JOI: What Is It?
Today, gang, we are looking at Guided Masturbation, or JOI. You may have seen it mentioned “around these parts.” Do you know what it stands for? I do! It stands for Jerk Off Instructions. You call, and I instruct you how to masturbate! If we’ve never talked before then I might ask you about your habits, what you’ve tried. Trying to get a feel for your experience and expertise!
We have a lot of fun, having a hot erotic JOI time. I’ve been known to tease my JOI guys with very naughty images! Perhaps from a fantasy I’ve had. Or perhaps from a recent sexcapade! I love ramping up that arousal, then telling you to STOP! I have a way of knowing if you did follow instructions just by listening. Wanna know what the tell is?
Those new to phone sex and guided masturbation, more times than not you orgasm shortly after “being ready to cum” and you blow!
I have no say when you orgasm. But a great time was had by all! Some stop there. Good for me, good for you! Great!
Guided Masturbation and Cock Control
The next level, for lack of a better term, is you giving Me complete control over your cock! It’s not as easy as it sounds, for some so we’ll have to take it step by step.
You have the JOI, but this time, this time, we work together and help you to be more in touch with your body’s responses. Starting by identifying arousal levels so you know when you are approaching the point of no return. For some it’s a matter of a stroke between “I’m almost there, and fuck, I’m cumming”.
Cock Control Training
Focused training, with my voice, my commands learning and responding instinctively to them is our goal. One step closer to complete cock control. Of getting into your head, and conditioning you exactly how I wish is where we are headed.
Once you have a pretty good handle (ha!) on controlling that cock, and your body’s responses, it’s time to turn that cock over to me. Focused meditative sessions which include various tasks , rituals and , masturbation affirmations designed to train both your mind and body.
Mistress Erika I Stroke This Cock For Your Pleasure
With Each Stroke I Submit This Cock To You
With Each Stroke I Give Control Of This Cock To You
Mistress Erika Owns This Cock
Mistress Erika Owns This Cock
Mistress Erika Owns This Cock
Once your brain understands and your body craves the explosive orgasm that comes with Orgasm Edging and cock control the sky is the limit! More and more Dominance, more and more submission and before you know it your life is never the same. Take it from this delightful pet!
B.E. (before Erika) I was into joi. Tease and delay. That kinda of thing. The usual stuff I guess. I thought I was submissive. But it wasn’t really true till I met You and am on this journey.
Slowly You invaded my mind and body. Controlling my O’s. Never would thought I’d be doing assignments. I mean actually doing them not just saying yes. Real submission. Showing You my commitment to You.
From the ruined O call, that really started it all, to this right now: wearing a cock cage n panties with a p massager in.
Not knowing what will be coming next.
Not knowing but always trusting in You.
It’s like You awoke something in me.
The things I never would of tried.
Are you “just playing around” ?
Curious about guided masturbation?
Want to expand your sexual repertoire and impress that lady love next time you do the horizontal mambo?
Does the idea of a sexy woman controlling your cock intrigue you?
Then you owe it to yourself to explore! Getting in touch with your sexuality, improving your sexual skill is only some of the things we can play with. Don’t be surprised if the naughty fantasies in your head, change over time! But we’ll talk about that, as well.
Until We chat,
Cock Control Mistress Erika
i love any path to ‘total submission’ even if JOI aren’t allowed while in chastity!
Princess you are further down that submissive path than most. Some never get to limp 4 life. 🙂
Goddess Erika, I need to expand my sexual repertoire and impress my lady the next time i do the horizontal mambo. Though i can see submitting. In seriousness though everything here involves submission to You eventually.
LOL O TFTT, I totally just spit out my coffee! your dry wit is fantastic! See you are a tiny loser, but you’re fukin funny!
This is going to be needed for me in my feminization circuit training program isn’t it Ms Erika? With all of you dressing/turning/lipstick kissing my cheeks and keeping me as your cream puff girl my cock gets hard as this is only way I can. Would there be feminization involved in this?
Oh Paulina! Why yes, submission and learning to submit your body and mind is perfect for feminization!
Mistress Erika, before you I would orgasm everyday!! Sometimes many times a day! But after giving you complete control of YOUR cock I now LOVE orgasm denial!! You control this cock forever and I’m VERY glad to submit to you! I only orgasm now when you allow me to. Sometimes once a week sometimes once a month. You decide everything that I do!! You are the BEST!!
Slutsky! You rock! The paces I’ve put you through! Fun fun FUN! 2019 we are going to push you further!
I can hardly wait Mistress Erika. I LOVE everything you decide to have me do!I LOVE being your PET for life!
I would to be tied to a rack spread eagle and a virbrating butt plug up my pussy with my nylons bra and heels on and u do a guided masturbration session
Slut slut SLUT!
Misrtess I LOVE being ur FUCK TOY for live
Misrtess erkia I love being ur FUCK TOY for LIFE I meant
my cup runneth over, I’m sure.
*wondering around home looking for cups*
What does wondering around home looking for cups mean
I need this in worst possible way Ms Erika. I’m not the strong macho guy any more as all of you have taken away my masculinity forever by dressing/lipstick kissing my cheeks and turning me into your cream puff girl forever. I’m at 2-4’ And no women wants that. 🙁 after all what guy would let 6 hot mistresses do this to him. None!! As you said you totally have control over me and this is only way I can be with hot women as the 6 of yours cream puff girl.
You are so right on so many levels! So much more fun being a girl anyway.
It really is Ms Erika!!! I’ve given up on trying to get girlfriends as going out with them/friends got me fat. I never did this when I was bodybuilding. Eating late at night especially before bed is worse thing I can do. I’m in friend zone and the women who did this are 20-25 years younger then me and most women my age are married with kids and I’m not. I’m fine with this as I can put my time in the feminization circuit training program with you and the ldw mistresses which I want to do on regular basis. What are your thoughts about my masseuse taking control over my feminization? I want to ask her this. She’s married but told me not to worry about her husband/there’s no sex to be involved/she’s taken control over my spending so I can do massages 3xweek and monthly waxings. I want to be in female lead relationship with her which would be best thing for me. I’m planning on asking if she wants to do this. Thoughts?
This is the way you need to go: Exploring your femininity! As for your masseuse , she may be a good friend but is she right to feminize and keep you fem? I’m unsure. I do know you will be well prepared after your training, and having her keep an eye on your spending and making sure you are keeping up your fem lessons might be in the cards!