Hello Sissy are you wanting to be a better sissy, how about a sissy slut? There is a difference, and today I’m going to give you a few pointers on how you can be a better sissy slut!
What Is A Sissy
Traditionally a Sissy is a male who has specific desires to don a feminine persona. Often, sissy’s are overtly and outrageously focused on the sexual experience
of the femininity. They want to live the what they consider the slut life!
But not always. What activities happen while en femme is often wide and varied. Some who identify as a sissy, want a more “total” feminine experience. We can dress up and have tea, or grab our favorite salad at the corner bistro, down by the water! Then *SURPRISE* we are not done yet! We’re off shopping for a sissy bra !
There are a lot of activities we can do when it comes to being a sissy, I’ve written a lot about sissy activities on various blogs. But wouldn’t that be an awesome next blog? Sissy “activities” (laughs) I want your help, comment below and just in a few words tell me your fav sissy activity! Shaving? Picking out a scent to wear? Keep it R rated, ya naughty’s but please share!
So with all of the above in mind, for today’s purposes we are focusing on the slut side of the sissy realm.
Sissy Sluts

Cock sucking training for sissy’s
Sissy Sluts , as I’ve written about before want to emulate the ultimate fuck-toy. Many don’t care one way or another if they get off.
They are the givers of the sexual world. They give up their holes, their bodies to be a vessel for your pleasure.
Being used by you. Filling them with your passion, over and over leaving them spent and delirious swimming in their submissive slut trance.
That is sissy slut’s reward.
As you may have guessed, I’m leading up to something. An Ultra Hot call with the sexy Princess Bethany.
Babe With A Boner

Can you deep throat me?
I had a fantastic time recently with Princess Bethany and her sissy slut. Invited into their cam session, I was delighted at the level of slut I saw before my eyes! Pink lace, naughty cock for slut to practice on, in all her slut holes! I had a lot of fun with Princess showing off her slut and all her slut tricks.
You could tell sissy was swimming in her sissy high, as she had plenty of erotic confessions to make. Not only how she loves to dress like a slut, and to be seen as that fuck toy, but that her sissy pussy and sissy mouth were well trained! With our play we come to realize sissy and her deep-throating skills needed improving! After all, a slut must take any size girl dong, or live dong as the case maybe.
So was this was our challenge! Giving sissy some pointers Princess and I were happy with her improvement. Which leads me to my next point. Taking care of that gag reflex.
Sissy Gag Reflex Training
To be a better sissy slut you need to enjoy that cock deep back in your throat! After all Princess has a rather Large Girl Cock, and it would insult her if you couldn’t take every-inch.
A few Mistress tips for you to practice
Left hand put your thumb in your fingers making a fist. Squeeze!
Another way, and yes you can combine these two. Take your forefinger and thumb and squeeze the flesh beteen your forefinger and thumb of your other hand!
Are You A Sissy
And want to find out how you can be the best sissy you can be? One way is to get on that cam, put either of both of us on that call and we’ll see what you need to improve, slut. Mistress always has a way to train that brain and body to be the ultimate fuck-toy.
Until We Chat ????
Sissy Mistress Erika
Wonderful post Mistress Erika…..Of course you have seen me perhaps…ONLY as a sissy in our calls…But besides being put through my paces on skype and of course #NoMercy cbt and discipline……My favorite sissy activity is dressing up and going for a ‘sissy drive’…..out in the world in a dress, heels, stockings, wig, make up and jewelry…..somewhat safe but also exposed! Mmmmm…..But, you can best believe i never speed when dressed lol
Hey Princess! I only know you and recognize you as a sissy slut, your male self could probably walk by me in the street and I’d be none the wiser!
How does that feel?
I love your sissy drives! YES more more in 2020!!
Mistress Erika,
Another well written and enlightening post from the most AMAZING LDW Mistress. luv You! ????????
As you know I do not consider myself a Sissy or Sissy Slut. I don’t mind wearing a pair of my mature sexy wife’s “spoiled” panties after she has “cum” back from a date with one of her young studs, but I am not into make-up or dressing up. That said I am a Cum Slut. I enjoy cock deep in the back of my throat and I am willing to provide all my holes for the pleasure of that cock.
I am so glad that because of all the practice I have had and most importantly your early training and encouragement I am long past the gag reflex. My tongue has been trained to sense and feel the changes in pulsation of a ready to explode cock, this way my mouth and throat are ready for that beautiful and delicious ejaculate.
Your C&N Cum Slut Boy Toy Tom
Oh I know you are a slut, and we can leave out the sissy part! What a great way of showing “just because you are not into a kink” doesn’t mean you can’t learn
and utilize some of their lessons for your sexual repertoire! I love you have over come your gag reflex!
