Hi there, stroke pet! I know some of you first called me wanting JOI (Jerk Off Instructions) or guided masturbation sessions. Just something hot with a hot Woman. You don’t consider that too kinky or Femdomish, I get that. I hear some of you saying “jerking-off, Erika, that’s not so kinky!” If you think JOI  isn’t kinky, you don’t know me very well. Not only is it kinky, it’s so beneficial to YOU as a MAN wanting to please their partner! Let me explain.

JOI (Jerk Off Instructions)

Jerk off instructions are not necessarily instructions on “jerking”. As all you penis people (and others!) know, when you stimulate yourself you are not always “jerking” right? Sometimes you are rubbing, pushing and putting that naughty dick in all kinds of places.  Same with some fun time with me. But this time, you don’t know what I’ll instruct you to do. You don’t know the cadence, or when I’ll tell you to stop, change up the grip, ruin an orgasm, or a have a full orgasm! Oh, don’t get all freaky on me. We’ll negotiate that as well. That cum. Who gets to say where and when. ???? But fair warning, once the negotiations end and the play begins, there’s no turning back. Just a friendly reminder for you: “fun to be denied but totally bummed, when it happens”  guy! ????????

JOI with Edging

JOI  with a partner makes your masturbation so much hotter and kinkier. When you masturbate alone you set the pace, and decide when you are going to orgasm. You can certainly control when  you orgasm during a typical “JOI” session. Or you can employ the Femdom option ,spicing things up,   I’ll challenge you to push your limits. Guided masturbation adding Dominance in session means you will give up control up to me.  I’ll instruct you on some controls to ensure there won’t be any UO, unauthorized orgasms and you follow my instructions. Simple, right? ????????????

JOI with Orgasm Control and Edging


Jerk Off Instructions (JOI) while you wait.

Humping, rubbing stroking with an assortment of fabrics and toys, oh, the delicious ways we can play.  You, doing all assorted naughty things to that meat-stick. Edging, cooling down. Over and over, until you are lost from all thought but focused on each stroke, each breath.  You’re loving the feelings of being hitched on a cycle of emotions. Waves  which make your desperate body cry for  orgasm, and yet a part never wants this current ecstasy to end, rolling in that space where only you and my voice exists. Surrender control of your orgasms to me. You act and react instinctively  to my commands. Finally,you breathlessly whisper a final request: Mistress May I cum?

Pleasing Your Partner

When we play this way, increasing your control over your own orgasm. Play with edging, your stamina  improves.  You know we want  you to last as long as we need you to. You want to provide that hard lasting rod of steel for that special person. Don’t ya? Sure ya do.

I could go on and on about playing with pricks and orgasm control. Certainly among my favorite subjects to get up close and personal on, for sure. But it seems as if my dinner has arrived, so I’ll bid you a fond farewell. Until we chat.