“I want strap-on sex”, Is this your siren song? I hear it! But what’s stopping you? Too Shy? Too Scared? Think it will hurt? Maybe what you need is Mistress coerces you to take her girlcock? I know it’s both a terrifying and a very exciting possibility for you. I get it, and that’s why you come to me. Not only to learn the pleasure of anal sex but also to be safe and sane while doing it. I’ll clear up some misunderstandings about men and strap on sex and some of the more popular ways I play with strapon sex.
Understanding Males And Strap On Play
The first misunderstanding about men and strap-on play is that you must be gay! Such an unfortunate closed mindset because enjoying the pleasure of anal sex does not mean you are gay. With that said YOU could be gay and want to explore your ass with strap-on sex,to gain the experience of being penetrated. Or just because it feels so good, who needs another reason?
True too, is if you equate anal sex equals gay, would it surprise you to know some gay males don’t prefer anal sex? So let’s check our preconceived notions about men and being penetrated equating homosexuality or bisexuality for that matter.
Another common misconception is that you are a pansy, a fruit cake, a sissy boi, or any other number of terms used to describe an emasculated, through feminization, male. There are troves and troves of this type of sisy boi, all over the internet. This stereotype usually involves the sissy being the bitch in heat getting railed by Mistress’s girl cock. Are there sissy gurls who want to be penetrated and love to experience being fucked by Mistress’ strap on? Sure! But again, that doesn’t mean all males are wanting to play pansy cake.
Some Truths About Men And Strap-on Play
Many parts of our bodies feel good when we stimulate them. If you are like most men you are comfortable with the typical Wow spots. Nipples, dick, balls, pussy, clit.
You’re not wrong, but keep in mind the anus is very sensitive. Many find it feels good to lightly massage, and finger just the sphincter. Both sexes often enjoy this erotic stimulation.
But guys, you have something more, and something that makes stimulating it very arousing for many! So we are going a bit deeper, which is the first few inches behind the anus is your P spot, it’s where your prostate is. It is a close neighbor, thinly separated by the wall of the rectum. Just a few inches inside, explore have fun!
It all boils down to this: If it feels good to stimulate it, be it your ear, lips, pussy, Back, buttocks anus, or prostate then in my esteemed opinion it was meant to be played with.
Please take the time, to make sure whatever naughty activity you engage in, do it safely and have fun. Don’t forget Mistress is often a great source for an in-depth exploration of safety measures to take.
You’re Ready! Preparing For Strapon Sex
There are plenty of resources and healthy advice about preparing your body physically for pegging play. But suffice it to say, ensure you feel confident, and prepare well in advance with a gentle douche. Many playing with smaller toys may not feel the need to do an in-depth cleaning.
Next is: Lube! Lube can make or break you! Literally. Different sexy activities sometimes require different lube. So prepare and get various types to try them for yourself. Make sure you do some research to make sure the lube you use for your toys are compatible with your strapon.
Selecting the size of your first strapon is important so do your homework here too. Start off smaller, rather than larger. Ensure there is a flair, flange or other bulbous appendages to ensure safe honey hole play. This is a great time to consult Mistress about the toy you should select, you wouldn’t be the first horny fella whose libido was bigger than his hungry hole!
Distance Domination And Strap On Play
The strap-on is a sexy symbol of power in Femdom. Strap-on power exchange scenes Many submissive males often experiment with strap on play during their explorations with u s.. Very few ask to drop this hot activity. So most submissive males are often the delighted recipient of a Mistress’s girl cock.
Make note, just because a pet loves fucking Mistress’s girl cock doesn’t mean he wants to suck it. He’s not gay, not sissy just a guy who loves to allow Mistress to enjoy his body. And reaps the rewards as well.
Generally how the strap-on is utilized in session depends on the desires of their Mistress and their negotiated boundaries. Negotiation is paramount, it actually improves the experience. Both te Mistress and submissive know they’ve been heard. Then trust and truly let go.
Technology And Pegging Phone Sex Sessions
Pegging phone sex is a very popular session. Typically a variety of toys including dildos that suction firmly in place. That strap-on dildo can even slide into a harness and strapped to something, a firm pillow for example. It might take some ingenuity, but I have faith in you.