Mistress Erika,
THANK YOU!
For being my Mistress. You have guided , coached and set a path for me that I could only have fantasized about 3+ years ago. You have taught me how to serve a cock on my knees and on all fours. I no longer allow a drop of precious cum to be wasted. I have been trained to be the ultimate clean-up boy. My mature Wife knows I am her Boy Toy and reminds me often that the “dark haired raven in the white blouse and red skirt“ has done a great job transforming me.
I never thought I could be a Cum Slut but here I am in full glory.
You are a stunningly beautiful woman with a brilliant mind and amazing caring side. Please…never change.
Your C&N Cum Slut Boy Boy Toy Tom
Oh Tom,
What lovely words I’m pleased and honored to be such a force in your journey! As messy and filthy as it is, at times! ????????????????????????
Oh oh oh Ms Erika,
Twirl and curtsey, what kind of sissy am i!?
Naughty Naughty poof poof kind!
Oh oh oh no no, keeps dwess down. Opens mouth
good sissy gurl opppppen WIIIIIIIIIDE LOL
Oh oh oh num NUM num NUM NUM pats front of panties NUM num num mmmmmmmmm NUM num
LOL belinda
Mistress Erika….”In just a few words”??? Good gravy you know me, how can this be possible? My tendency for being verbose must be well known to you by now and with the closures and social distancing during covid (does not deserve a capital C!) the only thing longer than my comments is my….wait for it…HAIR!! You were expecting something else right? Me too but I embraced that deficiency long (there’s that “L” word again) ago…and 3 times today!
However May has elapsed and our June topic is as welcomed as a gentle breeze up under our chiffon summer garden party dresses!
We are all as diverse as a delicate winter flake (You may get snowed in with replies) but can all contribute a favourite activity as we revel in our decadent little didoes! Yes that says “didoes!”
Mine is shopping. An innocent stroll through the mall and spotting that item while window shopping that you know you must have. Aah the game is afoot. Have you shopped there before? Your timing may be off and being caught in a change room is a distinct possibility (I know because it’s happened to me more than once!)
What of the possibilities of meeting a colleague or acquaintance? Walking the length of the mall carrying that soft pink bag with a wisp of crinoline exposed and even horror of horrors your camisole now hanging out below you shirt tails with no free hand to adjust!
But the crowning achievement of this shopping trip has to be the admission to the sales associate that, yes, I am buying this for myself, and seeing that knowing and compassionate smile and twinkle in their eye.
Fortunately I’ve never been refused service and have been met with kindness and acceptance. I consider myself very fortunate.
Oh My Little Gurly Flower!
With prose such as yours, how could I even WISH to attempt to squash your beautiful words? Thank you my clever little one and I know your “Little” reference was more for those who might not know you as intimately as I do, and what fun how you “PUT IT” LOL It is sad, ironic and kinda HOT that most mens hair length after these few months is longer than your …….. well, we know. 😉
Thanks so much for your support!
Sissy yes!!! Slut no!!! Now that I’ve been calling you/Ms Daphne along with adding more mistresses on Skype dressed up as a girl I really am a sissy!!! Especially how both of you have me walking/sitting like a girl along with using vibe/rubbing your clitty through my panties instead of stroking. Also my friend is really excited about seeing how I look in dresses and blouses along with wigs/her old bras/breast forms/makeup and lipstick. This is what I want and now it’s happening and for real!!! She asked me for favor and I helped her out and said she owes me. I’m going to ask if she wants to continue her feminization with going shopping with her in picking out lipsticks/hopefully applying sample shades on my lips/having me dressed up as a girl. As she said it’s time to embrace/accept this as it’s who I am and become which is her submissive weak helpless and feminine sissy girl.
Oh Paulina my hunny bunny creampuff girl! SO right YES YES YES!!
Most sissies have no interest in being a slut, only intense feminization and humiliation. And because everyone has a different lifestyle, whether being married, raising children, working in a high profile job, becoming Caitlyn is not possible for most sissies.
There was a time when i only fantasized about being slutty while dating women. I’d accumulate makeup, lingerie, etc. then eventually purge and continue appearing to most of my friends and family as a male.
But that was a long time ago 😉 Since becoming a “confirmed bachelor” then retiring i have slowly changed my lifestyle. Long term chastity, staying hairless and smooth, listening to sissy hypnos, and obeying Mistress by continuing to further my emasculation has kept me permanently limp yet horny for sex with alpha males. i never really thought i would go through everything i’m doing now but there is no going back for moi 🙂 i’m a sissy cocksucker for Life 🙂
Kendra! how fantastic to see you on my blog!!! What a fantastic journey and sharing the same with us! yay SissyCockSucker FOR LIFE!!
i like being a slut – a comedic slut 🙂
LOL yes TIfffyyyyyyyy you are fabulous!
