Is your sexuality is bad? I certainly don’t think so. With a very few exceptions I have an open mind, and willing spirit to explore all things sexy, kinky and fun! I started here at LDW wanting to spread that sentiment, giving people a safe place to explore. If you haven’t heard already, Tumblr is banning adult content. The first line of their notification is exactly this: A better, more positive Tumblr.
Yay, right? We all can use more positivity in our worlds! But wait?! What? No Adult (aka: Sexy) content? As they continue, with their notification it’s clear they think better equates to no adult content. Sure they do a pretty good job about halfway down and trying to backpedal and just say adult content is not the way the company wants to go. But in my experience, your first words/statements are your truth. The rest of what you might say is to make it more “PC” or “pablum for the masses”, a bit of a “song and dance” geared to save your overall “image”. I see through you.
Equating Sexuality with Negativity
The fact tumblr had to use words like “better and positive” to move away from adult content causes a good deal of consternation with me. I certainly don’t foster this sentiment, if you’ve connected with me on any level you know how I feel.
Although Tumblrs change is going to require me to change, it is what it is. If tumblr feels allowing adult content is not the direction they want to take their company: Bully for them. But in the same breath to call it a “BETTER” option. Is it “better” or just different. Humm?
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I read about their new direction on Monday, and just about fell out. They ban “female presenting nipples”, but not male looking ones, and if that doesn’t tell you everything you need to know…
There is nothing dirty about the human body, or human needs. It’s completely natural to express ourselves, and part of our expression is often sexual in nature.
Their algorithms flag and ban fine art, sculpture, paintings, photos, and all. They catch expressions of political speech, like the #metoo movement, the protests over bodily autonomy, the right to bare breasts… I even saw them flagging as inappropriate landscape pics. Evidently someone in their headquarters really has a thing for trees?
The instant tone of censure and censorship over human bodies, sexuality, and desires is grossly patriarchal and deeply rooted in purity culture, and frankly, fuck that noise.
A Pleasure for you to be here, Ms Harper! I’m sure you are going to have a podcast about these events. I know I enjoy them when I can! They are poignant ,topical and we need to keep these discussions alive.
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If they changed the format they should have to change their name too, to Bumblr. Ya know? I think TUMBLR is actually an acronym for
As Ms Harper said their algorithms will flag content like fine art simply because of nudity.
Landscape pics flagged? I would like to see those.
Fuck’em, life is a vaccum. The void will be filled somewhere else.Hmmm? tumblr is now a kind of vaccum too because they SUCK!
LOL D, great observations! Ms Harper isn’t wrong and with all things, tweaks to the algorithms will be persistent. I’ve challenged several of their flags , and they’ve reversed them when it was warranted.
Though I believe Tumblr as a private business has every right to operate and allow content they wish to be a part of their platform. When we sign up to utilize their platforms we agree to their terms of service and thus they make the rules unfortunately.
But I also think they’re making a mistake in differentiating themselves as a social media platform. To me they’ve become no different than Pinterest, Instagram, WordPress or Blogspot. I believe they’ll eventually become MySpace.
You are so right that sexuality shouldn’t and isn’t a negative. Though I get off on Humiliation in reality I know it’s just one part of who I am. I look at it as a positive not a negative.
Stephanie, structured and consensual humiliation is erotic! I don’t go about humiliating folks, unless they ask for it. Here, humiliation is a positive. Positive punishment. 😉
Goddess Erika, Sexuality is not a negative. I don’t agree with what tumblr is doing but they have the right to do it. We have the right to not join tumblr and leave it if we are already on it. This is why it is so great to talk to You. That is a lot better then tumblr.
tftt! 🙂 I’m better than tumblr! Wooot WOOot!
Let’s play a game, “Mistress Erika is better than:____________”
I left tumblr awhile back seeing what was coming….as well as having other issues with the platform. Twitter seems a great substitute for sexy pursuits. It is a shame that that vehicle is going away….but I look forward to seeing what happens next 🙂
princess, your positivity is fantastic!
For me I don’t even care, worry or want to be in relationship with women anymore as it’s to much drama and emotion unless they are interested in dressing me in women’s clothes. This is why I quit trying to find women and decided to do the feminization circuit training program with you and the other ldw mistresses. I’ve invested to much money in the clothes/dresses/makeup/wigs/lingerie/perfumes/lipsticks/lotions to quit/purge. After seeing myself dressed up in women’s clothes I really do look better then I do as a guy as this is something I want to get more into with yours and the mistresses help. Honestly all women should do this to guys.
I agree Paulina and now we can’t do it on tumblr 😉
What happened on tumblr?
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🙁 not good. Is there other links that we can go to for feminization? Also blouses came in last night-masseuse said they looked great on me-better they my clothes-she even barrowed one for this weekend and said she will have it smelling in perfume when she gives it back to me, also mentioned next waxing in January she will take pictures of me with her phone in blouses and said not to worry or care what others think-with her saying this I’m going to wear my makeup/lipstick/wig/bra and tell her I want to get more in touch with my feminine side as I feel comfortable and happy this way.
Yes Mistress thankyou. I think it is repressive and negative what they are doing.Thankyou Mistress for bringing such a high degree of intelligence to the conversation.
Why arn’t you a delightful little thing, thank you!