Stroke, Edge, Leak, and Repeat is a very appropriate sentiment for this month and every month in my book! But this month we are featuring one of our many kinky sites: Stroke For Me! The main elements to cock control, for many, are those four words. Stroke that cock, how I say. Edge that cock when I say and when there is pre-cum leakage you handle it as I direct! Then of course that final, delicious element Repeat! But how do these elements play out, how might I have you stroke? How many edges are you capable of doing before blowing that load? How many times will I make you repeat those strokes, and edges? Both hands off your cock, stay fully dressed, and let’s have some fun! At the end, I want you to comment if you got hard in your pants!
Stroke Edge Leak And Repeat: Stroking
I know you can probably pump that prick and make it shoot in two minutes! You are sneaky little jerk-offs and all you need is a few minutes in the bathroom when the pressure builds and you feel like you are ready to pop! However, that behavior isn’t conducive to copulation. Not if you want her to have fun too!
Ha! I hear you now: Geeze Erika, can you BE any more clinical about it (said like Chandler Bing on Friends) I can be more clinical but if you have hung around my blog enough you know I have a “thing” for alliteration so I just couldn’t resist!
Teaching you how to regulate your arousal with stroking, and stroke with varying styles of stroking will ensure that prick keeps that pussy purring! Your cock has to become accustomed to various types of stimulus without exploding to best prepare you for the ultra-hot pussy play! Not to mention, it’s hot for me to instruct you! Some of my favorite strokes, (which change) for stroking are those which keep that cock hard but are strokes that keep that cock hard, but not quite “Edge”.
Keeping That Cock Hard: Stroke Favorites
Basket Fingers is what I call it. You make your fingertips into a “claw” and place all your fingertips together like this:
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This is the closest emoji I could find! Put your fingertips on the tip of that hard cock head, and slide them down the head to the ridge of the crown, and back up again. This is great , as mentioned on an already hard cock, and a way to torment a very sensitive head.
Fire Stick- just as the words depict, you are making that dick into a fire stick! Flat hands on either side of that cock, fingers outstretched roll one hand forward one hand back, like you are making a fire! As you roll your hands forward and back you can “raise them up” that shaft and back down. If you are a guy who does NOT use lube this stroke might be more irritating than fun, but that doesn’t mean you get to “Not do it” Get your sweet ass out to the kitchen and put some cooking oil, olive oil, or coconut oil in a shot glass!
Chopsticks – with your fingers or actual chopsticks! Be careful with wooden sticks, OUCH! But there are a lot of “metal” ones you can invest in or just use your fingers. Place that hot cock between two fingers, keep them straight and slide up and down. Other variations is between the middle finger and ring finger, and the most frustrating (because our pinky is the weakest finger) is between the ring finger and pinky!
But Mistress What About The Edging Part Of the Stroke Edge Leak and Repeat
Ok ok! keep your cool! I’m getting to it!
Edging. Edging is not playing with your dick. I hear from guys “I’ve been edging for hours!” Well although I might agree they were pumping that cock for hours, and they have been really aroused for a long time, I don’t know anyone who can “Hold an edge” for hours. Here’s why. An edge isn’t a really horny hot hard dick. An edge is that moment “milliseconds” before the PONR (point of no return). The Point of No Return is when you can feel that cum lock and load and no matter what you do you will ejaculate! You guys know exactly what I mean. So an edge or edge play is “dancing on the line” that PONR line. If you dance too far one way, that cum will well up and spill, regardless!
When I begin with someone for edge training, they must master the ruined orgasm, first. Why? Because you must be proficient and take all you have to stop stroking AT the PONR, and ruin it. It is to give you that experience of what a ruined orgasm is to motivate you to focus on your arousal and communicate efficiently of your edge, so I can direct you from there. If you fail to evaluate your arousal properly then the default is a ruined orgasm. Typically that is enough for most strokes to focus and pay attention!
Some of my favorite edging strokes are the reverse stroke with a twist, the ball grab and pump and the classic stop and go as I say with your regular stroke method! Of course, edging is made even more intense with cock rings, sexy toys and of course my sexy and sensual teasing! If you can last with what I barrage you with that dick can win “lasting” rewards! After all, that cock was put there to please us, humm, pet?
