Men Need Cock Control. I know some of you scoff at such a thing. But admit it, me, in many ways we women already control those cocks to some degree. I just happen to make it a hobby, and ok ya got me: a great way to make a living! Talk about LIVING THE DREAM! WOOT! (laughs) Can’t blame a gal for that, now can ya? Nope, if you do you’re just jelly!
Oh and even you gay boi’s and sissy gurls you are NOT exempt! If you have what a doctor would call a penis then YOU are included in this post.
Reasons Men Need Cock Control
You:
You’ll Crave My Control
Have a cock.
Masturbate too much
Are addicted to porn
Crave meaning and purpose to your orgasm
Masturbating is more exciting when have an enthusiastic and engaged partner
Want explosive, better quality orgasms
Want to explore submission
Love that arousal high (which is perfectly LEGAL btw. ha!)
You’re more productive, personally, when you on that arousal high.
If you said yes to one or more of the above reasons why men need cock control, then you can have fun with cock control, with me! Some of you less versed in cock control may be surprised by some of the reasons above. You probably think cock control is all about chastity and denial. Sure that’s on the list, but there’s so much more!
Ways I Control That Cock
Depending on your checklist, above determines the playing field.If you are adventurous I’ll run you through each of the erotic ways I control that cock. At one level you have guided masturbation, where you follow my instructions teasing that cock My way. Many have called me for just that, and with guide masturbation you can have it with orgasm control, or not. Meaning cums when he’s darn good and ready to cum. Or he gives me that control and he holds off that orgasm until I say.
But funny enough, as I think back: every client who has called me repeatedly, for guided masturbation,with no orgasm control, has changed their mind and submits their cock and orgasm to me now. That pleases me. Either way, you can see how guided masturbation is a gateway to cock control.
Edging, ruined orgasm are on that list of ways I control that cock. Achieving explosive orgasms with our edging play, Giving you more satisfaction, per orgasm. I feel for you guys. Your orgasm last just a fleeting moment compared to ours. I understand why you’d want the best quality orgasm.
For some that satisfaction lasts longer and their ability to reduce your weekly masturbation habits is an added benefit.
Some Men Need Extreme Control
Orgasm control, chastity. Are you addicted to porn or do you chronically masturbate? No matter who tells you to keep those hands off your pleasure stick you simply do NOT have the ability to follow through? Then , definitely chastity is for you. Not only will you not have a choice regarding following through on your naughty urges but you’ll find a whole new world out there for you to engage with once you are focused on the proper things.
But locking that cock up and leaving it locked, is not the only thing in the game plan.Chastity cages can also be used for erotic fun! You won’t be the first guy who said “I’m not into locking up my junk” on the first call, only to say (later) I was looking at these chastity cages Mistress…….(insert knowing smirk and chuckle here)
The fantastic thing about using a chastity device it has a delicious results! If you think you’ve been submissive before. If you think you’ve FELT submissive before, darlin you ain’t seen nuttin yet! Give it a try. I promise I won’t lock you up permanently and shrink your best bud. Well, not unless you are a big loser or BEG ME TO! Ha! But I will say you’ll experience cock control , submission in a way you’ve not even imagined!
Cock Control And You
Of course there is a lot more to cock control and the ways I can have fun with My cock. These are the more popular and the details, the tease and erotic mind fuck which happens within these category’s is what makes cock control so hot! How will I control THAT cock? That’s yet to be seen!
Until We Chat ????
Cock Control Mistress Erika
I love when you can own my cock Mistress Erika. Thank you
Mmmmmmm So Do I! You’re Welcome!
New to your blog Mistress Erika. One thing i was wondering about is locking a guy up in permanent chastity. How big of a loser does a guy need to be qualify? Would you really lock a guy up forever?
Hi there lonely boy. Certainly I take permanent chastity seriously. I wouldn’t enter into it lightly or on a whim.
The loser would have to demonstrate to me that locking up that pathetic cock is what is best for:
1-Him.
-he no longer has to pretend to be a real man, capable for giving women pleasure which is a huge stress relief for many
– he is more focused and subservient in a cage and no orgasm
2- For women. Is he such a loser that he simply isn’t capable of providing for a family, financially , spiritually , emotionally or physically.
I hope this answers your question “lonely boy”
Check… check… check … permanent chastity it is
Definitely Cock Control is needed.Some men need to be told their Dick is not made of gold. Stroking because they are not getting any.
Great point!
I know of other men’s cocks being out of control
from my walk in life as a crossdresser and Internet Sissy Slut. . I am currently wearing the smallest of women’s thong panties S (3-5) & wearing a flat chastity device non locking just a tiny bolt thru to hold the flat flap to the ring so the penis remains flat. The locks cause to much bulge in the panties. Which I find undesirable at this time. I don’t masturbate any more. I pinch & pull my nipples. While listening to the audio I was pulling my thong panties higher up into my ass this seems to pleasure me
perfect!
