Why do you need chastity? Because you have these feelings. Submissive feelings. You have been exploring those submissive feelings through a variety of play. Chastity is just another one of them. I know some of you are reading this and going “no way” “Fuk dat!” and what I have to say in return is: What are you afraid of, big boy. Let’s explore Femdom Chastity and how it can benefit your submissive journey.
Femdom Chastity is based on female superiority, and aims to train your mind and your body to submit further than you ever have before. Increasing feelings of submissiveness, trust and devotion. It also aids you truly feel owned.
Small Penis Lock Up
YouyouDo you have a small penis? Have you’be been hooked on SPH(small penis humiliation) and other forms of humiliation. We know your little appendage is not going to interest women even in its full couple inch glory. Sure you receive pleasure from your orgasm,but who else enjoys it? No one, you’re better off locking it up, and learning to please me in other ways. From orally serving my feet, legs, ass etcetera. Assorted tasks , geared to teach you and please me. Sounds like fun, right? Yea, you are not meant to be boyfriend material, fuck husband material. The only way you are going to feel connected with a beautiful woman is to submit yourself and be owned by one.
Chastity for Erotic Play
Chastity just like any other play in the D/s universe is negotiated. Perhaps we agree to play for a day, three days or a week. Sometimes the terms are “Lock me up, do as you will, unlock and allow release as you please”. Pretty common , too. Particularly when there is a great deal of trust involved. Trust your Mistress will lead you down a path of not only self discovery but a new way of handling challenges. Pretty common for men to use orgasm and masturbation as a stress relief. Now that has been taken away you are motivated to use the huge brain of yours to develop other coping mechanisms. Your may have new and overwhelming submissive feelings to handle.
You Need Chastity Long Term
Once we’ve accustomed your mind and body to the cage and My control, some find it so amazing on a number of levels that they want to try longer term chastity. Month even months of lock up. There is a euphoria and focused to detail transformation that occurs with many in LT chastity. Making men more submissive, If you’ve ever wanted to worship, appreciate all things feminine (No not to BE feminine, necessarily) then once in your life you need to try LT chastity. Come on guys, your cock (I know) has been your best bud for a long time, providing endless amounts of amusement. Why not mature, grow as a man and what it is to BE a man outside of your naughty stick. It’s life changing.
So dear readers, are you ready to try chastity? I’d love to journey with you in 2019 with your chastity play; erotic, long term or otherwise. Even if you are just curious and just want to discuss the subject more in depth you owe it to yourself to call me.
Don’t forget we have the 12 days of Decadence and my Sexy Anniversary celebration to help motivate you to that call.
Until we chat ????
Chastity Mistress Erika
Now that I’m in feminization circuit training program with you and the mistresses along with my confession of getting off to soon in calls you do control my cock as you decided putting me in panties is where it needs to be and I’ve noticed I’m down 2-4’ I really do have a small penis 🙁 what women would want to go with guy like this? None:( I realize I’m not boyfriend material anymore and with all of you dressing/lipstick kissing my cheeks/turning/keeping me as your cream puff girl this is who I am and become. I realize if I don’t do what you say I’m going to be put in chastity which I think will happen if I get off before you and the mistresses tell me to. Now that I’m in feminization circuit training program with you and the other mistresses I really do belong to you as this is long term female lead relationship.
Paulina! Welcome to your new world!
Chastity is where all of us small dick boys belong. Loved the story.
This post was right on point. Chastity has more to offer than just mastering the urge to jerk off. It can definitely increase the submissiveness of a male, but it also produces mental clarity as well. When the penis is taken out of the picture, attention can be given to other things.
No wonder I adore you! Brilliant and sexy! Thanks for stopping by!
There is no better way to shift your focus AWAY from your own selfish desires to a more perfect service to your Goddess than chastity ….Whether it’s long or short term chastity i highly recommend it! It opens doors you can’t fully appreciate until locked!
You, princess are brilliant! Perhaps THE perfect example of what I mean to convey in this blog! You know your place and purpose. To Serve
Goddess Erika, i did like reading this. It looks like that You believe that any male under like 5 inches should permanently be locked in chastity. I agree with You that some one like me will never give anyone pleasure from my orgasm. When i am able to buy a cage i would think that chastity would better help my journey as a submissive slave. You are right Goddess that this where my place and purpose is in life. i just could never be in a dominant role and don’t belong in one.
Tiny nugget, thanks for the smiles! Your journey exploring your submission is what you need to do. You are doing it well! 2019 has to be the year of the cage for you,it’s that “next step” you need!
That cage will forever remind you and keep you in your rightful place: Serving beautiful Women, forgoing your selfish male ego (which you are doing well with, already!) and focusing on the pleasures you can have. Like the taste of my toes, or bottom of my shoes.
