Hello, crew! Giving out sissy tips is something that I do everyday. Anywhere from- how to be a better secret sissy, clothes and make-up and even to how to move and appear more feminine. There too is the naughty parts of a sissy’s journey, but we’ll save most of that for another day.
Today, we are mixing things up a bit. This blog will bring you some sissy tips FROM my sissy for you!
This all came about as a task, exercise if you will, to see how sissy mind works, what lessons “took” and which may need some reinforcement.
In every sissy’s journey you were once a secret sissy , a time in your life when you realized your attraction for feminine things went way beyond a casual interest or sexual arousal. When you realize that you must have in your life to feel whole, real. Many sissy’s must stay in this part of their journey. For them to reveal their interests and inner feminine energy is just not feasible. Does that mean your journey ends? It doesn’t have to. Just like a multitude of other things in your life, you just have to manage and adjust.
There are a multitude of ways you can express your inner sissy, while keeping your male mask firmly in place. From Sissy affirmations, to taking better care of yourself and yes even playtime with Mistress can help you balance your two selves.
Sissy Training Tasks
If you are a secret sissy you may not always be able to partake in your sissy fun to the extent you wish, But nothing says you can’t behave like one in subtle ways. And particularly: think like one.
This is what brings me to one particular secret sissy I’ve known for years now. Part of her journey has been to think like a sissy , behave like one as much as possible. Well, when I say “behave like one” that doesn’t always mean dressing and sucking on dildo. It could be crossing your ankles when you sit. Perhaps keeping a nice manicure and pedicure upon your feminine feet! Everyone is different and training may look very much different for each under my tutelage.
For this sissy’s training task, I challenged sissy to write about the subject of denial and why denial is Good For Sissy.
Here’s what she had to say about sissy training and denial.
On your knees! On your tip-toes! Hands off your clit! Twirl! Curtsy!
Did you follow all of those commands before starting this paragraph? If you answered yes to all, then you are a compliant denied sissy. If you answered no to any and/or all of those, then you are dire need of training specifically around denial.
It goes without saying that a denied sissy is an obedient sissy. It should also be clear that we are all on the same page when we use the word denial.
Denial, for you sissy bimbos who need to be taught properly, is in reference to when you last had the opportunity to release. The longer a sissy goes without cumming the more likely she will listen to a Mistress or any woman for that matter without fail.
Should you ask to cum while you are practicing denial and you are being trained by a Mistress, be expected to eat your mess whether that be out of your hand, shot directly into your face, slurped out of a condom, and so on. If you casually forget to shoot it somewhere you can lick it off, say for example your sock, you will be required to chew out all the juice until you “cleaned up” your mess. There is no room for error for denied sissies. The reality is you wanted it bad enough and this is the price you pay for it.
If you think you are ready for denial and all that cums with it, then contact one of the LDW Mistresses and let us guide you to your inevitable path of servitude. If cum eating is not something you are ready for then you truly have not experienced denial in its full effect so think long and hard before you dial.
So as you can see, sissy has put a lot of thought into why denial is good for a Sissy. Also what she’s learned about her disobedience and what can be expected. I am particularly impressed because as you can tell sissy is putting herself in the mindset of Mistress. What she feels, what she may have said to sissy. It shows sissy’s mind is right, thinking about Mistress first and foremost , so much so that you can see the wisdom and logic of her ways.
Sissy Pleasing Mistress
Her next task was to name five ways Sissy can please Mistress. This lets me know what aspects of her sissy journey have impacted her the most. How she see’s herself in service. Note how this sissy’s mind “thinks differently” than the typical male , when it comes to pleasing Women.
5 Ways to Please Mistress
If you’re a sissy reading this, then you are here to either take notes or reiterate what you already know to be true when it comes to pleasing a Mistress or any woman for that matter. The reality is, unlike other real men, you can never please your Mistress the way a woman expects to be pleased so don’t even think for one second that you have the requirements there.
Dress UpHow many posts have you read here that doesn’t talk about dressing up? This one is no different. Dressing up includes: panties, garters, pantyhose, bras, corsets, camisoles, dresses, skirts, blouses, wigs, heels, makeup, even breast forms. All the things that you put on to erase any dignity you have until you are reduced to nothing but a sissy on strings with a Mistress to control. This is the first and probably the most important thing you can do please your Mistress…and remember to wear the right size otherwise its really all meant for nothing.