With technology, pegging you with distance domination is climbing to new heights. Remote control options where I control from the keyboard. They are pricey so if not now, ask me what toys I recommend for your sexy ass in session.
Speaking sessions, the entire spectrum of Strap, and anal sex are also your options for sessions. You don’t have to think you are obligated to get down and dirty with me. Want advice? Sure. From discussing and even picking out a toy to start your anal journey or what size you should graduate to! I’ll teach you what that ass was made for.
Fuck Me In The Ass I’m Not Submissive
It’s also fair to mention, with strapon phone sex the guy doesn’t necessarily identify as submissive. As we myth busted earlier, your average heterosexual, curious, adventurous non-submissive sexy guy enjoys strap-on sex because it’s his body and if it feels good, explore it!
Pegging and strap-on sessions can include Extreme humiliation often including some choice words for the humiliated submissive. Cock sucker, slut, cock bitch you get the idea, the list is endless. So coerced dildo-sucking requirement. including riding will be had.
Sissy Girls And Strap On Sex
Sissy girls love pegging play! Of course, there are no absolutes when discussing strap-on sex. There are some who are into Cross-dressing, feminization, and sissification who do not want any play with that caboose. But many absolutely do. Often those who enjoy feminization and strap on sex identify as being sissy. And boy do the sissy girls love Mistress’s strap on!
I Want Strap On Sex
I heard your desires, and I hope you have enjoyed our short look at strap-on sex. Be part of the conversation! I want to know…….
Are you more curious now? Have you had strap-on sex and said “Nope, thanks anyway”? I have so many questions, you’d better give me a call! I also love your comments, too! Sound off below!
Until We chat 💋
I have dabbled with butt play and while there is an urge and attraction to it, it has never ended up as something I’ve enjoyed. I love the tease, I even like it as a sort of threat, but it just doesn’t create a feeling I enjoy.
That said small plugs and such are perfect for that tease, humiliation, taunting itch.
On the other hand, using a strapon in a different way has been peeking my interest recently. Caged and wearing a strap on to deliver pleasure in an unsatisfying way seems like a great way to tease and frustrate a chastity toy.
Aquired taste? Maybe. And conintuing to dabble might bring me around. Or maybe it’s like coconut, I don’t dislike the taste, but I’ll never get past the texture. LOL
LOL Oh Wellspanked! “texture” good analogy! You bring up a good point, not all can get used to or enjoy prostate play/anal play. We are all different
and that’s what makes it fun!
You bring up a good point, some anal play is fun for some but full blown FUCK YOU LIKE A BITCH with my “Destroyer” , not so much!
all good, and now I can’t stop thinking about plowing that sweet ass! 🍑
Looking back, very appropriate for this topic, waaay back in my case, to my introduction to the strap on, I’ve nothing but fond memories.
The Words jumped off the page right at me, from the ad in the weekly alt types newspapers of the day….”Dildo Training”
A previous Mistress I would visit for Crossdressing sessions had told me she would “strap on” a dildo and pound away at her clients while they were “en femme”
I didn’t try it with her, alas, (she was wonderful) and regret it to this day.
Perhaps I should have mentioned this is in the days of newspaper ads and “pay telephones” (whaaaa….?) that were the methods to arrange any naughty escapades.
(I’ve mentioned elsewhere before I am BI….(yes, Before Internet!)
Nonetheless the Mistress that did pop my strap on cherry was very skilled at her craft, taking care that the virgin in her care was well cared for.
In somewhat of a deviation from the norm, I took this first faux phallus lying down!
Yes! With lots and lots of lube, (a MUST!) my eager novice rosebud gradually accommodated Mistress’s massive impaler! (It was 6 inches but to a first timer?)
With every thrust and with every tug she gave on my little member I could sense that something magical was about to occur.
With a gigantic spasm of my entire body I exploded into an orgasmic display of bliss.
Afterwards, I explained to Mistress that I’d just had the most extraordinary experience that I couldn’t even imagine.
