Erotic Confession Therapy through a phone sex service, at first blush seems fantastical. But it isn’t, and a good portion of my sessions involve hearing your secret desires. But how is someone telling a stranger their secrets considered therapy? Granted I am not a trained , by state laws, therapist but that does not negate the help I give to those in need. I often refer to my “kind of help” as BF (best friend) therapy. Let’s take a look at how and why Erotic Confession Therapy may be for you.
Erotic Desires
So you have these erotic desires and you know your social circle isn’t “down” with it. Family , friends lovers or wives just wouldn’t understand your naughty thoughts. Hell , you are ashamed of how perverted your thoughts are at times. Know, you are not alone and there are many erotic desires people don’t readily share with those closest to them. Fear of rejection, fear of irrevocably impacting the intimacy you have are strong motivators to keeping your mouth shut. What kind of Erotic Desires are often “covered up”. Let’s seee
Bi-sexual Desires
Is still a big taboo. Presenting as a heterosexual male for the past 20,30,40+ years and your best bud finding out you have a secret desire to suck cock just might find you pushed to the fringes, or worse, of your friend group. You see, it may not necessarily be the act of bi sexuality which has them pushing you away it’s the misrepresentation of who you are, the betrayal, if you will, which fractures many relationships when secrets come out.
However, the longer you live with the secret the unhappier you become. I know you crave for an understanding, compassionate person who understands fully the corner you’ve found yourself backed into.
I’m listening
Feminization Desires
From wanting to wear pretty panties to full on guided feminization is not something the typical hetro, or homosexual male willingly discuses. Try as you might to push these thoughts and desires to the back of you mind just doesn’t work, long term. Your feminine desires are an itch you just can’t seem to scratch. In my experience this is NOT a phase. It’s not a KINK, per se. It’s part of your make up (no pun intended) who you are. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be in touch with your feminine side to explore the sensuality and sexuality from a feminine perspective. But people , in general, just don’t get it.
Chastity
What male in his right mind wants to thwart their biological directive? “That’s Crazy” is often the term I hear men use when talking about chastity. Who in your social circle understands your need for denial? My guess is not many, or Chastity Training wouldn’t be so popular at Enchantrix.
Small Penis Or Small Balls
Often men are embarrassed if their genitals don’t measure up. SPH or small penis humiliation is another *head scratch* for many. None of us are perfect and we all have something about ourselves we are not happy with. But to engage in play which humiliates you for something out of your control provides a lot of sexual stimulation for many. As I was writing this blog, as the “universe” so dictated I received a call from a small testicle male. He comes to me for therapy. To help him accept the fact his balls just don’t measure up. We dabble in affirmations, a bit of sensual humiliation and he told me today he has had dreams of our sessions
Erotic Confession Therapy
You often think- “why do I feel this way”, “how/why is this erotic for me?” Don’t you? I know you do. The problem is you can only get so far “inside your own head”. I can’t count the number of times someone has said “I’ve never looked at it that way before”, to me when discussing intimate concerns. Opening your mind and options and enriching your human experience is what it’s all about. I’m engaging and interested in your journey.
Back to the question of how and why. The answer can be complex. And I always find the origins of “who we are” an interesting piece of the puzzle. I also like to spend a good portion of the session talking about where you are now, and where you envision yourself to be. Are you looking for resolution to your kinky interests? Many wonder how they can achieve some semblance of balance with their kink and the rest of their lives.
Allowing you to free think, and vent all of those pent up thoughts, getting feedback and sometimes direction, is immeasurably beneficial in terms of your well being. I understand and accept you and your sexual proclivities. Some of them I imbibe in myself. We are all beautiful kinky snowflakes and what makes you tick is interesting to me. Sexy ,even.
Are there things which are off the table, for me? Certainly, boundaries are important. But that list is short, and if your desires fall under that heading then I’ll let you know. Clearly and simply. No harm, no foul.
Until We Chat ????
Mistress Erika
Goddess Erika, i love doing erotic confession therapy with You. On chastity though i would think i am to big to be locked in chastity. It would be to big of a loss. Until we chat again.
tftt! I freakin spit out my coffee! You are too big for locking up? hahahahahahaha
oh fuck , now I have to go to the loo! ROTF , thanks for the giggle!
Having someone to confide and discuss things that are awkward or uncomfortable to bring up with someone face to face is a huge draw to calls. It has also, for me, made it easier to bring things up in person because I’ve been able to talk through the desires and get another person’s perspective.
As for a pure confession part. That is fun too. Being asked, or prodded, to share something that you want to, but are a little too shy to let out yet. Baring your thoughts and desires can be harder than baring your body.
I agree WS, confessing to someone on the phone is much easier to do than face to face, and also the anonymity it affords the caller, strangely enough is another factor which makes it easier.
Thanks for stopping by!