Good boy.
Edge Training Includes
To be Mistress Erika certified you must be proficient in the following.
The ability to edge, and edge repeatedly without orgasm. I will gradually build up the number of edges, so a first-time session might be a slow build to a couple of edges. On the other end of the spectrum? I’ve had gooners edge their age in one session.
The ability to edge however way I say. So with fingertips, various strokes, humping, and even some Sexy Ass Toys!
Being able to really DANCE on that line and “EDGE” for 20-30 seconds or more WHILE STIMULATING that cock.
Stroke, Edge, Leak, and repeat: Leaking
Precum is just that, lubrication from that dick in theory “lubing up the tube” to help propel those swimmers into dangerous territory! Often more clear, sweeter than regular ejaculate, and typically arrives shortly before orgasm. Every guy is different there are leaky faucets that begin to drip while flaccid just at the sound of my voice, and there are others who are bone dry until the moment of ejaculation. Don’t feel too bad if you are l dry stroker, but if you are a wet little slut, expect me to use that pre-cum in all types of kinky and delicious ways! From rubbing it around that “Oh so sensitive tip” to the gateway behavior, putting it on your lips and propelling you towards the kink of CEI!
Repeat
Exactly as it says, edge leak and do it all again. Over and over and over until your brain is rice pudding. I promise you, the best orgasms of your life are often ones teased by Mistress. Considering all that I’ve mentioned today, please remember just like any other BDSM or kink play we will negotiate our play, and if the idea of wiping that precum on your lips makes your willy wilt, then we can put that on the back burner until the day you come to me and say “Remember precum play Mistress and I didn’t wanna?” A big smile will creep across my lips, “HELL YES I DO!” knowing full well what you will say next.
So cum, stroke, edge, leak and repeat for my pleasure.
Until we chat 💋
Intelligent Phone Fantasy
If you are driving or just simply want to hear my voice in your head, click below to hear me read most of this blog!
Hi Goddess Erika, This is a great post. I have never heard o Basket Fingers or Fire Stick before. So i learn something new every day. 🧎♂️🧎♂️🧎♂️ I guess this is more of a post for only the real men to read.
you are right slave, but real men and slaves are able to “read” just for different reasons. Your reason is to understand what REAL men get vs you. 😘😘
Hokey smokes Bullwinkle!
Mistress Erika I’m not sure I qualify to quote.. (a little alliteration🤭?)
on this post. After all, all i see is cock this, cock that, dick here, dick there.
Gee whiz Mistress you know me as well anyone, (alas, not in the “biblical” sense!)
Readily I will admit I don’t have a “cock” nor a “dick” which leads to my trepidation about commenting.
I just love that you own my locked little peanut, and other parts of me swell with pride proclaiming this🥰
But what the hay, right?
So much fun things in this post.
Two minutes? Really 120 seconds? If you tally up my tally whacking time you have granted me in 2023 I am pretty close to a minute of masturbation (alliteration again…oh and again!) before my tribute flows.
Now, I also see “stroke” and “stroking” throughout the post.
Reason number two I am hesitant to opine.
As you’ve observed I’ve really nothing TO stroke.
Hence, my fondness for my jiggle and dribble.
Stroke and “Blow my load”?
Ay caramba Mistress talk about your pipe dreams!
But what a fun read today…(brain turns to rice pudding! Hilarious!)
My ruined orgasms for you are so huge…(emotionally) for me.
I am always so eager to please that I’m afraid my enthusiasm will cause me to go over that edge. That’s reason number 3.
I don’t think I have the discipline to edge.
I could try to give you reason 4…but as I’ve mentioned you know me so well.
You know that I struggle between 3 and 4!🤣🤏
Thanks Mistress Erika🥰
Little Ms break my clitty cage, peg.
It is odd for you to hear and read about ME and COCKS, alas you can consider your clit a COCKette! Tee hee
Glad you enjoyed, and much like “slave” here you get to dream about what real big cocks are treated to!
I had to giggle thinking of you and “EDGING” yes you CAN edge, once then “WHOOPSIE” sissy spurts! tee hee
You please me in other ways! Such a delight (ha! Freudian typo I originally said SUCK a delight! )
Oh Mistress Erika…you are the most🥰
You make sure to put that word “Cock” a number of times in your reply cuz you know it’s going to embarrass me!🤭🥰🤏!
