Hello fans today I’m talking about some reasons why Men Call For Femdom Phone Sex. Of course the reasons are wide and varied, and probably can fill five blogs. So today we’ll begin with looking at three reasons men call for Femdom Phone Sex. Will you be surprised? Let’s take a look.
Femdom Phone Sex
Unlike other “vanilla” phone sex calls, Femdom Phone Sex by its very nature puts Me in the Dominant or leading role. It requires that I am clever, creative and kinky, It also demands that I have a nuanced ability to understand your particular kinky or submissive nature. And contrary to popular belief, my focus is entirely on you, your sexuality and how we can have a kinky good time. This is one, or should I say , several reasons why men call femdom phone sex lines. The chance to give up control. To be controlled by an intelligent engaging Woman.
Experience Femdom Phone Sex
Vanilla Life Kinky Bedroom
More people than you realize put on a vanilla mask when they greet the world. As I mentioned above, not only do I involve myself in D/s sessions but an array of kinky play! You, Vanilla man, you fall squarely in the confines of what society deems healthy heterosexual behavior. You are fulfilled in many ways with your traditional role. But there is part of you which you’ve hidden. Desires you barely speak to yourself about. How can you bring it up to a partner? Many people who have a penchant for kink are afraid of what others may think. Myths about Kink and what it says about you is one reason you keep those desires secret, You have become adept at hiding them that you think you can live without. But there is a need a desire to explore your sexuality, to explore kinks which don’t fit well with your public persona. Since you’ve been lying to yourself and those around you it is just too large of a leap for you to make. Who will understand? Who will judge you? So you seek those who enjoy and encourage your desires.
Therapy Advice
I have mentioned this multiple times through multiple posts and it’s the one area most people are surprised about when it comes to Femdom Phone Sex.There isn’t any “Sex” per se. It’s about erotic therapy. You have an experienced and knowledgeable intelligent woman who doesn’t judge, who enjoys talking about sex and sexual things. Feel free to confess secrets you dare not share. Ask for advice and direction. I often joke with many that “I’m not a dr. but I play one on the internet from time to time!” Many have asked “Are you a Dr” when we talk about their physical challenges or the mental ones. I am interested in the human machine, from the tip of your tippy head down to the tips of your tippy toes. Mind and body is what I explore, learn and have fun with. I’m more than happy to share my experience and knowledge to help you on your erotic journey.
Life Is Short Explore!
Finally, if you find yourself in a situation where you have thoughts and desires but no way to explore them , then Femdom Phone Sex is for you! How many years have you been having those feminine thoughts and desires, and have done nothing. Or, how much do you crave to submit and be a dirty slut, and have your partner still respect you “in the morning”. I will and I do. You can be my dirty whore , slurping , stroking moaning and cumming but in the big picture you are a valued fun partner that I enjoy playing with. Don’t go another minute, another day repressing your desires. Tomorrow is promised to no one.
What naughty, or just sexy thing do you want to explore. Do you have a reason why you call femdom phone sex that’s not rooted in the above!? I want to hear from you!
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Femdom Erika
Goddess Erika, Those are some of the reasons why i call femdom phone sex. Another reason is just to talk to You as there is just something about talking to You makes me want to call. I just feel comfortable talking to You.
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Will you walk into my parlor?” said the spider to the fly.
Such a nice pet.
Mistress Erika,
Who better to have a kinky discussion with, get advice and explore my dirty thoughts and desires than with YOU!
THE #1 Mistress!
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Aww cum slut! You do entertain me so! You naughty activities are so freakin H O T!!! until next time, boy toy!
For me it’s about feminization therapy like we talked on Tuesday night as you really do control and own me as your submissive weak helpless and feminine cream puff girl forever. As I said before most women my age married with kids and I’m not and girls I play tennis with have put me in friend zone. This means I’m not boyfriend material anymore and I’m fine with this as I can call all of you more and start my feminization with dressing up as a girl. This is who I am and become.
Paulina and you are doing wonderfully!
I call LDW to experience the joy and privilege of serving, worshiping and being shown my true place by Superior Women… Women like yourself Ms Erika……While i’m sure I am not worthy, i am nonetheless incredibly grateful for every chance i get to experience being in my true place, on my knees, humbly serving Goddesses.
princess, thank you so much! It is a joy and privilege for a button smuggler like yourself to enter into my orbit. To bask in the glory of my attention. Or any woman’s attention for that matter.