She smiled. I can imagine that wasn’t the first or last compliment she received for her expertise.
If one’s first foray into the world of wazoo is painful it’s likely it will be a one off.
It did happen to me. One Mistress was quit aggressive and had that been my first crack at my crack, I probably never would have come back to the table for seconds.
Mistress Erika you have so much valuable information in your post on this topic. Definitely I endorse strap on play! Hopefully your blog will inspire some curious latecomers to take the plunge. Better still, let Mistress do the plunging. It’ll open up a “hole” new world!
My Darling Peg!
Thank you for sharing your pegging journey with me and THE WORLD! As usual your word play is divine! Laying down on your back, I presume with your sissy toes pointed in the air?
Or *Gasp* tied to stirrups? Thank you for you compliments, darling I sure do hope I have inspired and I KNOW YOU Have, sharing the fun you had with pegging and strap on play!
P.s. You are locked and pantied today, yes?
Thank you Mistress Erika🥰. I am so glad you enjoyed my “submission “ to your blog post!
You can rest assured your little peanut is snug as bug in its resin restrainer “Pink Pen”.
Not to mention your property is covered in frothy frills of sea foam panties!
Hmmm. Can’t recall if my sissy toes were pointed in the air but it’s safe to say they curled when the time (and I) came!💦💦
LOL very good , peg! 😘 Locked pantied, entertaining a hattrick!
Hat trick! You’re referring to peewee, Lefty and Mr. Right!🤏🤭?
Isn’t a hat trick thee in a row of something?
Locked
pantied
Entertaining
Hi Goddess Erika, I like that picture of you. 🧎♂️🧎♂️🧎♂️ I have done some anal play but it was mainly with only butt plugs before. You make a lot of great points in this post Goddess Erika. I always love reading your blogs.
😘Thank you pet
Yes Mistress Erika, you have the sports jargon spot on! A hat trick is three! Goals in one game (not necessarily in a row). You are making your little Canuck pet proud🥰🇨🇦)
😘😘I know just enough to be dangerous! LOL Good Morning Little locked peg!
oh oh no no no i dont want this i dont really
🤔👎👎
🤥🤥🤥🤥🤥🤥🤥🤥🤥 LOL Rarely does someone call attention , waiving their little sissy hands and calling to Mistress when they DON’T Want something hahahah
You are so transparent peanut smuggler
ooooooooooooooh drops to knees bends over
oooh ooooh ooooooooh
Naughty naughty!
Erika!
LOVE LOVE LOVE this topic! I love your wholistic take on the subject. You don’t have to be GAY to try and even enjoy it! My own take on the subject is this: As a GAY man, receiving anal sex is way more than just physically pleasurable. The vulnerability and ceding control is exhilarating. Allowing another man the control takes the physical pleasure and multiplies it by a factor of 10! Also, knowing that my body can bring another man to orgasm is such a turn on to me. I have even cum just from being penetrated (most intense orgasms ever!!!). Do, why am I interested in being pegged by a woman (You or J😜)? I do not dislike women and do find them attractive. I relate very well to women (we have a few common interests 😉). My penis just doesn’t seem to work with women. I would love to have the chance to give a woman the control. To be vulnerable to her. She gets to dictate whether she’s aggressive or gentle (hopefully both). I also think it could be a learning opportunity. A lot if Hetero women find GAY sex repulsive. Seeing that it’s not gross but actually every bit is sensual, erotic, emotional, psychological as Hetero sex, could open windows on their own lives. The same goes for men. It’s a different viewpoint of where women are coming from.
I could go on for days. Thanks for the great topic today!!!!
Aaron! Eloquent as per usual, you bring a refreshing perspective to this post!
The gay man experience and strap on sex. Yes, gay men call women for phone sex!
We’re on the same team! We both know what the other wants and there’s no competition!
Yay! Absolutely !
Dear Ms Erika,
Nice pictures with this blog! You look very stunning in your black (or dark blue?) stockings, garter belts, and underpants.
😘 Thank you Michael! Both for stopping by and leaving a message and for such a lovely message as well!
hope you are NOT behaving LOL
You’re welcome, ma’am!
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