TuckedNo good sissy walks around with their pecker, big or small, just prancing around. If you think this is acceptable then you may need some CBT training before you enter the realm of sissyhood. Assuming you don’t know this already, why would your Mistress want to see your “cock” sticking out? That’s not attractive to anyone unless that’s the audience you want to impress. Having said that, take your boy parts and tuck them behind your inner thighs as you won’t be using it for quite some time.
StretchedThis should be straight forward, but a Mistress finds joy in knowing that her sissy can easily be dipped into. Still not clear? Your pussy should be ready to take at least 8″ of a strap-on with very little resistance. Extra points if 12″ goes in as easier. Double extra points if you are wearing an extra-large plug before she pulls down your panties.
Tongue ServiceIf you are lucky enough for your Mistress to allow you to lick her, then you’d better be prepared in licking each lip and inside of her pussy and/or ass without question. Can’t breathe as she is sitting on your face? Too bad, you must deal with discomfort. Don’t like the taste? Too bad, you must learn to like it. You are lucky to even be allowed to see her pussy, let alone taste it. DO NOT TAKE THIS FOR GRANTED!
Every Mistress wants someone to chat with whether its about something sexual or not. Talk about fashion, girlie movies and shows, the new trends, or even someone to pillow fight with. This is certainly something that pleases your Mistress, so be prepared to hold conversations, be a good listener, and not to stare at her beautiful curves!
I think this particular sissy has come a long way! From a shy, unsure wanna be to a full fledged sissy slut ,even if it’s in her mind, for Mistress. What do you think of this Sissy’s tips for Sissy’s? What tips would you give?
Until we chat ????????????
Intelligent Phone Fantasy Mistress Erika
Being dressed up as a girl for calls with you/Daphne/another mistress along with my cabi friend is hot hot hot!!! All of you are right in saying I look better as a girl. It’s to difficult to resist and say no. It’s the power/control all of you have in doing this to me as I really am a weak/helpless/submissive cream puff girl. If I can’t get girls I’d rather be a girl in which all of you have done to me and I’ve accepted this ax it’s who I am and become.
Good Morning Paulina!
Thanks for stopping by! it’s all true, you look better as our sweet creamy pie!
Can’t wait until later!! We’ll explore a bit more what helps you feel so weak and vulnerable!
Hi Goddess Erika, This is a great post. I am so happy that they are able to get tips. I love reading all of your posts. You are such a brilliant amazing Mistress.
Well slave, with talk like that April just can’t come soon enough, humm? ????
You are so right Goddess Erika. I can’t wait for April to come. When it comes it will be the best thing to ever happen to me in my life.
fantastic tips! I would add the possibility of chastity and becoming pussy free (perhaps depending upon what size clitty the sissy has to offer)….There are so many ways to do this in secret…..Wearing panties is a must, many other items can be worn under male yucky male clothes (i.e. Bras, cami’s pantyhose, garters and stockings)…..Something else to consider are Woman’s jeans. This is a not so obvious nod to being outwardly femme, without giving away the game….and if they fit, Women’s sneakers. You can be in Woman’s clothes walking down the street and few if any will know…..but you will ( I do this almost EVERY day now)…
I’m so thrilled there are so many of us sissy gurls out there…..and So many amazing Mistresses like mine and Mistress Erika to guide us!
Thanks for the great post!
I love all of your suggestions and you are so right! Women’s jeans, even slacks which zip up the front! So many ways to express your inner sissy, secretly!
Thanks for stopping by, If I don’t see/hear from you : Happy Holidays!
Just the thoughts in the mind work wonders.Since fantasy is involved not releasing for sure keeps a sissy devoted and in line.But,after a release just a matter of time the enjoyment of those feelings will return.Yes normal,everyday chatter makes the relationship more deep and meaningful.That is why so many connect to Mistress Erika.She is easy to approach and communicate with.She has the gift of making each of us feel valued and special.
how have you been!? Thank you for such kind words! Although I don’t see it as a “GIFT” necessarily, I am just being me. Everyone is a fantastic human snowflake, we are all a bit different but made out of the “Same stuff” , I love celebrating our differences vs demonizing others for their difference!
