You might think anytime a woman is teasing a small penis that it is the same as humiliation. Well, yes and no. It is complex. Hello kink lovers, today I’m talking about this very interesting question. It involves fine nuances and for those who enjoy small dick teasing but not necessarily humiliation those fine nuances mean a lot! I’ve included some examples to compare and contrast in the audio, so don’t just read CLICK and Hear!
SPH Small Penis Humiliation
Humiliation is totally subjective. You must feel humiliated in order for the desired effect. But humiliation is not a one size fits all. What I mean is, if some stranger looked at you and said “what the hell are you wearing you look like a bum.” Most people would either laugh, be taken aback but there’s no real humiliating emotions going on, now is there? I mean you don’t even KNOW this person, why do you care what they think right? They have no power over you. In this case that stranger who means nothing to you has no impact on you.
Take a similar situation, and have that person be your boss in front of an entire room of colleagues. Imagine your horror. Now let’s ramp it up a notch and now it’s your sexual crush who looks at you naked for the first time: Um is THAT ALL THERE IS, are you fucking kidding me?
This is harsh small penis humiliation.
Do you have a small dick? I want to tease you!
Small Penis Teasing
Small Penis Teasing isn’t about making the recipient feel humiliated, necessarily. Although I suspect similar biological elements are in play. We are all different, different temperaments, sizes etc. It doesn’t necessarily mean your small penis is is a deal breaker, as in the above scenario. The lady obviously places a high value on a larger dick. But not all women do, honestly and are more than capable of making that small cock “work for her” in some way. So when you are in the mindset that we are all beautiful snowflakes, big , small kinky or vanilla you now have the right mindset for Small Penis Teasing. Which I am a fan of! Aww, look how cute! How small is your dick? Can we measure? It’ll be fun! Oh Look just right for my panties! Tee hee!
In the link in my title “small penis teasing” is an example of what some think of as teasing, elements are a bit humiliating aka the laughter so for some that might fall under humiliation. What do you think? Read the essay and tell me if you are a fan of teasing, does this do it for you?
One Size Does Not Fit All
Certainly small penis teasing is not as popular as a more harsh SPH and not all Mistresses are “down with it”. Many will tell you if your dick is smaller than 5″ you will be humiliated , period. No Harm No Foul, the play has to be enjoyed by both parties and if you are a gentleman of small persuasion and enjoy teasing she’s just not the lady for you.
Which Is which?
So listen to the audio, attached to this post.Check out some of my other SPH posts. Then tell me which is exciting for you , small penis humiliation or teasing or perhaps both? I want to hear from you, do you “get” small penis teasing?
Intelligent Phone Fantasy Mistress Erika
Yes MISTRESS ERIKA as always intelligent and very well written sincerly yours beta bottom bitch tedi
Thank you tedi
I am proud to be perhaps the smallest you have seen….BUT….I LOVE being humiliated by how micro and useless i am….and you are amazing at it!
🙂 Thank you princess your record still stands ! 🙂
The teasing part is what I like with you and the other ldw mistresses naked in front of all you then putting me in panties/bra/breast forms/makeup/lipstick along with wig/dresses/blouses/leggings/
yoga pants. Seeing how your clitty grows do you think I should stay dressed up as all of your cream puff girl until this now longer gets me hard(this won’t ever happen) what are your thoughts about this?
Mistress Erika: Such a dilemma we face with this choice. Being more or less on the lacking end of the scale I want the nurturing compassion of an understandiing Mistress who will playfully tease me, yet I know that I deserve the humiliation of not possessing the proper dimensions required. Since vanilla and kinky can co-exist then I see no reason why I would choose tease over humiliation or vice versa. (But must admit I almost had an accident when I listened to the audio…your amazing voice during that “crush tease” was volcanic!
Hey Davey! Oh my bad. LITTLE davey 😉
Ne way…….. glad you enjoyed!
i got capital letters!…oh wait, that’s bad! i adore you!
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Paulina, I’m here to tell you that won’t ever happen. The feminine mystic has enveloped you and you will ALWAYS get aroused by your feminine self.
I have a funny habit of throwing in a dollop of small penis teasing just for the hell of it, whether the sub has mentioned it as a hot button (heh) or not. I can tell from their little laugh that they find it arousing and are confused by it, lol. But really, any size cock makes the man attached to it do ridiculous things, so teasing and humiliation are generally in order with all of them 🙂
Ha ha! Right Claire! Thanks for stopping by
I find the most triggering thing is when sight unseen women “know” or act as though they know you are small. I actually think women often can tell. It is almost worse than if she were to actually see and then say you were small (almost). I think there is something in the idea that a woman can simply see how you look (even fully clothed) or listen to you speak or take in some other observable thing and tell you are small without even seeing. Something about that makes me feel incredibly vulnerable an weak. I think it is because it feels like you cannot “hide” from her.
Hi Owen great insight. There is something one picks up, when a guy is cocksure or not. I wonder if there’s been any real study on it?
I don’t know. I do know that when I was a high school senior two girls looked at my hands and one girl talked to the other girl about how small my hands were and what that meant. I later learned that many women can use small hands as a measurement of other things. But it also seems some women can just “tell” almost by some other cues. I don’t know. It makes you feel more vulnerable because it is like it does not matter that you are dressed.
Hi Mistress,
I’m back from the dead. I think penis humility and teasing is all relative. And that goes for both the Mistress and the man. We all know that our egos are pretty sensitive when it comes to size and performance (I assume that’s where the humiliation fetish originates). A well intentioned cute joke could end up being interpreted harshly and vice versa. And that’s where communication comes in. When both parties are aware of the other’s sensitivities, then they can avoid them. Or, in the case of LDW go right after them!????
For me, I enjoy both. Sometimes a call with 2 mistresses laughing hysterically at my size and preference gets my juices flowing. Other times, a subtle comment during a candid conversation does the trick.
What I’m saying is that, for me, there is not one winning formula. Variety is the spice of life! I know that my 5.5 inches is embarrassingly small, cute AND a good size. And I celebrate all of those!????????
AAron! OMG! How the h to the e to the ll are you!
Thanks for stopping by looking forward to getting caught up.
You are right about going after them, we are quite adept with the erotic humiliation.
I understand your sensitivities and you are right we get into “Moods” where harsh is called for and other times, just that soft fem voice and a well placed word sends you into orbit:)
Goddess Erika, small penis teasing is also very fun, They both are great but humiliation is a little better. You are great at both of them but you are capable of being stern to a small guy like me. I was wondering about a something called small penis humiliation ignore. Where a small dicked guy gets ignored at the end. It is just a weird idea i have.
Not weird at all! Kinda like an ignore call, yes? Tell me more ! Let’s do it , our next session
Oh Ms Erika,
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Sissy belinda
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