Look guys, someone has to sit you down and talk with you for a minute about your masturbation habits. That’s right. Were are talking about- draining the monster, yanking the crank, abusing the wicked stick, basting the ham, and my personal favorite (which applies to all) Rubbing one out!
How Your Masturbation Habits Can Hurt You
Do you only masturbate to porn? For some that may be a problem. There’s all this scientific psycho-physical stuff regarding desensitization and animals. Desensitization is good when you want your dog to be calm during a thunderstorm but bad when it comes to your brain and your cock! I won’t bore you with the details, which you can read more about here desensitization and masturbating to porn images. Suffice it to say , solely masturbating to porn can lead you down a erectile dysfunction road when you are being intimate with a real warm blooded person! It really is fascinating stuff, and you don’t need to pass an exam on desensitization to understand it.
Understanding Masturbation Habits and Desensitization
Wikipedia defines it as: In psychology, desensitization is defined as the diminished emotional responsiveness to a negative, aversive or positive stimulus after repeated exposure to it. So, basically your mind gets so “high” on the highly erotic images and nothing but the same or even more highly erotic images will make willy shoot the pudding! Your porn viewing will even take on a whole new meaning, searching for even more highly erotic images, and scenes your mind demanding that same easy ‘high’!
How To Improve Your Masturbation Habits
Change it up. That’s all. Don’t use visual stimulus to masturbate. Fantasy or role playing with another human. Start practicing explore your body, with your hands, with toys. Take that time to touch yourself, get in touch with your self. No orgasm required! Tantric Masturbation may not be for everyone, but techniques from the same can help. Create an erotic story in your mind or , of course, call me to help you explore those fantasy stories!
Depending on how addicted your mind is on porn, depends on your next steps. Having a period of Chasity, If you need help just reach out, tell me you need masturbation management, leave the decisions to me. You enjoy your task schedule, and learning how to readjust your mind and body to more rewarding self love sessions that won’t damper your performance in the bedroom!
Mistress Erika, I won’t have to be masturbating next weekend if you allow me to go. My two twinks from PTown have invited me to a lost weekend at a romantic cabin on a lake in Vermont. I will only go if it pleasures you. Tom.
Oh Tom, you know our last session we spoke about this extensively. Therefore, you KNOW I want you to do it! have fun Tom, and don’t forget, details details! LOL
Not here, call me! 😉
I really do need help on this matter. I did email all the mistresses on this as you told me to.
For me it’s dressing as a girl along with the mistresses turning/dressing/kissing & keeping guys as girls that’s gets me hard and off. I DO WANT TO HAVE ALL OF THE MISTRESSES TO DO THIS TO ME!!! I also want to have both girls I’ve been friends with make me their cream puff. I’ve bought women’s clothes/mules that should be here this week as I’m going to start wearing them along with perfume/lotions in hoping they will notice. I really want to have both take control in female lead relationship but am afraid they won’t be interested along with making me one of the girls.
Great petey! 🙂
I bought dress from my masseuses friend and they both want to have me try it on in front of them. They said it will be so much fun having me do this. I’ll wear my bra/panty/slip & heels to see how it will fit. I know I’ll have hardon when this happens as I’ll need to tuck my clitty between my legs and wear special panties & liner????????????. With this happening I’m there cream puff girl. My masseuse told me this is who I am and should accept this and not worry or care what others think. She’s right. Also with one of my friends I told her that my masseuse has been using Japanese cherry blossom lotions/mist on me and she said it’s great I found fragrance I like and want to try her lotions on me. I told her that my masseuse has me hooked on Ralph Lauren romance lotions and she asked where I can get it. With this happening it’s not if but when our friendship with become female lead relationship. I mentioned that with cooler weather I’ll be wearing my ankle boots as well. I ordered a lot of women’s choker tops/dresses/women’s pull up pants that I’m going to start wearing and hope all notice. I can’t complain/protest/whine as with the 2 women I’ll be wearing dress in front of them and the other I’ll smell like a girl. I’m finally going be under control by all 3 of them as their cream puff.
Petey! you must be really revved up today !WOWZA! 😉
I am i am revved up!! It’s time for me to finally say that I want to be in female lead relationship with both girls I’ve known for 5 years and to have them take control. I told them I like girlish lotions and this is tip of ice berg. They were talking about dresses and if they only knew about how many dresses I have and wore they would be shocked!!! The one is into Clinique and if she knew about how many times I’ve tried/expermented with makeup/lipstick she would be in shock. It’s time that I’m going to wear my lotions/layered with perfume when we all go out but not to point were its overpowering along with wearing my women’s pull-up slacks/panties underneath and try to pull off wearing bra with unisex sweater along with either my women’s ankle boots/mules. My masseuse knows of this and she told me this is who I am and to accept this and me just be me and not worry or care what others think. She’s right. It is time to start coming out of closet with the 2 girls in slow way and I have with the women’s lotions and I can use this for more feminization as I need and will tell both of them.
Of course,A nice relationship with a person of character like you Erika is way more pleasing and fulfilling than wasting time on porn.You are the girl next door.You are vibrant and have a zest for life.Most important you are authentic,yourself and very compelling when it comes to a fulfilling relationship.
GiGi, I appreciate the compliment re: “girl next door” but this girl has some very naughty things lurking just underneath the soft exterior! 🙂
Don’t we all have our fantasies and idiosyncrsies.As long as they are legal,fun,healthy is what matters.You follow this with your naughtiness.Yes,and sex is just part of our existence.You are much more than that.That is why avoid the porn.Get to know the person.Have meaningful,intrinsic relationships That is you.You are gifted and special as a human being.You love live.You love closeness and intimacy.You are social and like people.You are using the five senses God has given you to enjoy all that life offers.
*puuuuuuuuuuuur* Gigi, you’re the best