Yes Mistress thankyou. The truth .Yes i need chasity.Thankyou for making the world a better place by the practice of female dominance
Merry Christmas Mistress thankyou for making the world a better place by the practice of female dominance.
Merry Christmas to you May santa bring you a pillow for your knees. They’ll need it in 2019! 🙂
Well it has helped me focuss on so many other things my life and made me better person happy Holidays mistress
Lexi! I hear you! what a great example of what great things can happen when you submit. Good to see you on my blog!
Yes Mistress thankyou for telling the truth.i had a free phone call with Mistress Cassandra the dickator ,afraid i want to grovel at her feet and beg for mercy …i will never with my tiny 2 inch dick ,only way to please a woman is being submissive doing things her way .Chasity is wonderful because it hrlps the submissive process along .Thankyou Mistress Merry Christmas.
Mistress Erika you speak the truth.
Mistress Erika when is your sexy anniversary
Ted, I am celebrating all month but the first day I took a call with LDW was 12/20
Yes Mistress thankyou for your patience your anniversary was the 20th so sorry i missed it .Had a session with the Dickator Mistress Cassandra she is tough .Yes i am a loser has she so strongly ppinted out .Small penis humiliation. Not a real man .She said only way i could please a woman was with submission. Chasity is wonderful because it brings out the submission in me …Thankyou Mistress for making the world a better place by the practice of female dominance. Thankyou.
My Pleasure. You need to be controlled by Dominant women, it’s what you were meant to do/be.
I’m dying to try chastity. I’ve mentioned it to my wife but it’s too much for her so the best chance I’d get is if she left me. If that happened chastity is one of the many things I’d do for the following reasons:
1) Takes away my ability to masturbate like a Man.
2) Forces me to sit down to go to the bathroom all the time.
3) Keeps me more Horny more often.
4) Changes my sexual pleasure focus from my thing to my ass
5) Makes me more submissive
What a great,well thought out reply! I like all of your reasons!
Ms Erika, thank you for the wonderful and informative post on chastity. Even though I’m not small I have fantasized about being locked up and having a dominant woman take that point of pride away from me. I look forward to seeing what changes a cage makes on me in 2019.
Thank you W! I look forward to following your journey! *click* 😉
Yes Mistress thankyou for making the world a better place by the practice of female dominance. Hopefully Empress Constance will lock me in Chasity in 2019.Happy new year
I stopped jerking & playing & touching ages ago .I have been told by women on the internet that i belong in chastity but nobody brings or sends the cage to ???? lock it up. Would be pretty in photos a pink cage. To much bulge for going out crossdressing . I prefer to tuck when going out crossdressed hence the last name Tucker.
I should be in chastity as i am well under 5 inches . But i get man urges that can’t be supressed . I still think that i can get a woman. I stopped wearing panties and my feminization pills and lost my sissy desires . I had bought a small SUV and i felt so un manly driving it. And parked at Wal-Mart and real men have big trucks and Jeeps with big tires. So i bought a Big long bed Chevy truck Dully and i no longer feel like a woman or sissy . I feel like a man again except when i go into boy mode and get and play with Hot Wheels. I like being a man and i ain’t gonna be cuckoled either . I had girls i tried to date in my youth cuckold me and i didn’t like it . I am a new man now.
After a time in empty attempted manliness . And realized the Small penis situation I had just purged phone of sissified data and purged most of my sex toys. Even tried a sissy meet site and had abandoned that . Have been placed in friend zone by a woman who puts all men in friend zone now I have been confused as to going back to sissy world I suppose the ideal situation is for a woman to find the smallest chastity devise available and lock me up and sissify me ASAP.
Two reason for chastity that nobody ever mentions.
1 When I am naked I don’t have to see it.
2 This I would never thought if a situation didn’t happen . I unlocked to milk goon etc. After 3 months of lockup 🔐🔒🔒🔒🔐🔐🔐 Then I had strong desires to suck a dick
I couldn’t control it I had to suck a dick. To make a long story short( no pun intended) I meet a guy in the woods we started playing . I was just about to get on my knees and suck him and he asked if he could suck me🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪😮he was on his knees before I could answer. So my delamia is to want to suck dick again & plan to on Friday weather permitting . I should go in chastity so the same thing doesn’t happen again ? Do you approve of my plan?
Aaaah AST , you are discovering Mistress Secrets! Yes, I approve of the plan!
Oh 😊 thanks for the prompt reply I am on my way to the beach now ❤️❤️🔐🌈ps got back on Twitter & doing Reddit also💋🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹♥️🍆🍆🍆🍆🤪