Ways Men Submit is today’s topic. But why do men want to submit? Well , when you call a Dominant Woman looking for a Femdom experience you are seeking a a place in your mind and body which you cannot attain without their help. You can masturbate and orgasm on your own, having fantasies about beautiful women taking control. About being owned and controlled. But aside from a brief moment of pleasure which satisfies your biological directive it leaves you wanting. You are looking to submit to be whisked away to another state of consciousness. To feel transported to a place a space in your mind where you are the puppet awaiting my control. The effects of our play, the subspace you crave, washes away the day to day and with hyper focus and delightfully kinky ways we exist if only for a brief time in space and time in the cosmos doing the dance of the Dom and sub. But how do we get there? That my darlings is a fantastic subject for us to talk about today.
What Gets You To Subspace
Some of you already know the answer to this question and it’s great when you call and communicate the same to me. Others of you, well, that’s why you call. You have an urge and a desire to submit , or perhaps you think it’s all good kinky play? Together we explore all the delicious tools at my disposal and find which combination of sensations and erotic play does it for you! The important thing to remember is everyone is different. Just because I introduce a new way to play and it does “nothing” for you, doesn’t mean you are bad or wrong. This is why I find playing with you, uniuqe and utterly satisfying for me. Learning your hot buttons, conditioning others.
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Impact Play
Traditionally in a BDSM scene the rituals and impact play is what does it for some.From OTK (Over the knee spanking) , caning, floggers and more. Creating the pain which hurts soooooOooo good! The chemicals and hormones released by your body during our play is what drives your submission deeper and deeper.
Feminization As A Form Of Domination
Not all feminization clients are into submission but a great deal are. Your stress evaporates and subspace envelopes your mind at the thought of Mistress coercing you into panties, or more. Perhaps a surprise exposure, catching you in my panties. Or taking you out on a dress up date, like I’ve done with Ms Lola’s Sissy dress up boutique.
Men Submit To Dominant Women Through Cock Control
Control the cock control the man
Men Submit Their Cocks to Dominant women in many ways. There is orgasm control which can consist of edging, ruined orgasm, denial and chastity. Playing with your biological directive, turning over the control to me is extremely submissive.
Humiliation Domination
Humiliation can be applied in any Femdom scene, including all of the above! It’s a matter of application. The interesting thing about humiliation is that it is usually specific, or “type” of humiliation someone is turned on by. There are many types of erotic humiliation. What gets your juices flowing? SPH Small penis humiliation, coerced bi? Perhaps you are a naughty F and like to go on assignments and humiliate yourself in public? These and many other types of erotic humiliation can be in play, in our play!
How Do You Submit
What ways do you dream of submitting to a beautiful Dominant Woman? Within all of the above broad subjects are the specific details which make our connection and our play unique. Exploring your mind, your sexuality is what turns me on. Why not turn me on today? Check out my schedule and I will look forward to connecting with you soon!
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Dominant Woman Erika
Mistress Erika,
I submit to humiliation by (as you know) by something only you and I call N.
Your C&N CUM Slut, Boy Toy Tom
Hey Slut, tis true! Those delicious hormones racing through your system, sending you deeper and deeper as you drink in my essence! Mmmmmmmmm!
humiliation….worship…..chastity…..by being a pussyfree sissy cuckold…..And any every way i can serve Superior Women !
Mmmmmmmmmm , princess what an obedient pet you are. #1inchcockcage #Dickless so I guess you better, yes? #NoMercy
Yes!!! Being a weak submissive soft helpless and feminine cream puff girl is what’s best and needed for me especially with feminization by you and the other ldw mistresses!!! Seeing how I look dressed up I really do look better this way then I do as a guy!!! Women do have the power and girls have more fun!!! With my friend giving me feminine arched eyebrows this past weekend along using same facial lotions and creams she uses with perfumes mixed with lotions on my cheeks and now her selling women’s clothes and she wants me to buy I really am her submissive weak helpless soft and feminine cream puff girl. We decided this is what’s best and needed for me as my feminization is for real with her along with all of you!!! It’s to difficult to resist and say no to this.
Do you think I should tell her I have you and the other ldw mistresses that are helping me with my feminization as well asking her if I can get harmless lipstick kisses from her?
Paulina, so true feminization does all of those things to your brain. it is harmless to her, but paulina we all know how powerful those lipsticked kisses are for YOU! hummmm what a conundrum
Your right Ms Erika, lipstick kisses by you and the other ldw mistresses always will be part of my feminization as it puts me in my place reminding who I am and become. :0
🙁 I don’t want to ruin relationship/marriage with her if I were to ask her for lipstick kisses on my cheeks. And yes feminization has taken control over me. It’s to difficult to resist and say no to. Just need to figure out how to ask her about kissing my cheeks? Any ideas how?
Love the blog! We’ve had a few sessions together and You have taught me to submit and pushed buttons I didn’t know I had. Getting into that space with You is truly intoxicating. Look forward to many more! Keep up the amazing work!
Thank you C! You’re a lot of fun, I look forward to your submission! And ???????? for more buttons!
Great description on what and how to get to submitting. I enjoy being the plaything of a dominant woman. It could be service, it could be performing for her. The more aroused I get, the more submissive I become, and the more submissive I become, the deeper I go.
If my mistress wants me aroused, she learns the buttons to push. If she wants to be amused I will perform. If she wants to see me struggle with boundaries for her, I will push them (often a little more than I think I will).
You are a wonderful guide on the journey,
Thank you Wellspanked! Isn’t it a delicious catch 22? I think so!
It is. Also a feedback loop that spirals deeper and deeper.
Goddess Erika, i do think of myself as submissive in many ways. Especially humiliation. i will have to find out what gets me to subspace. In terms of cock control i would think edging suits me better then chastity. Don’t You agree?
*THUD*
that was me falling off my chair. edging that peanut!? *Laughs* that would be fun for me! However edging doesn’t equate to cumming, tiny peanut smuggler
Chastity edging whatever I feel like doing with the TF part of that tftt!
For me if a female indicates she knows or even believes she knows that I am small or tiny endowed I feel almost instantly 100% submissive. It is hard to fully explain the power of it. I literally cannot and will not “talk back” or challenge her in anyway whatsoever – not, then, “just” about the size but really about anything. I think it feels to me like it is literally a woman’s decision (not mine) to decide if I am big or small. And if she decides I am small then that is it. I cannot fully express the power this has. A woman who understands this can make me do almost anything.
Hi Jim, good to see you here!
Good point, cock size is objective yet subjective. One woman’s decent 6″ thick cock is another’s tiny wiggler which she’d never allow near her temple. ????