Oh Erika how did i get to sissy world ???? let me count the ways first time out ???? got high. & drunk drunk at New Year’s Eve party at nude resort ballons wetr loose & floating around i stuffed 2 under my shirt & started dancing around the clubthe women loved i had a blast. Another guy at the party went to pickup ballons & put under his shirt a lady stopped him i ended up a crossdresser he didn’t .The SISSY part came slong sfter getting Transformation Magazine. Therr was a magazine called Forced Womanhood & Enslaved Sissies after that here we are
Oh April what a story you have to tell! LOL Love, thanks for sharing!!
Goddess Erika, Great post. I am really not a sissy but just a big time loser. Can i really be a slut since i have never been a slut before. since i am a loser i could be a dumping ground for real men though. As men need a place to put it. So that could make me a slut.
it’s called C-U-M Slut, tiny one.
You’ve been one for a while, you’ve been in training to be one. Oh what’s that? You thought being the cum dump at how many events was part of your alave Training?
Oh, are you blindsided? Where did that come from? Ha! Ha!
Silly boy, thinking is for Mistress. Mindless Hard Labor for slaves, now is the time to accept own and say it to me in my ear.
Don’t we have a session coming up?
*looks at calendar* yep, we do. Good!
I sm going down the Rabbitt hole again & with your encouragement oh wow sissy gonr WILD
Going out dressed ? Now ? Withnclubd just starting to open no i don’t think so gay hesch ? No too risky. Activities house work does sound appealing with hra panties _ heels. I used tp go shopping vrossed now well new sissies shy to go out could wear mask & gloves to hide identity & trsces of masculinity 5 o clock shadow well.this sissy has thing to do after house work huhhle bath deep throat a bannanas shave legs ok sissies bgo have fun i will
what, did you just transform in to sissy yoda “have fun I will” LOL
I can tell how sissy horny you are, the hornier you are the less sentence structure (if there’s one to be had at all LOL ) Is WAY WORSE!
My phone screen is cracked and partially unreadable. However i am horny as hell
This photo with the red dildo makrs me want to run to yhe beach and suck off some guy in a g string i ran out of bannanas.
Simplification has been achieved sucksesfully. Although i don’t fancy myself a blonde . I was born blonde& tried red head
.[redacted]< April we don't mention things like you mentioned here on my blog thanks.Erika<
I have never been the kind pf slut to go around singing Cock A Doodle Do amy cock will do.
I am not always a had girl .There is a sign here at the nudist rrsort that says do not [redacted] .I seen 2 alligators and i left them alone. ???? LOL
Should read Bimbofication hss hac berm sucksessfuly . Red dongs purple dongs ding dongs
Ha! Who should? YOU should read it, my readers? ME? Humm……..
What I should do, is stop trying to decipher your posts. there are no words hss hac. I have no clue a to what you are referencing.
Ok for the sake my Mistress sanity, you are hereby ordered to play and orgasm as many times today as you are able, then report back.???? I’m thinking the sissy horny has gone to your brain, making your electronic communications a challenge for you and absolutely mind boggling and inane for me. ????????
Dear Mistress Erika ???? x one 2 i couldn’t play that way i hsd to much work to do but today i used my plugh the the dildo only had some pre cum so licked it
???? omg spelling errors due to a cracked phone screen. On you tube spelling errors can be fixed with editing.And as for them therr Twitter folk .There is some much more perver people than me. I think the Tweet that got me booted was i said to a Dominatrix post instructions lesson that shshould be a police woman
I do behave on you Tube . I just watch the t girls & i keep my mouth shut. All of the Enchantrix women that i converse with are wonderful Angel’s It is sp harf to consider a favorite because i think not only do i have gender Dysphoria but i am split personality
I am full aware that i can come out at eorkhut i would be a complete ruckus in the ???? ladies room my goal is to get a new phone do more house work increase feminization pull up my skirt & be the bitch
I reorganized my girly clothes last night . I have 4 1 bras & 56 pairs of panties
it’s official! you’re a sissy LOL *winks*
Dear Mistress Erika April went went out dressed last night she wore a very very very short denim skirt a see thru poncho smooth shaved legs black 4inch scrappy sandals 36c lacey beige Bali bra with soft silicone breast forms & beige panties to match the bra long black hair hair black frame eye. glasses. Eent for a walk after midnight then sst down on a bench under a pavilion. A chevy truck pulled up & drove by slowly then found a parking space & a muscular shirtless man got out he got out of thr truck looked over at me and said Hey& i didn’t answer him i just let him go on his merry way.
glasses
It’s so endearing when you speak of yourself in the third person!
So intimate!
Thanks for this update! Perhaps April should do more of that!