My chastity cage pinched while doing housework and making breakfast.I drive my big red truck 🚒 to a garage and had a spare tire mounted for a limo and got old tires to plant pineapple 🍍🍍🍍🍍🍍 plants. My thong started to ride up ass while doing this in blue jeans all the whole thinking about you a no my nipplesgot
I am glad that my latest exploits of kinky sexual behavior please you. I just love wearing panties and being in chastity and sucking on dicks. So far my sucking of dicks is not out of control because the pleasure exists only under certain circumstances . I have no sexual desire for cock when not at the beach. And as of yet I have no Misstress or woman in my life to provide a cuckold cock sucking experience
Absolutely agree with you Ms Erika!!! Especially now that you have me in panties/bra and rubbing your clitty instead of stroking it. It’s to difficult to resist and say no to. Once home projects are done I’m going to finally start calling on regular basis with you and the other ldw mistresses. This is what’s best and needed for me. With my small cock I do belong in panties/bra all the time along with women’s clothes as I’m going to start buying and wearing as my friend said this as well being her cabi boy. I’m going to tell her i want go shopping with her dressed up holding her purse and shopping bags as well if she wants to help me pick out lipsticks trying them on my lips. Hopefully she will want to do this. She told me not to worry about her husband and not worry or care what others think anymore. With her telling me all of this she starting to take control over me which is what I always wanted.
Fantastic Paulina! 🙂 Good Luck with the home projects and having fun being FEM!
Good post Goddess Erika. Still don’t know if edging is right for me. Chastity is a maybe but still can’t afford one right now. Did You have me in mind when being a big loser for permanent chastity? Does it really shrink a pee-pee? Wow. Maybe i do deserve to never have any control over my little thing.
Hey TFTT!
The only way edging is right for you, is if you could actually DO IT and if I order you to. You tftt would definitely be on that list for permanent chastity. Re: does it really shrink? Ask Princess , up there. hahahahaha
Hi Goddess Erika, I was wondering if when the contract becomes permanent in six moths if there will be something on pee-pee control in it? For me it is to small to be called cock control.Would your program for me be about 85% chastity so you can still have your fun humiliating me on sessions?
Ha! Slave tim, since I own and control every other cell in your body, your tiny little birth defect drs are prone to call a penis is in play! Make that 95% chastity
Goddess Erika, Wow 95% chastity. This would basically ensure that i would be a virgin for life. I bet the other 5% would be with humiliation.
ha ha ha you are hilarious! Chasity isn’t /won’t keep you a virgin , the 2″ useless pc of flesh between your legs is!
Glad to make you laugh Goddess Erika. So then chastity for me is more about giving up control then preventing me from having sex or having an orgasm then. I know you think some males need chastity more then others.
You know me tim! LOL
What to do on a rainy Tuesday afternoon? Too early for dinner and finished the Times crossword quickly…( there’s that disconcerting trend of “finishing too quickly”!)
Let’s go back into the archives and peruse some of Mistress’s past posts.
We could find a million of them I’m sure…(perhaps more rainy Tuesdays loom) but for today I want to leave a short comment…(well Mistress, you know what’s short and it’s not my comments!)
on this post on Cock Control.
Jumping into the chastity pool back in November, you’ve described my progress as a “duck to water”
With your encouragement and support I have come to love this new experience. We jumped right over certain steps you mention and now, with you rightfully in control it feels so right. The assignments, the reports, the satisfaction of pleasing my Mistress and the sense of accomplishment gives me such satisfaction.
Driving into Kink City I’ve turned off my GPS and will follow my nose…(it’s longer than what’s locked in my cage!). Who knows what roads we will travel?
little peg! More of my pets could take notes out of your submissive book! I think spending the rainy afternoon looking through my blogs is a fantastic way to spend the time!
Love your little double entendres! you are not only a fantastic pet but clever too! Add chastity and YOUR NEW goal breaking time locked and you have (wait for it) the hat trick of kink! ????????????
She shoots, she scores!!! Yay Mistress Erika! Are you becoming a hockey fan? ???????? My team is already out…(Boo!) but yours is looking very good!
Love scoring a hat trick and I’ll continue to be on my best behaviour and stay out of the penalty box!
Hey little peg! glad I gave ya a smile but no not a hockey fan, or any danger of me jumping that fence. LOL But since I exist, mostly conscious and aware of my surroundings, I have picked up some vernacular. Nay the only games with guys and balls I’m into is very erotic, and cannot be broadcasted on regular television! LOL
Oh Mistress Erika, I knew you weren’t a hockey fan like a hoser such as myself, but your “Hat trick” reference was so appropriate. Now, first off, on the ice, we play with a “puck”….when we get back to the bench THEN we play with our balls!
OMG…sports double entendres…(I’ve used pretty much al my baseball ones with Ms Olivia already!)
One more for hockey Mistress Erika… the analyst praises the player with a “quick release” in the “slot”
The fans in the cheap seats are laughing!
LOL oh little peg you are so clever and fun! Thanks for these, you know how I adore the “double entendres” ha ha!!
Misstress Erika I suppose I am no longer a man. Not needing control
no jerking no
pillow humping staying pussyfree
clitty shrinkage
I only cum or pre cum by being in a situation of arousal. Like going to the beach and finding myself with a mouthful. My last stimulation was wearing women’s thong panties pulled up as far as possible and listening to this blog.Thanks and now i must say Thanks for the HAPPY NEW YEAR and sink wash my Panties
Yep sure sounds like it! #Notaman