Hello my adoring fans , pets and lookie loo’s. Ha ha, lookie loo! I heard someone say that recently and it’s stuck in my head! Lookie loo= one who just looks but doesn’t interact or do sessions with me. Let me tell you, I appreciate you LOOKIE LOO’s too! Because the more you come back to my blog, hang out and LOOK the better it is for me.
Nothing too kinky or sexy today just a quick fun blog. For those of you who have been paying attention and if you arrived here on August 27 It’s my Birthday and I’m taking off to have some FUN today! I have a tradition with myself , as one of my years end and another begins I like to reflect back on my year and then make some goals for the coming year! Lucky you, I’ll let you in on some of my sexy musings!
Appreciation
I appreciate all of my callers and pets who have made this past year fantastic! In December I’ll be “here” at LDW for 4 years! I have to say I have not once regretted my decision to take my kinky Dominate nature to this venue! Are things perfect? No , of course not, nothing is perfect. I’ve encountered some very not nice people! But like anything in life that’s worth doing / having there are frustrations and challenges. But compare those challenges to years past? *Pfff* easy peasy! Do I work my tushy off , creating amazing erotic experiences for you? Yes, but I adore every moment! So much worthwhile than balancing “the books”.
So from that “one off” ten minute caller to my adoring long time pets: THANK YOU , you enrich my life in ways beyond measure. I appreciate YOU!!
Mistress’ New year
I have to say, every one of you has helped me grow, along with your kinky growth! Each one of you bring your own special selves to my table, and it makes me a better Mistress by pushing my own boundaries. Fun and sensual by nature, I’ve had some very harsh humiliation pets this past year and WOW, I’m really liking letting out my Mean Mistress at times! So much so that for my new year I am working on a profile for Mean Mistress site at LDW. I’ll be rolling it out with a blog here as well.
Other things I will be looking forward to this year is more Lovense Long Distant Toy Play! Oh yea, if you haven’t heard of these toys then let’s get you on that kinky path! I’ve done several sessions, where pet wears his toy and I randomly “play with my cock” throughout the day or specified session. Long distance Domination just keeps getting better and better with technology! I’m going to be offering some LD toy packages at phone sex assignments in the near future.
Erotic Writing and Audio’s. Since the turn of 2020 I’ve been getting so many erotic audio requests I am totally loving being creative that way !! I also have done some erotic writing on commission as well! Woo hoo! Don’t be shy if you are curious, send me an email I’ll tell you all about the process!
Twitter Fun
Before I depart a little twitter fun! I often post fun polls on twitter to entertain and inform us all. Many people I speak with have questions about how they measure up to others. “Do many guys call you wanting to suck cock” to “Sorry but this is a weird kink”. Although that anxiety can be erotically stimulating for some (and it’s OK if it does!) some benefit from knowing they are not that “strange” after all.
What Kind of Men Call Phone Sex Lines?
What Kind of Men Use Phone Sex Services?
I think the men who have called me are fantastic fun loving people who just need to let off a bit of steam, looking for someone to understand and enjoy their desires or want to expand their kinky boundaries!
Sure some call because they feel they are losers, enjoy harsh humiliation as an erotic stimulus but a very small percentage see themselves as such.
What do you think? Any comments on “what kind of men call these lines?”
Masturbation
Male Masturbation
This set of polls were VERY interesting. I asked both men, and women about their masturbation habits. Nothing too personal , just “do you or don’t you”. Simple right? Take a gander at this, way different results than what I was expecting!! It is often said that males masturbate more than females, so why such crazy results?
Well , sure some probably fibbed. But twitter polls are anonymous. I think it’s because the people who follow me, may be more into Cock control than the average male. What do you think?
Female masturbation
I welcome your comments on these polls, as I’ve found I have a plethora of clever and fun people who follow my blog! Your last gift to me for My Birthday is the gift of a smile, or perchance a laugh. Entertain me, pets!
There you have it, My feel good blog to round out my year. May you feel as blessed as I do, all the year through!
Until We Chat ????
Intelligent Phone Fantasy Mistress Erika
Mistress Erika: Happy Happy Birthday!????. But what’s this? You are giving us a gift today with an informative and fun recap of the year and personal glimpse into your experiences as our Mistress. “Ducky, ducky”…see if that phrase gets in your head too!????
Over the past year and a half I’ve gotten to know you, share with you, made you chuckle and exasperated the hell out of you!
You are so patient and understanding to put up with me. I absolutely adore you and tremble in anticipation each time I am waiting for you to pick up the phone when I call.
Your blog posts are so well written, intelligent, interesting and amusing. Composing a reply for you to read and hopefully enjoy is one of my greatest pleasures. Your prompt responses thrill me and demonstrates how much you love what you do.
Frankly I don’t know how you juggle all those balls…(metaphorically speaking!) but you do, bringing your pets hours of endless pleasure.
Once again Mistress Erika, Happy Birthday to an incredible woman. Best wishes for a wonderful day!
