Hello, fans! Thanks for stopping by. Today we talking about having great phone sex. I’ve had a few conversations recently which has prompted me on the topic. Along with how to have great phone sex, today’s post is hopefully informative and fun. So let’s get to it.
Why Call a Phone Sex Line
What are your motivations to call? Regardless of your kink or interest whether humiliation, feminization, cock control or any number of the hot kinks we play with, a great phone sex experience is my motivation!
It may seem obvious to many, why someone would call a phone sex line.
For orgasm, right? That’s true and not true. I have plenty of calls which don’t involve orgasm. Well, to my knowledge anyway! ????
I know there are some out there who are a bit, ohhhh, shy. So as I flirt and tease, creating lovely erotic images for us to enjoy, they might be diddling to an Orgasm! I don’t get to enjoy it too but that’s fine by me. Other times I have great conversations about sex, sexuality and helping people open up. Confess to someone their true desires.
What I am getting at is orgasm isn’t always the reason. Connecting with someone open minded, perhaps more knowledgeable or experienced in your particular kink is vastly beneficial . Many have no one to discuss their sexual interests with and are craving a friendly conversation, with someone interested in you and your kink!
Some want to try something new, a new fantasy for example. A great phone sex experience allows your inhibitions to be lowered so you can explore! Another popular reason is to get advice on sexual matters you don’t feel comfortable speaking about, with your sexual part. Many of them think they have weird sexual fantasies. and not sure what it all means. Whatever your reasons, it’s all good!
Once you identify what you are looking for in your phone sex experience, having a clear purpose, and what you want from that call, your decision will be easier for the next step.
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Make sure you are dealing with a reputable company when trying to find out more about someone, contact information for example. Are you met with constant ads or demands to join their club? Do they offer a quality guarantee? Who do you contact if you have questions or problems?
I want you to have a fantastic time. But I get I’m not everyone’s cup of tea. If after all your research and careful review you decide, “Eh, this is not doing it for me,” don’t worry. Just politely excuse yourself and reconnect with the dispatch team, or go to www.eroticconcierge.com for further help on our quality promise guarantee.
Choosing a Phone Sex Mistress
1. If you are unsure, don’t just call the first pretty face (or other delicious body part) you see. Read profiles, blogs, listen to audio samples. You’ll get to know a bit more about her, and her style. Does she seem to be into your particular kink? Does her personality fit what is on your needs list?
2. You found someone you are interested in, Great! If you are shy reach out in email first , particularly if you have a complex need. I rather prefer it. But don’t get crazy on me. Keep it around 200-250 words. I’m not about to count them , and neither should you. But you get my point.
3. Check her schedule, or ask in the email when the Mistress who interests you is around. Nothing is more frustrating to get all worked up about calling someone only to find you have opposite schedules! She’s on at night, and you have alone time during the day!
4. If you are still unsure check out our Mistress Recommendation option. Where you get to share a bit about you and our fantastic team matches you to one (or more) Mistress with whom they think you’d be compatible.
On The Call
1 – Be yourself! I know that may seem silly to say but it’s true. We are going to have more fun if you are not overly cautious about things.
2- Your secrets are safe with me. What is said in session, stays in session.
Unless, those of you who have an exposure fantasy, and you rather enjoy knowing I’m talking with My Sister Mistresses about you! Other fun ways to share you are: Playing pass the penis, and offering two or more Mistress calls!
I have a few more naughty ways we can play safety with your kink, but you’ll have to contact me to find out what they are!
3-Take a few minutes to explain what you are looking for. She should ask a few questions as well,to make sure you are on the same page. Why you like a particular kink, any triggers you are aware of and finally is the call ending in release?
Just like any D/s negotiations, you are in the drivers seat. Well , for a bit anyway!????
4-Patience. Often guys are overly aroused and during a role play or fantasy they want the Mistress to hurry and get to a favored area of the RP or fantasy. going back to #1 above, don’t be afraid to say: I like a little build up but I want to get to the “good stuff” sooner rather than later
.5- Trust that your Mistress manages your time accordingly. Don’t be afraid to ask her “Would there be enough time to do XYZ”? Because you horny toads, sometimes you try to put thirty minutes worth of fantasy in a ten minute call! Perhaps if time is of the essence you narrow down the scene to one or two hot button items vs 10. Make sense? Mistress can help you, if you help her!
6- Feedback. I’m a professional as well as a brilliant and sexy piece of Woman meat. ????????????. Good or bad I want to know how your experience was! If your feedback is good, consider a Rate My Call. I’ll get a nice pat on the back and you get a chance to win 30 Free phone sexy minutes with the Mistress of Your Choice! If your experience wasn’t what you expected, you are welcome to post a review there too. But please, email me! I want to know how why / how I can make your experience (or the next person’s experience) better!
There’s so many things you can do to make sure you have a Great Phone Sex experience, and this post is already way too long! Let me hear from you, below. What tips would you suggest? It’s OK if you duplicate mine, it only proves to show how RIGHT I AM *laughing hysterically*
Until we chat…..????
