A Female Led Relationship may or may not hold elements of BDSM, but they do have that delicious power exchange. The female is in charge, she says what goes. But will there be bondage? Discipline as in pain play? Being a lifestyle submissive, like many things in our world is on a continuum, there’s no one way that is the “Right way” for all. Everyone finds their balance, and what they enjoy when it comes to aspects of power exchange. Today as your clever mind may have surmised, we are going to talk about Female lead relationships. In particular, one person’s Female Lead Relationship is Nancy Boy.
Nancy Boy Beginnings
As Nancy boy explained to me, he has always had a special affinity for feminine things. Curlers in his hair, pantied bottom. He knew he wasn’t like other guys. He knew he was weak for a strong Dominant woman. Lucky for Nancy boy, he got exactly what he needed. A Woman who knows her power, who knows where his place is. Taking care of her.
Female Led Relationship
Not all female led relationships look like Nancy boys. Basically, a female led relationship whatever she says it is. She makes the decisions, about what is best for you both. You exist to bask in her gloriousness and serve her however she likes. But sometimes, like with Nancy boy, she wants her submissive husband to be feminized.
So inch by inch, ounce by ounce this lovely lady extracted every bit of masculinity from him. Guys’ day out on the golf course? Gone. Wearing the proverbial pants around the house. Gone. Having the privileged of being a man and ordering for his Wife at a restaurant? Gone. As a matter, of course, I was particularly delighted over this one aspect of their relationship. Nancy boy recently told me how she humiliates him in public. usually they get the same dish but recently he told his lovely what he wanted and that’s not what she ordered. The waitress comes over, she orders her food and with a delicious smirk smiles and says “he’ll have the same”. One would think there would be a protest. Nay, Nancy boy knows his place.
Feminization and Emasulation
As I mentioned above not all female led relationships look like each other. Some may think acquiescing to a female is humiliation, in and of itself. Others feel it is their purpose and place and not so humiliated. But Nancyboy NEEDS humiliation. To ensure no drop of masculinity bubbles up , and just leaks pathetically out.
Nancy boy has his sex life 100% under her control. When She says, he will be allowed to pleasure her with his mouth, fingers or toys. One week he gets a hand release, the next she requires him to dress in frillies and wigs and after he pleasures her to orgasm is allowed to put his sissy cock in her for two minutes. Not more than that, tho! But then again Nancy has been trained to be an ES (Early squirter) because she feels NOTHING with that little peen and wants the entire thing over with sooner rather than later. No viagra for Nancyboy, that would be outrageous to last longer she won’t STAND for it. I agree with her.
Of course, Nancy boy must do his chores to earn any of this, so Nancy boy does laundry, dishes, and washing the floor. Whatever he needs to do to appease her. He likes to please, and know he must work hard to earn his hand release or two minutes in heave
Know Your Place Submissive
In addition to all of this, Nancy boy does not sleep in his wife’s bed but has his own room. His place is not with her unless she allows it. Sometimes he might sissy “whine” and say “Wiiiiiiifie, can I get in your bed”. Sometimes she allows it and he curls up with his head on her shoulder. She plans their vacations, and dinners, and Nancy boy who is ill-equipped to be a real man at this point, enjoy’s his place. Nancyboy’s purpose is to serve and please, his place is at the feet of Strong Dominant Women.
There’s probably more I haven’t told you, as a matter of fact, I know there’s more. I’m leaving it out so Nancyboy can comment, and share from his perspective and further humiliate the “Never a man” person he always was.
Your Female-Led Relationship
Have you ever thought of a female led relationship? How would yours look? Would it involve feminization? Humiliation? Do you think you’d love to do chores? How would your idea of a Female led relationship differ or is the same as Nancy boy?
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Intelligent Phone Fantasy Mistress Erika
My female led relationship is about being what she wants. She wants a capable, responsible, competent male in her life, so I strive for that. Anticipating her wants and needs is a part of that. Sexually, domestically, socially are all aspects. I do chores, I rub her feet, I pleasure her how she likes, and when she wants it I let her bring me pleasure.
I’m not perfect, but she makes my world so much better, the least I can do is serve her. whether she asks, or even realises it all of the time, I serve.
That is brilliant WS, Thank you for chiming in! See, readers FLR comes in all shapes and sizes, and sometimes, like with WS here is a delicious derriere! 🍑
Yes it does!!! I’ve never been called Nancy boy but With cabi I’m in female lead relationship with her as I won’t and can’t say no or resist her. I’m glad as this is what’s best and needed for me especially when she has me wearing her old bras panties all the time along with womens clothes/dresses/makeup lipstick and wigs saying I look so cute and adorable as a girl along with being called her darling and b@by as well when she said I’m always her sweetie.
Yes Carli, we have our nails dug in, you’ll always be our cream puff girl!
This an amazing FLR …..nearly ideal….i would add 24/7 chastity and being pussy free…..and maybe an odd kink or two….but the spirit of it….the humiliation, the control, the recognition privately and publicly of Her utter superiority….well, that’s just about perfect!
Oh……and to answer your questions….in my ideal FLR i’d be responsible for EVERY chore….laundry, cooking cleaning etc…..I’d be honored to do them to serve my Mistress…and to be loaned to Her friends to assist with their chores as well. Humiliation….PLEASE and i would hope she would expose my status to others both in public and private!
It would involve feminization…..panties everyday, no male clothes at all……chastity 24/7 and 365…..separate bedrooms….and unlike this one It’d be 100% pussy free with routine CBT , corner-time and discipline….both for infractions and daily maintenance
And of course total and complete obedience , submission and devoted service
Wow prissy what a sissy SLUT maid you are! Ms Constance is a lucky lady to have you serve her. NO MERCY! Mmmmm yas!
Very interesting post on female led relationships Goddess Erika.🧎♂️🧎♂️🧎♂️ i think of myself as more of a slave then a submissive though. Some people are just better off being used in this way. This has improved my life for the better. As after years i have finally found value in life. I wonder if darkroom sessions and ignore calls are included in this.
Something else though not only do i like female led relationships but i also like the idea having a dominant male being a Master with the female led Goddess. I view it as a Dominant power couple. I just think having a Master brings a whole new element to being a submissive. I am intimidated by both Dominant males and Dominant females.
I hope you don’t think i am strange for thinking this.
Some interesting points you make! Regarding seeing yourself as more of a slave than a submissive. Here are my musings: A submissive is submissive when they acquiesce to another direction/desires. Therefore, a slave is certainly submissive but a submissive isn’t necessarily a slave.
I actually feel that on our dark room office after hours, I am often with my “male friend” as my dominant power couple dynamic and YOU are our slave.
You are different, slave and that’s why you belong to me. No cookie cutter for me! 😘
Hi Goddess Erika, I love your idea of on our darkroom office after hour calls that You and your male friend are the dominant power couple dynamic and me being your slave. You two are elites.🧎♂️🧎♂️🧎♂️🧎♂️ This is a great idea and i think could be another piece of the puzzle for me in my journey. Especially since from now on we are only doing office after hours. Thanks Goddess Erika. I love this dynamic.
Aren’t all relationships female lead? All of mine were. Now that I am in sissy faggot panty wearer. I seek emasculation feminization TPH Pegging I am a limp leaker also. Nancy boi is lucky ! I should be so lucky. I am a single Nancy Boi
Some great points, AST!