Your adoring pet
little davey ❤️
Little davey!
Either Mistress’ cycle is “just so” or I’m feeling lots of “Feels” at the turn of another year but you made me misty! All of what you say is 100% true of our connection and seeing how you appreciate it is heartwarming! Thank you little one and “here’s to another fun filled year” for us both!
Mistress Erika: Thank you for such a beautiful reply! It warmed the heart of my cockles…ummm cockles of my heart! My naughty little mind (among some other naughty little things I possess) is racing at the prospect of where our zany, wacky (blush) madcap adventures will lead us! Let’s fill up the tank and head out for another 365! You inspire me!
aww thank you! ????
Thank you and happy birthday, Mistress Erika, Ms Erika, Erika (or whichever you wish to be called in our interactions).
You have treated your cocks so well this past year; they, and the people attached to them, are very lucky and I can speak for myself grateful.
Your musings, the questions you posit, bring sexy self exploration and entertainment to us. Returning the favor is least I’d like to do back.
Wishing you infinitely more birthdays and wonderful birthday wishes filled.
Thank you Wellspanked for taking your precious time to send me such lovely musings!
It’s true that sometimes my easy going nature leaves pets a bit unsure “what to call me” and I’m glad you mentioned it. Outside of session, Erika or Ms Erika is fine! During session Mistress is a must and when the energy compels you Goddess is often uttered! LOL
Thank you WS for your continued support “out there” , and your own entertaining and clever replies! !!
Good afternoon mistress. HAPPY BIRTHDAY again, I wish I could tell you this in person. I can’t thank you enough for all you have taught me, gone through with me, and are truly the best friend I’ve never met. Have a happy happy birthday, maybe slow a pet to give you a little birthday spanking.
Aww thank you Bob! I am warmed by your words of appreciation and adoration, you make what I do so much “more” than phone sessions and I can’t be happier
to be a part of your journey as well!
Mistress Erika,
What a fun Blog! As you know your Pets, Fans, Boy Toys and Admirers check in everyday for your latest!
But what are you doing blogging and tweeting on your Birthday?
You should be enjoying it in every way possible. I know social distancing has probably kept you from having the last drops of your night before creampie licked up by your favorite Florida Boy Toy. Then of course once he’s done he should be preparing your favorite breakfast served up in bed. Then a surprise he arranged comes to the door when a masseuse arrives to give you a long and soothing full body massage to really relax you before late morning champagne cocktails by the pool. Dare we say he may be a Bull with other talents to perform for you!
Of course next will be a light lunch with all your favorite foods. Then back to the pool for a dip. Your Boy Toy knows he needs to lick every drop of water off of you when you come out. He then should prepare afternoon drinks, a fully catered dinner before a romantic walk on the beach ending in a night of wild sex.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BEAUTIFUL!
Your C&N Cum Slut Boy Toy Tom
Hello Boy Toyyyyyyyyyy~
Thank you so much for your comments! Here’s a bit of “Mistress magic” behind the scenes peek for ya. Blogs can be written in advance and “scheduled” to post at a later time.
*winks*
Thank you for the birthday wishes and I LOVE LOVE LOVE your perfect pampering Mistress day! !!!
Mistress Erika,
What a fun Blog! As you know your Pets, Fans, Boy Toys and Admirers check in everyday for your latest!
But what are you doing blogging and tweeting on your Birthday?
You should be enjoying it in every way possible. I know social distancing has probably kept you from having the last drops of your night before creampie licked up by your favorite Florida Boy Toy. Then of course once he’s done he should be preparing your favorite breakfast served up in bed. Then a surprise he arranged comes to the door when a masseuse arrives to give you a long and soothing full body massage to really relax you before late morning champagne cocktails by the pool. Dare we say he may be a Bull with other talents to perform for you!
Of course next will be a light lunch with all your favorite foods. Then back to the pool for a dip. Your Boy Toy knows he needs to lick every drop of water off of you when you come out. He then should prepare afternoon drinks, a fully catered dinner before a romantic walk on the beach ending in a night of wild sex.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BEAUTIFUL!
Your C&N Cum Slut Boy Toy Tom
Hey Tome I thought I replied to this, strange. I don’t see it.
Love your prose but I wasn’t here on my birthday, we can schedule blogs to post at a later date! #MistressMagic
Hi Goddess Erika, Happy Birthday and i look forward to reading Your profile on Mistress of Mean. I wonder if i am one of the losers who has brought out your mean and strict side? I think You always did have a mean side. Some people deserve meaner treatment. I do also like your fun and sensual side to. All great dominants are both sensual and strict. Looking forward to another great year talking to Goddess Erika. Can’t wait to be ignored on Saturday.
slave tim! Thank you tiny one for your wishes!
Yes, YOU are one of “them” who I enjoy tormenting in a mean way!
I can’t wait until Sat either, it’s going to be a F-in BLAAAAAAAAST!!!