What an incredible Mistress I have. You know I am much too delicate and instead treat me with kid gloves, cuz you know deep down, I will never ever be able to go deep down. But I don’t think I am ready to call your little peanut a “COCKette”. The rubber meets the chode er, I mean. road eventually. (And now I know you have this image of a rubber on peanut! You’re welcome!)
I’m gonna work my tail off to get that edge.
And my front!
Freudian slip? Think I bought one at the mall last week!
But I think I may have a naughty dream tonight!🥰
LOL Oh peg! 😳😘🤣🤣👍👍
It’s been since July that I’ve got hard off😔😳😲😢my clitty is about 1-3 not hard and about 5’ hard. I do need to be put in panties and bra like you’ve and cabi done to me.
YES!
Hi Mistress, it’s your sub Tinkerbell Gina. I so loved your blog. You taught me to edge and would not allow me to sissygasm for over three weeks. During each edging I was required to lick-up all of the pre-cum. I admit, it taste fantastic. Finally when you allowed your sub a sissygasm in my panties, I had to rub my panties all over my face, leave it on my face for, at least an hour and lick and suck any remaining fluid out of my panties. I have been saving my sissygasm fluid for our next meeting. I have three nice size cubes and working on a fourth. Also, been practicing with both openings so I’ll be ready whenever you say it is the right time for the real treat. You are the best, thanks for everything you are teaching me.
Oh Tinkerbell Gina! Yayyyyyyyyyyyyyy! See sissy gurls can have fun Edging , leaking and repeating too!
Thanks for stopping by and commenting!
Sounds like fun for those worthy of such tactile denial… btw… love the new photos & outfits!
Thank you prissy, and you are “spot on” for those who are worthy, but cheer up , butter buns! As a cuckold you can be
present while WE play with REAL men 😘😘
I just listened to this and must confess some things. I love the way you say DICK!!!!!!!!!😭😭😭😭😭😭🍓🤣. DICK DICK DICK. I don’t have one so to speak. I have never stroked or pulled or in way masturbated or attempted to any of your photos or listening to your blogs. I stopped getting erections before I discovered you. . I have stopped looking at porn. Which I was once a dick ted two or three. I haven’t sucked dick in almost a year and have no desire to. When I looked at kinky porn I could get close to cumming and stop so as not to make a mess. I tasted my pre cum numerous times and my cum when I couldn’t control it. I am going to look at your photos now and see what happens and listen to other audios to hear you say DICK!🤣
Thank you AST!
Geez Louise!
My nipples are hard!
Are those strokes patented? *giggle* Because I might not have a cock attached to My body to stroke (more’s the pity–at least not one of flesh), but I’ve got to put some of those in practice somehow! They’re just too hot!
I’ve seen around the Empire Your mantra, “Stroke, Edge, Leak, Repeat”, but until this post I didn’t know how comprehensive the philosophy and method behind it was!
No wonder you have so many subbies utterly enslaved, Mistress Erika!
You know how to condition the mind, train the cock, AND capture the soul!
Kudos!
Oh My Darling Ms Rachel!
Thank you so much for taking the time to leave your rather enthusiastic review! I’m flattered I could make those yummy nipples of yours to get hard!
Something tells me, tho If we were both in a session together poor stroker is gonna fail “holding that cum!”
Wanna bet? WHo out there thinks they can withstand 20-30 (or more) minutes with the two of us?
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I wet my panties just thinking 🤔 about it.
Wow!!! I got so excited just reading this. I would definitely need to start with the ruined. I can’t wait to start.
Yes! Thank you for stopping by! Love ruined orgasms, so magical! LOL
Love be in u mouth I’m redy
are you the same on Twitter that keeps ordering me to shrink you? LOL you’re adorable!
Oh, how I love how Mistress Erika guides my strokes. She makes sure that I’m edging to her satisfaction, uses her techniques, and cum the way SHE wants. Ruined or full. There are always consequences to my actions. Right now, I’m caged and trying to be patient on when she will let me out. It’s frustrating but I love her control and the hold she has on me.
🙌🙌😘😘👍👍Good Job you are one task down towards earning a spurt! LOL