which brings me to this blog, enjoying sexy sissies.
Ms. Constance brought up a very important subject. What we could do to help foster a welcoming environment for who we affectionately refer to as Sissies. There were so many good answers and I wish there was that one perfect simple answer. But alas there isn’t. I feel I just need to live my life and encourage others to live their lives with an open mind, not to tolerate bigotry when encountered. Allow people to be who they are, not be too quick to negatively judge.
Not all Sissies are created equal. I know this, Mistresses know this but do all sissies know this? Until I get to know you, just because you like to caress, masturbate with or even wear sexy ladies’ lingerie I won’t assume you want to: 1- fully dress 2- go public now or ever 3- suck cock 4- be submissive. There are plenty of heterosexual males who love lingerie, and want to bed women. They may or may not have submissive desires. Some just want to share their passion and love for pretty sensual and sexual things with the sexy kinky woman in their life and that is it.
There is nothing wrong, either , for wanting to keep your lingerie loving, fully cross dressing sexy sissy side to yourself and never go public, or go out as a woman. Sexy secrets are HOT. I feel honored you share that side with me. Your confidentiality is secure with me, and you have a friend to have some adult fun time with! Win-Win!
Other sissies go full tilt, donning their female persona’s devouring and becoming all things female. Wigs, or growing their hair out. Sissies learning how to apply makeup. including being intimate with men. Some being demure and passive, others delighting in their cock-sucking and naughty goings-on! You know who you are!
Sexy Sissy Transformation
Then you have those individuals who have fantasies of transforming and living as a woman. Sexually titillating, these erotic thoughts may be for fantasy, or they have that real-life goal for themselves. Either way it would be wise to let you know that as you explore transforming, as we explore your feminine side, as you start to look, feel and explore all things female you may (or may not) have images or feelings of having intimate relations with men. Rest assured, our minds are exercising trying on your new persona and it doesn’t mean you will eventually have intimacy with men. Just know I’m here for you and we can discuss those ideas and feelings, explore them to see if it is a dead end, or something you want to explore further. It’s a wonderful journey, for sure. I’m more than happy to explore and go on that journey with you.
Regardless of how you see yourself, I say celebrate it. Celebrate who you are, what you are just be sane safe and legal!
i know there are quite a few differnt kind of sissies. i lived most of my adult life as a secret sissy. Although, looking back, i think more people realized i was meant to be a subsissy. MS ERIKA knows what kind of sissy i dream of being. SHE also knows i have dreamed most of my life wanting to be OWNED/CONTROLLED/EXPOSED by a BEAUTIFUL GODDESS. MS ERIKA is making that dream a reality. SHE knows ALL about my weak,perverted mind. The type of SISSY i dream mostly of being is a HUMILIATION SISSYFAGGOT. SHE encourages this part in me. i am devoted to be the best SISSYFAGGOT for my OWNER, MS ERIKA. If any of U need help/guidance with SISSY thoughts, SHE is the BEST!
brit, what can I say? You are a great sissy, pupil and entertainer! ha ha! You take your lessons seriously, show your support and devotion to me and never fail to entertain me in “your special way” 😉 TXS
MS ERIKA, i will ALWAYS do my very best to PLEASE U.
My masseuse has accepted me and taken control of our relationship as clothes she picked out for me came in and after my waxing she wants me to try them on in front of her. I bought my dresses 2 weeks ago to model for her and she told me how cute and adorable I looked saying I had perfect build for dresses along with tops/bottoms. Wearing my dresses in front of her I felt so weak/helpless/soft and feminine. I admitted to her that I’ve never had women take control but said I liked it and glad she has. I’ve been told she’s going to watch my spending as she told me either 2nd week of May or June we are going dress shopping with makeover of me included and that she plans on me buying more dresses. I’m I female lead relationship with her dressing/turning and keeping me as her cream puff sissy as I’m wrapped around her fingers and her nails are firmly dug into me with no intention of letting me go.
Petey, I love the energy of your post. I’m so glad you have her to play and work with on your feminizaion! Sounds sexy and so exciting!