I’ve had some fun with ruined orgasms as of late. So naturally I’m compelled to write about them! For the unaware a ruined orgasm is one where the male is stimulated to orgasm, and at the point of no return, having all stimulation stop.
Why Ruined Orgasm Is for You
Do you feel alive, when you are high on sex hormones? Love to feel slightly horny, If not more so, all the time? Having your cock in an almost constant chubby state, tingling and reminding you just how long it’s been since your last satisfying orgasm sound hot? Don’t worry, that’s exactly where I want you to be too! Ruined Orgasm Training may be just the thing you need!
Visually Stimulating
Watching a ruined orgasm is really a delight. The cock jumping and twitching as the normally eruptive spunk can only weakly pump its way out of the cock. But even more intriguing is the seemingly immense effort it takes the male to remove stimulation (aka his hand) when every fiber of his being is screaming for him to continue stroking! I’m impressed at the effort! Of course, the guys with the best groans, moans and *fucks!* as he forces his hand off and keeping it off during the ruined orgasm get the best grade from me!
New Level Ruined Orgasm
Now, combine repeated edging and ruined orgasm , dribble in a few days of chastity for the chronic stroker. When you combine it with a ruined orgasm you are going to have a wonderfully entertaining, horny pet still wanting to go again! Keeping you horny is my goal, so I think incorporating a ruined orgasm should play a more prominent role in your cock control training going forward! Don’t you?
Come on Let’s Play!
We can play most edges before ruined orgasm. Most days between ruined orgasms. Or Oh, I know most ruined orgasms in a month, quarter or year! Now that would be awesome! Do you have a ruined orgasm goal to make? Call me today, let’s get that plan into action!

Aww, ruined orgasm??
You got me so bad with this you get release but no satisfaction. You are empty but still horny. You are always AMAZING Erika!0
You are a delightful sub. So obedient so expressive, always gets my panties wet!
Thank you Erika, it’s a pleasure pleasing you. 🙂
I love giving out ruined orgasms! It always leaves the sub wanting more and more. And this is what I love. Orgasms are great, but even better when you have them craving you one minute after the ruined one. I love it when they start begging!
I <3 the way you think!
I’m weak just thinking about it. I’m beginning to realize how much I need my cock controlled. I hope Mistress has a plan for all that cum, too. Hate to leave a mess…
Yes there is a plan, and you won’t be left dehydrated , let’s just leave it at that LOL
Dear Mistress Erika,
I find the topic of ruined orgasms interesting. In my case I practice Tantric masturbation and orgasm denial. In the past, I have experienced ruined orgasms, as a punishment. In addition to calling the LDW mistresses, I visit my in-person mistresses. I recall one session very vividly, where my mistress was giving me a corporal punishment spanking on my naked ass. I was standing in my mistress’s presence completely naked, as she used that paddle to give my ass some hard swats. I was so sexually aroused that my penis was nice and hard. As she saw that big erection, she proceeded to beat my ass harder. This resulted in a spontaneous ejaculation, which ended in a ruined orgasm.
Now I watch other submissive males experience ruined orgasms. Yes! I, likewise, find it visually stimulating. In my case, I desire complete orgasm denial, and I do not desire to experience any ruined orgasms. I prefer to keep that cum inside my balls. 🙂
Thank you for this post!