I confess i have perhaps the tiniest clit of any sissy at LDW. I also confess that need to be stripped of male ego and embrace sucking cock, chastity and feminization….i am clearly not worthy of pussy and i need to stay limp and pussy free for life
Aaaaaaaah, now doesn’t that feel good? It does. After these many years and from what I’ve seen, you have no male ego left. Thanks to Ms Constance’s constant training and reinforcing what a dickless, pussy free for life pet you are!
Great share, princess a REAL man would never admit to those things, further demonstrating how conditioned you truly are.
You are so right….this confession does prove i am not a male Mistress…thank you
This is what’s needed for me Ms Erika!!! Especially with my interest in how I became into wearing bras panties women’s clothes wigs lipstick makeup dresses. We’ve tapped into this but I haven’t told you the whole story. This may be longer call just with you. Any chance I can confess this and you can add
Feminization /lipstick kisses to this.
Oh Most definitely paulina! Lipsticked kisses make you a weak creampuff gurl and are always on tap for session! I want to know the whole story!
A woman like Erika could send a normal man to thereapy
Luckily you fall short on at least one of the above,eh? ????
Well yes LOL i am not a normal man sometimes. Gender Dysphoria split personality
Ms Erika ~ I think confession is good for the soul. I’m not just talking in a spiritual way but just saying things out loud. At the very least ~ you are being honest with yourself. I don’t think it matters that you’re not licensed or whatever. You are there ~ without judgement (or maybe a little when it’s fun lol) to listen. Especially when it’s something erotic or out of the “norm”. You have some many experiences to draw from. An excellent post ~ as always!
Ms Kay Marie
Thank you Ms Kay!
I know you are awesome as well , provide that safe place to be “WHO YOU ARE”. Encouraging them to accept themselves and their kink, because WE DO! 🙂
You know how much i thrive on confessing all to You, Mistress Erika. Whether it is my inadequacy as a man or my desire to serve Women and men in every way, i love coming to You on my knees to tell all.
Joe, I do know what a perverted mind you have. I also know you need to atone for your transgressions, in the most humiliating and severe of ways. Isn’t that right, pet
You are so very right, as always, Mistress Erika.
You need to do this.
Yes, Mistress Erika
We never discussed small balls? Ask me why? And the last photo makes you lopk totally different. Is that an older photo?
April LOL we’ve never “Discussed” hardly anything you silly sissy ! LOL
Why is that you want me to ask?
*looking at the phone* I don’t have to wonder why , I know why……… and it’s just up to you to ………
RE: Photo’s. Again, silly sissy, are you drinking? Unlike men who tend to look more or less the same day in and day out
unless they grow a beard, or get a hair cut etc women often and do look “different” everyday. Hair up, hair down, more make up , less
hair “blown out” hair slicked back. It’s one reason why it’s so freakin FANTASTIC being a woman, please try and keep up!
Have a great day AST ????????
I know how fantastic it is to be a woman duh i have been dressing since2003 .And ball size contrary to popular opinion this sissy has big balls with a sack that gets wet on these modern toilet seats.My old home toilet my balls are dry.
Do your balls hang low
Can you swing ’em too and fro
Can you tie ’em in a knot
Can you tie ’em in a bow
Can you swing ’em over your shoulder
Like a regimental soldier
Do your balls hang low
hahahahahaha
I actually measured how low they hang this morning they were hanging down 5 inches . They hit the water on quite a few toilet seats. I didn’t have this problem when i was up tight but now i hang loose .
*spits out water* Ahhhhhhh hahahaha, someone needs a scrotoplasty
Ok so you spit & don’t swallow.I like that. I keep finding out more info on you everyting we text ???? At least your not spitting out your coffee
My balls hang low
As low as they can go.
They can swing to and fro
When i have to tuck
If i sit on them
They hurt like ###k
2 inches wide 3 inches long
And this is the end of this song
LOL!!!!!!!!!!
Ms Erika,
We have spoken at length about this. You were/are instrumental in my journey of self discovery. Without you, I’m not sure if I would be out of the closet, yet…and feeling f-ing FABULOUS about it! And you throw in just the perfect amount of SPH and cuckold humiliation to keep it fun and exciting.
I was in “real therapy” for 10 years and never came out or had an orgasm. With you, I’ve come out as gay and had countless amazing orgasms (and that stint of denial where I flew way off the tracks ????). Thank you sooooooo much.
I’m Aaron Crain and I’m GAY!
*BIG SMILES* Oh Gayboi, it is sad you have come out pitching for the other team. At least for “my team” you cutie patootie! I know there’s a plethora of heterosexual women, including me who are bummed over it.
But the joy of wrapping you in acceptance and (yes) a bit of kink and helping you to this point in your journey is really more satisfying for me, than the promise of hetro sex with you. Particularly since, well. We both know……… what you have to offer a pussy *winks* *laughs*
You are soooooooooooo welcome!
Thank you for the compliment! I have to be honest. While it was never my intention to bum you out, I do get a huge kick seeing that look when a woman finds out I’m gay. It’s soooo reaffirming. Maybe next time, before I reveal my sexual preference, I’ll whisper my cock size. I’ll probably get the exact same look. ????
LOL