Congrats on the new 1″ clitty cage, Ms C really shrunk that nubbin down! I wouldn’t have believed it if I didn’t see it!
Mistress Erika,
The reasons above all ring so true. The day to day grind of my life has me in full control, and normally stressed to the gills. To be able to call an intelligent, caring and beautiful mistress just melts the stress away. Giving up control is an amazing feeling.
To confess kink and desires allows a happiness to wash over me. Then for those confessions to be used to excite me through guided play is out of this world. Plus a little humiliation never hurt anyone
The third reason would be to build up confidence in expressing desires and wants in “the real world” to now have the confidence to admit desires is an amazing feeling. It no longer has to just be fantasy.
Plus now when work gets stressful I just reach down a feel my clitty against those panties, and stress melts.
Thank you to Miss Rachel, Ms Constance, yourself and all the amazing mistress of LDW.
hi jamie thanks for stopping by, some really great insights you leave! Awesome!
There are many reasons, not the least of which is because it is a fun, erotic experience and a very pleasurable (on many levels) experience.
Other reasons include, someone to confide and explore parts of my sexuality with someone who is not just there for my self reflection and exploring, but with joint purpose to make it enjoyable and sexy.
Also, to open new doors. I know what I know, but it’s great to have someone push the edges out, introduce new or different twists and not have to be shy about it. Exploring new things with a partner can be delicate on both sides. While there is some tact phone sex, the fear of rejection is not as strong (or even there).
So, sex coach/therapist, sexual fulfillment, submission, kinky friend. All of the above and always finding more.
Hi WS!
I couldn’t have said it better myself! Now bendova and give me ten!
SPANKS that is, tee hee ! 🙂
Good morning mistress. Another great post. I too call femdom phone sex. But for two really important reasons at least to me. As you know I’ve been in a leadership position for all of my adult life. So one reason I call is to give up control, and I love giving up my control to you. Secondly and most importantly to me is the friendship we have. I can talk to you about anything, I have never felt so comfortable talking to anyone as I do with you. So thank you for giving me the outlet that you do.
Bob, what great insights. Thank you for your words, it’s my goal to provide that safe welcoming space for you to explore and enjoy! From what you said , it looks as if I’m doing that! Thank you
Here’s a point you’ll agree with, especially given your URL – I sometimes hear from vanilla guys who don’t particularly want “the femdom stuff” but find that we’re smarter and more self-assured than other kinds of phone sex providers. Many of them fall under the therapy/advice types like you mention above, and still others surprise me by turning submissive for the last 30 seconds (tricky dicks!!). Whatever their reason for calling us, it certainly turns out interesting!
Claire how right you are! Many do call and are not “Into” the submissive/Femdom “stuff” , and that’s OK! By our very nature, intelligent erotic confident women who enjoy sex is attractive to the male creature.
I’m laughing because as you say, some surprise us “at the end”. It just goes to prove my theory, all cocks and the guys attached to them are submissive, it’s only to what degree. Sometimes it’s just enough to please her to get her to say YES to the cock, whichever way,they feel that power shift.
Miss Erika,
You pick such interesting topics! This one kicked my gay brain into overdrive! I think I’ve called many phone sex lines over the years simply to “get off”. For me, it’s the connection with another human. Pictures and video can’t talk back to me. But that voice on the other end of the line that uses my name does. It makes it more personal.
With that LDW (and you, specifically, Erika) have taken that connection to a WHOLE new level! That’s where the “therapy” kicks in. As I said above, I’m all about connection. Delving into my sexuality with you is not only sexually gratifying, but very enlightening. I’ve learned a lot about myself calling LDW mistresses. (Some mistresses even state that they enjoy the psychological side of the calls the most)
You can call me one of your success stories, Erika, having been a significant part in my coming out. For that, I thank you.
Last, I’ll just say that I’ve discovered a few kinks that I didn’t know about (SPH, cuckolding, cross dressing). I now know they are just kinks and not personality flaws. I can embrace them and not be ashamed of them. I look forward to what other kinks I may be into.
Thanks, Erika!!
Aaron , engaging with you for almost two years! It’s been fun, and an honor to be a part of your journey along with the other LDW Mistresses. Thank you for your insight, you are right that human connection is important.