Mistress Erika
Misrtess erkia u always do awesome and great and hot cam sessions with me. U are the best and I can’t wait June 29 when u and misrtess andi do the 2 misrtess cam session and degrade me and make both of urs CAM BITCH and CAM SLUT
Once I get back from vacation I want to start doing this more and more. I have spending under control (finally) and will budget accordingly. Every time I want to call my parents either come over or call me to stop over and by time I get home it’s to late. They have more control over me the you and the mistresses and treat me like I’m 7 instead of 47. Family is important which I understand but they’ve gone overboard and have mentally ruined my tennis as I’m losing to players I should be winning. Every time I leave their place I’m in bad mood as they are to negative and they get on me about things that happened 10 years ago. I’ve had it with this as it’s worn me out and they’ve spread me to thin. ????????????????.
Petey,
I hear you regarding family being controlling and negative. I’m sure they love you and just worry. have you tried talking with them about it? or setting boundaries? Like 3 vists per week, period? Regardless if you call, or not helping you feel more independent is important!GOod Luck!
I’ve tried talking with them but they are set in their ways-I’m going to set boundaries-in going to visit them. 2-3 times a week with time limit is what I’m going to do. Being single with no kids/gf is what they are using against me which is wrong!!! I’m not going to go after I’m done playing tennis matches as they get done late and I’m tired and ready to foam roll stretch/take shower it’s bed time. Stopping there it’s to late as I’m not getting enough sleep and its taken toll on me. It’s tome to have care free/don’t give af—k attitude and do my own thing!!
Good for you pete! Now don’t move those lines. Be firm but nice about it. After-all they do love you, and want the best. Just sometimes humans have as strange way of expressing their love and concern , sometimes (ok often) harmful to the bond!
I love your comments what to look for in a mistress yes and I also did when I looked for and found you I emailed the mistress that I had picked out and told Erika a little about myself that way she at least had an idea of what I was interested in but I do love the article thank you mistress Mandy
Hi Mandy!
Thanks for your comment! You are fun to play with and train! Do you have any other tips I may have overlooked?
Goddess Erika, I liked reading about all of Your tips. i guess the schedule is important but ours schedules don’t match but i still call You anyway. I was one of those that was shy to call. You are my cup of tea. LOL. Looking forward to many more chats in the future.
tftt! Hey there little one. You were too shy to call or too shy to orgasm with Mistress knowing? Glad you overcame anxiety I have a blog just posted on Humiliation Boot Camp, about humiliation assignments. 🙂 I know you LOVE those, don’t you!?
Both to shy to call and to shy to orgasm. I still don’t get to orgasm even though i call You. I will go over to humiliation boot camp and read about Your humiliation assignments. I do LOVE them. Talk soon maybe in a week or so.
tftt, why would a little carrot like yours need to cum anyway? ????????❤ ‘prolly only a few drops , hum? ????????
I had a WONDERFUL 2 Mistress call with Mistress Erika, my owner and Princess Andi! I LOVED the session! They both know how to keep the cock on edge! I ALWAYS enjoy my sessions with both of them!! Mistress Erika is my Mistress and owner FOREVER!! I’m VERY glad she shares me with Princess Andi!! I love both of them and ALWAYS enjoy my time with them! I will continue to have a 2 Mistress call with them!!
slutsky! What nice words! I’m pleased. But you know, we have something very important coming up. Stay tuned for Monday, when all will be revealed!
Yes Mistress Erika I can hardly wait till you reveal what is coming up!! I want to make you VERY proud of me!
Well said, Mistress Erika. The lines that really caught my attention were: “Connecting with someone more knowledgeable or experienced in your particular kink or fetish to get insight. Having a friendly conversation with someone interested in you, what your feelings are.
Some want to try something new, a new fantasy for example.”
Those are more powerful than people think. It isn’t all about the fast orgasm.
Gem Sissy, guuuuuuuuuurl! Good to see you!! Yes, making connections sharing idea, kink is what makes what I do fantastic!
Hope your summer is great!
Yes, Mistress, it has been a good summer so far. As expected, my sissy wardrobe is once again growing and I’m able to wear panties almost every day. Whenever I can, I attach my cock-dildo to the side of the bathroom wall and give myself a deep hard sissy-fucking. I’m sure it pales in comparison to being actually pegged by an enthusiastic woman but I still love being filled with cock! 😉 Wish I had the opportunity and funds to make regular connections to talk kink, chat about life, and enlarge my sissy experiences.
Gem!
I totally get that life gets in the way of Living! *winks* Love your sissy style!
*blushes* thank you Miss Erika. I just love being in satiny women’s lingerie all day and night, anyone who spotted a glimpse or caught me would know exactly what I was, what I crave, and what they could make me do… suck your cock and you won’t tell people I’m a panty-sissy? Oh my, twist my arm! 😉 LOL