Hello, dear readers! Quick post today about the Power Exchange Ritual. In my world of femdom, there is a lot of talk about subspace, dom space, being owned and controlled by a beautiful dominant woman. Certainly leading, taking control of your mind,  your body, your sexuality is erotic and arousing for me, as it is for you. Feeling the energy shift is thrilling. But what is and why a ritual, some have wondered. What is it about and what does it look like?

Power Exchange

Your ability submit and find your subspace is largely a learned process. Sure there are naturally submissive people, but don’t mistake being a nervous unsure twit with being submissive. Even those who are naturally submissive benefit from the power shift.   What acts help you feel submissive giving up that power to another? Some it’s donning panties at my request and being my pantie wearing submissive. Others need to be over my knee with a stern and focused spanking. Many identify the traditional BDSM scene, spanking, restraint and various flogging , caning as the pinnacle of that power exchange. Some it is sensual meditation that gets you to the space you crave. Still  others it is sensual or harsh humiliation. The list is as wide and varied as there are people.

Power Exchange Ritual

Power Exchange Ritual

Power Exchange Ritual

In so when learning what helps you feel submissive and finding that subspace you crave, Mistresses know that adding a ritual to the scene is a powerful way to condition your mind and body. Trigger, if you will to help aid and reconnect you with your Mistress. I could be a special greeting, created to open the session put your mind and body in alignment for what is to come. Perhaps a particular ritual performed at the beginning of the session to help condition your mind and your body to find it in that subspace where nothing else matters. Focused on your Dom, focused on Her words and allow the rest of reality fade as you both journey through space.

Intimate Power Exchange Ritual

For the uninitiated the above title may seem strange. They don’t get how intimate D/s scenes are, or can be. More than being physically naked and vulnerable to another. Your submission is reflective of the trust and vulnerability that occurs, and is as powerful or even more so than any other sexual encounter. Therefore the ritual you and I have will be personal, created just for us. Will there be similar elements with others? Sure. I have my triggers too, you know. Those triggers will be there for My pleasure. But other elements will be tailored to our connection, our time. If you regularly session with me you know this. Don’t you pet.

Until we chat,

Mistress Erika????