Do you have a foot fetish? Or would you consider it a foot kink? I know often we intermingle kink and fetish, to loosely mean the same thing but in reality it’s not. In my line of work it’s important to distinguish between them. You’ll see why.
Foot Fetish or Foot Kink
We humans have an innate need to categorize. Understandable,considering how our powerful minds have evolved to be. Able to focus on a task, and process a fuck ton of data bits per second all the while operating a lovely complex biological entity. It isn’t the classifying or categorizing which is bad. It is what we do with our actions, after putting labels on things that matter. Those labels are not meant to perpetuate hate, but in my world only helps us to identify what about “you” we can celebrate. I dream of a time where the majority of us can do that. Celebrate and enjoy our difference, not condemn them. The world would be a horrible place without difference.
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Foot fetish, or a fetish in general is a powerful word. Some use it to describe their interests, but do you? Do you have a fetish? Can you have satisfying sexual relations without it? Do you have to at least imagine that sexy foot to get off? How much of your day and your sexual life revolves around that foot? If sex isn’t worth having either by yourself or with another without sexy feet then…. You, my friend,have a fetish.
Many more folk , however have what I consider a foot kink. It’s play that can or can not be involved with sexual intimacy. Submissive training often includes body worship, including feet. Your submission, your Mistress commanding you Worship Her Feet. Hold that soft foot, to praise it, pleasure it. Before too long, with continuous play like this your mind and body soon become aroused to the stimulus of just those lovely feet. Creating a foot kink, pairing high sexual arousal with said foot , paired with tremendous reward and a compelling Mistress is fun and mind blowing! You really have no choice, do you, pet? Your mind and body are but a blank slate for Mistress to write upon.
Foot Kink Foot Fetish
Do you have a foot fetish, or a foot kink? Do you appreciate why it’s so important that I distinguish between them? What a interesting conversation that would be! I would love to connect and discuss with you. Does it intrigue you, to have your sexuality manipulated? How something as (seemingly innocuous turn into something hotly erotic? Perhaps how a woman skilled abilities have such a powerful impact on you?
Start with the toes.
Until We Chat ????
YES! I DO… I do have a foot fetish or kink! Having belated come to grips with being unworthy of pussy (and now ‘pussyfree”)…..and of no longer seeing naked breasts without permission (if ever) …..I have come to focus on what i am allowed, especially while kneeling in service …..worshiping ‘Feet and toes”!!!……So, with your permission….I’ll kneel and happily kiss your feet, or that of any Mistress ! Great Post 🙂
Hi there princess! you are a perfect example of delicious conditioning. Don’t you feel so much happier now you know your place in life? #onyourknees #Pussyfree
I have suppressed the urge to distinguish between kink and fetish since almost no one gets it right, which makes it the kind of situation where it’s just easier to join ’em than beat ’em. A rose by any other name would smell as sweet…as someone’s sweaty feet, in this case 😉
LOL “A rose’ you are right Ms Claire often I don’t distinguish between the two , no reason to “at the time” 😉
Goddess Erika, I am one of the few that has both a foot fetish and a foot kink. I even have it for dirty smelly feet. LOL.
Mmmmm but tftt, you also like to serve by cleaning my shoes/boots as well!
You are a delicious pet for winter and spring, you know when our feet/shoes get the most “messy” tee hee!
Yes MISTRESS ERIKA i think i have a foot kink .i am pussy free for life ,i feel uncomfortable looking at a womens breasts .Especially without permission .It is like i do not know my own mind it is like you replaced it with it something you own control ,your excellent had conditioning and what bf skinner would call behavior modification .Thankyou MISTRESS ERIKA for letting me be your puppet and you pull the strings sincerly beta bottom bitch tedi
MMMMMM beta bitch puppet, has a lovely ring to it, yes? Of course you should NEVER gaze upon a SUPERIORS breasts! You are unworthy, but my pet. *wiggles toes* these were made for your soft pink lips!
Ms. Erika- what an eloquent post. It truly does clarify for the unenlightened the difference between a fetish and a kink. Kinks are so much fun, so many things to explore! A fetish, while more limiting, can be equally as fun and intense. As Ms. Claire said, though, sometimes it just doesn’t work out to give the lesson during a call, so we join in the blurring of definitions.
Hello Lovely Ms S!
Thanks for stopping by! Of course great minds think alike, and true the intermingling is often something overlooked but you and Ms Claire know if we are working with someone with a fetish, that element must be involved or we are doing a disservice to them and ourselves. Fetish , albeit limiting is intense and I wouldn’t miss out on that for anything! Mmmmm #Naughty