I’m pleased it shows!!
Always yeth for you Ms Erika,
Twirl, curtsey and never do I touch my clitty unless you instruct me to, and that’s only to tuck, lock or when suckie Vickie, blushes
Aww pretty belinda! How are you sweetness? Suckie Vickie, ha ha, is that what you are naming cocks these days “VICKIE” Brilliant! Hey whatever works, humm? ????
Blushes typo Ms Erika, you have made me adore cock mmmmmmm I so appreciate it, just so sowwy I can’t get to phone, tears runs down cheek. Hope you had a good Christmas and you well, curtsey and twirllllllllllllllllll. Pops in mouth cock nullifier
Hi sweet belinda! 😉 Yes, I gathered a typo but you are so much fun to tease and make blush, Mistress couldn’t help herself!
ha! I’m glad you are healthy and safe, You’ll call when it’s right ! You can still absorb some Mistress energy by visting blogs, twitter and Enchantrix!!
in the meantime don’t forget about sexy texting (sexytexting.com)
and all the sexy audio’s we have at phonesexaudios.com
Wishing you a VERY sissy and sucky sucky (but not in a 2020 sucky way ????) 2021!
Oh oh no sucky as in real man cockie mmmmm mmmmm I need one pwease Ms pwease let me have Vickie now, NUM NUM NUM bum bum bum oh oh oooooooh pats tucked little peanut.
The name’s “Bond…”Jane Bond”
What fun dashing around town on my missions in my outer drab while concealing frilly state secrets at the behest of not “M” not “Q” but “E”! Now who could that be ? Hmmmmm.
In the produce section, selecting the perfect cucumber…firm, fresh, it appears I’ve been made by the observant agents…my camisole has slipped below my shirt!
The game is afoot. Is there any more of an adrenaline rush for a secret sissy than having their cover blown? They are not likely having anything else of theirs blown. Agent 003.5 at your service.
LOL Oh Little peg, you have a very clever and naughty mind! I LIKE IT!
I think you are right some are addicted to that “rush” when their cover is “blown” either by their own hand, or lips! LOL
Aww agent 003.5 is the cutest agent Eva!! ha ha!
Thank you Mistress Erika! A Secret Sissy Agent with a licence to “Frill”!
After reading your awesome blog and hints to my Wife she decided to have a “sissy” night with me. She dressed me up in stockings, garter belt, panties and a stuffed bra. I have to say it was hot! We had some amazing kinky sex that night.
Can’t wait to tell you about the details! I really need a C&N session with you, with the emphasis on the N ???? #Erika Addict
Your C&N, Cum Slut, Boy Toy, Erika Addict Tom
Hey Tom! I love this update! Oooooooohhhhh Yes!!
You will have to tell me all the naughty details, and yummy yummy for da tummy! XOXO
Happy new Year BoyTOY!
Thank you! I adore and worship you! XOXO
Your C&N, Cum Slut, Boy Toy, Erika Addict Tom
????❤ You are fantastic boy toy #erikaaddict
Just responding to one of your great Twitter questions:
Of course EVERY Cuckold should suck cock and must be a Fluffer and Clean-up Boy (both pussy and cock). At least in my opinion. Yum, Yum, Yum! BTW..my Wife agrees!
Love your Twitter posts! Just like everything else about you. #Erika Addict
Your C&N, Cum Slut, Boy Toy, Erika Addict, Tom
Hi Tom!! Thanks for chiming in. I hear your opinion and I appreciate your loving to hang on every post and word! ????????
I think you and the Sexy Duchess are in complete agreement on that line of cucking!!
Hope you are safe and healthy!!
thank you for the tips of “sissy to sissy”. I am a sissy and I try to be better each day.
I look forward to Mistress Erika making me a better sissy, ready to serve her and all the LDW mistresses.
Hugs & kisses,
Aww Cindy! I’m so pleased to hear that! You’re right we have a plethora of fantastic Women
here to take charge of your sissy training and yours truly included!!