Hello Fans! Welcome to Friday and to Femdom Myths Busted. Here at Enchantrix we specialize in Dominant Women who love to Dominate. We offer plenty of other erotic options as well, but today I’m going to discuss some of the myths I’ve heard, or spoke with people about and their impressions about Femdoms. You just might be surprised when hearing some of the Femdom Myths, I know I was! So hands off your cock let’s take a look at some Femdom myths.
Femdom Myths
Femdom Myths What A Femdom Looks Like
When you look over the Mistress Profiles at our Cock Control site, you’ll see a plethora of Sexy ladies experienced in taking charge, and taking control of your mind and cock. Younger, older, sensual more, strict. Everyone with their own special charms. If you are looking for one specific look, you’ll be hard pressed. We range from that sweet n sexy “lady next door” whose smile is as sweet as honey, but when that door closes you tremble with the energy she exudes as she takes full control. You are powerless to resist.
Sadistic Femdom
All Femdoms are sadists. Contrary and sadly for some, not all Female Dominants are sadistic. Meaning they derive pleasure from applying pain, either physically through impact play or psychologically as with humiliation. Some feel they are man haters, Women who love to crush and destroy your masculinity just because they can.
Contrary, IMO there are more Female Dominants who are quite aware of how to manipulate you and have you under their control. Without said sadistic intent, rather with an intent to explore your limits, explore their own. Aware of the changes which occur and love to stimulate those changes through means somewhat less than mainstream.
Using tools like impact play and humiliation because they understand the effects it has on you, and that is the source of pleasure, vs the sadistic act itself. We have many sensual Mistresses who won’t imbibe with either impact play or harsh humiliation. It’s all about the power exchange, how to experience it and enjoy it in other ways. How to create that subspace where your submission and Mistress are the only thing that matters. How she goes about it, is as individual as your connection.
Hate Sex With Men Or Cock
Will I ever have sex with any of my clients? No. I won’t. But that doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy men, sex, or cock. Just because your Mistress won’t entertain a scen where she pleases your cock doesn’t mean she doesn’t like cock. Some Dominant Women don’t sleep with men at all. But she’ll be upfront with you in that matter. It may just mean those are the boundaries she has for your connection.
I am a very sexual being. I enjoy talking about our sexuality as humans, as well as your individual desires. I’m also interested in all the varied ways I can or scenario’s can turn people on! You are like a puzzle to me, a living breathing wonderful puzzle of human nature, and sexuality, that I like to play with!
One difference between me and any “vanilla girl” down the street is: I just like to take control. To orchestrate play and compel your naughty nature, in more than one way. I like to create that space and place for you to explore your sexuality. Hell, I learn more about myself as well.
How will we enjoy an erotic dance? That depends on you. I would imagine it’s similar with many a Femdom. Our tastes and interest are wide and varied. We just want to enjoy the delicious plate of yummy which is you. Certainly the basis of many calls is the power exchange. Where I take control, you submit and away we go. But not all, so I don’t limit myself to just D/s scenes.
Femdom Myths Busted Continued….
Well, my “tasty tidbits” it seems I’ve done it again. I sit down to write on a subject and I just keep going on and on. I now have two full blogs on the subject!
Imagine the energizer bunny, typing on a lappy all afternoon! *laughs*
I’m going to end part one here. Check Back Tuesday, for part two where I discuss
Phone Femdom and Guys Who Call On-line Femdoms Are Losers myths.
Until We Chat ????
Mistress Erika
Well said on this Ms Erika!!! I’m not into the hardcore/sadistic boy at all. I’ve always been the submissive type and glad you’ve taken on role as my head feminization mistress. After our very first call we clicked as if we’ve know each other for years. I plan on calling you/the other ldw mistresses all the time. With friend who took pictures of me with her phone I want her to help with my feminization. She’s starting selling women’s clothes and I’m going to buy them from her as my guys clothes are slowly purging. I don’t care if I have girlfriends or ever get married. I’ve to invested in women’s clothes/dressing up. It’s not if I come out to girls I play tennis with it’s when. If they are true friends they will accept this. This is who I am and become as she told me this and to not change/worry or care what others think.
Hey Paulina,
You are 10x more girl than when we first met and helping you with your journey has been a blast!
Thankyou MISTRESS ERIKA onther well writen intelligent blog by the great MISTRESS ERIKA. Thankyou .i have the feeling you genuinely like your pets and care for them .sissy tedi likes that feeling .just sissy intuition. Heard of those femdom did not think they were true with you sincerly beta bottom bitch tedi
I do, pet. I do
I know Fem Dom comes in many styles and flavors….but i do enjoy letting a Mistress explore Her more sadistic and humiliating side…..It is an honor to be the canvas She works Her magic on!
Happy Monday to you princess! Thanks for stopping by and adding your two cents! It’s true I do love to play with my Humiliatrix side, your pain is my pleasure! #NoMercy.
Ms Erika ~ Okay I am hooked on this!! I love this post. I can’t tell you how many times I have had to bust those myths! As much as I love showing my dominance ~ I don’t want to break someone beyond repair (what good is a broken toy lol). And as much as I enjoy the occasional sex with another woman and I enjoy my toys I am never giving up sex with a real cock. (Of course it needs to be a nice big hard cock – but that is another topic lol)
Ms Kay Marie
Ha ha Kay! Glad you enjoyed! I know what you mean about those cocks! We were just talking about cock size at your podcast today!
You are a sexy good time!
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You know, sometimes I wonder if ideas and phrases are like other cycles women experience, that when a group of Us get together, We get on the same “track”. I say that because I love that phrase you just used, Kay Marie, and have used it Myself: “What good is a broken toy?”
Anyway, also echoing you regarding what a wonderful blog post this is, and how true the busted myths are!
Another great one, Mistress Erika!
Thank you Ms. Rachel! I think we are all in agreement with the broken toy analogy!
I’ve always have taken very good care of my toys, AND PETS! ????
Goddess Erika, Another great well written post and one i missed because i was on vacation.
mmmm well since you are here now, I wouldn’t call it MISSED, just delayed viewing etc. ????
Welcome back, tiny one!
I find it so funny that they think we deplore sex with men/cock, as you mention. I’m often asked by callers if I’m bi or a lesbian, and they’re shocked when I say neither – and I have every intention of teaching them to enjoy cock as much as I do, lol.
Right!? How are you doing sexy!? Thanks for stopping by!