Hope you had great birthday yesterday!!! Starting next week going to call on weekly basis now that summer is winding down/weather getting cooler. It’s great how on very first call with you how we clicked as if we’ve known each other for years!!!! Even though it’s by phone only I feel you are my girlfriend along with my feminization mistress!!!! I really want to get more into feminization with you/Ms Daphne/Ms Alyssa/Ms Olivia and Ms Delia along with other ldw mistresses when available. I have all these cabi clothes that I need to start wearing on regular basis along with wigs/makeup and lipstick with bras/breast forms. Being dressed up as a girl by all of you and my cabi friend is hot hot hot and as she said I really do look better dressed up as a girl especially when she kept me in dress 2 weeks ago. She’s right in saying this is who I am and become. We just need to figure a way as I want to call 2xweek. Looking forward to continuing our relationship for many years to come!!!!
I did have a great birthday Pauliina!!
Yes yes and YES with the cabi clothes! Loved that last dress in our last session!! I do have some ideas about your sessions 2x a week , let’s talk in twitter DM or email about them!!
A somewhat belated Happy Birthday to an amazing Mistress! I’m more than a little sorry I want there to take your Birthday spanks for you ! Lol #NoMercy
princess prissy! Why thank you, sissy! I appreciate the birthday wishes anytime. But you do have a point and you are “more than sorry” Or, ha! WILL BE!
Spanks can be given , anytime! #NoMercy . Mmmm!
You are awesome Goddess Erika. I thought this ignore call was one of our better calls. I better get used to it as this is what happens to slaves or unimportant people.
tim, it was an awesome time!
Swimming
music
lunch
naughty stuff
showers
picking out panties
playing my game
listening to comedy
whatever I WANTED TO DO! and YOU PAID Me to do it! #Awesome
I would do this again in a heartbeat. I will try to do three hours the next time and in the evening. #No Mercy #Awesome #This is what happens to Losers
I also loved hearing the word loser a couple of times in the background.
Good Morning slave tim.
Only a couple of times? Humm. Perhaps it was my noise cancelling headset that blocked some of the noise. I’ll have to just use the handset speaker and mic next time see if you can hear more. There was lots of laughs and more than a couple of losers in there!
Mistress Erika,
Good morning Sunday gorgeous! I hope you are having a great post Birthday weekend.
I have Had quite the weekend so far. My wife’s close friend with luscious lips (you know) has been staying with us since Friday night. Her husband had to make an unexpected car trip to NC and won’t be back to Monday. needless to say I have been busy trying to keep two horny 66 year olds (going on 30) satisfied. Yum, yum, yum. I am a lucky guy!!
Talk soon!
Your C&N, Cum Slut , Boy Toy Tom
That’s fantastic! Great report!
I had a great couple of weeks for sure! It was amazingly KINKY! yay! not quite over with today and tomorrow to get in on the FUN!
Happy Birthday, Erika!
I love that you are the type to reflect and then take what you’ve learned and apply it. It’s fun looking back (but it for too ling????). It’s also fun to look ahead (again, not for too long) too and picture what’s around the corner. Stay safe and stay kinky.
Aww Aaron!
Thank you for your thoughts and well wishes! I agree reflect and look forward but stay primarily in the “now” xoxoxox
As long as the “now” includes lots of hot men with huge cocks!????
LOL TRUE! LOL
Sorry i missed wishing You a Happy Birthday. And I miss you in general. All the best. hoping for another round of pass the penis sometime and sessions with just You!
Hey John!
Thank so much for the belated wishes, I don’t discriminate I welcome them anytime!
Oh That was a HOT HOT bucket list item, wasn’t it!
Looking forward to more #NOMercy……….. pet
Happy belated Birthday Headmistress Erika!
I’m sorry that I missed it 🙁 but it sounds like you had a wonderful time. And deservedly so!
And what a wonderful blog. Yes, I masturbate and yes I enjoy you immensely. Well, maybe not immensely in the literal sense of the word but I really enjoy your company LOL.
You are the real deal, as is every other lady with whom I’ve spoken at LDW, and we pets are all very grateful for you. You are so great in so many ways :).
Thank you for being you and doing everything that you do for us.
peewee !! How the hell are you little munchkin dick!
Thank you for your wishes! I did have a great time, thank you!
Such sweet words from a beta bitch, can’t wait to push you around some more! Woop!
I am well, and better now that I’m in touch with you again, my Headmistress.
I am soooo lucky that I can enjoy the privilege of being humiliated and pushed around by you, Headmistress Erika.
Thank you for making me feel so small.
well, under endowed “my looks are a lie” beta bitsh, how harsh can you go- is what I wonder.
You like being pushed around , let’s make a date for November. Can you handle what Mean Mistress can dish?
What is our safe word again? ????
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meh…… does it matter?
Leak
ache
repeat
Dear Headmistress Erika,
I will ask myself, “How harsh does Mistress Erika want to be with me? That is how harsh I will go because I am her beta bitch cocksucker.”
All 3-1/2 inches of me. Fully erect.