Hello Fans, some of you appreciate how phone sex improves your sex life. I know because I’ve had those conversations with you! For those uninitiated, you probably think it’s all about sexy talk and orgasm. Sure there is that as well , but phone sex, and particularly Femdom phone sex can help your sex life in many ways, aside from orgasm and today we’ll look at three.
Phone Sex Improves Intimacy

I have a solution for that
Many people have a difficult time being intimate with another. I don’t just mean getting a dick hard and putting it in, ya’ll know how to do that since….. well I won’t mention it because it is a NO NO “here” to mention certain ages and for good reason, so DON’T! I mean looking the person in the eye, sharing intimate thoughts, being vulnerable.
Practicing with a stranger may seem to be counter intuitive but it isn’t. You don’t have any “skin in the game” with me. I encourage you to talk about your sexuality, your desires. I reward you for doing so as well! I am an open minded kinky woman, there is very little that is off the table. If you do mention something I don’t care to play with, no worries. I don’t judge you for it, it is what it is. You have consent to be a dirty filthy pervert with me!
Not to mention: The more you practice , the more “natural” it becomes to you. The more you can take that new found ease and use it in your personal life.
Exploring Kink On The Phone
So spring boarding off of the above, another way phone sex improves your sex life is you are free to expand your horizons! You would not be the first person to tell me you are afraid to tell your partner about your naughty thoughts. Perhaps you have a kink to eat your own cum, for example. No one you know would “Understand”. Hell you just have this fantasy and don’t know if you’d even like it! Certainly you wouldn’t bring it up to your partner, what would she think? Also, what if you don’t really like it “In reality?” she’ll “know”.
So we play together you finally get that jizz past your lips! It’s hotter and better than you could have ever imagined! VIOLA! There is very little that can’t be surmounted with the right motivation and support! The privacy and anonymity of our sessions ensures your safety and allows those barriers to come down! I’ve said it before and I’ll say it a million more times, if needed. Creating that safe place for you to explore is a blast for me. I enjoy teasing the kink out of you! I’ve also heard more than once how without my welcoming and positive influence they would have “Never done that”.
Phone Sex Improves Stamina
In particular Femdom phone sex. Where we take control of that unruly rod and teach it how to last. One the top ten of things men call me for help with is PE. Premature Ejaculation. Now please note it’s only premature if you and your partner are unsatisfied with that rebel cock’s performance. Most intercourse encounters only need to last until both partners are satisfied. SO regardless if it’s 5 min or 55 minutes, if you cum before she’s satisfied consider it premature. Using all and any forms of cock control to best fit you is in order. Tease and delay, Edging, Tantric and yes even a bit of pain play can be in order to train YOU to stave off orgasm.
There has to be a dozen or more ways Phone Sex Improves your sex life, these are just three. I want you to tell me , if you’ve called before how has phone sessions with me (or any of My Sister Mistresses) helped your sex life? If you’ve not called “One of these lines” before then why not challenge me, what’s on your mind? I bet I have a solution for that!
Until We Chat
Mistress Erika
P.s.Don’t forget about My Masturbation May Games , let’s play with your cock and we’ll both have some fun! Clients have already won free minutes with me!
Ms Erika,
I love this post! It goes hand in hand with the game we are playing (day 8 and still holding strong!????). Although, I’m taking a more global approach to it. I’m trying to use tease and denial to not only make me a better lover/partner but a better person. A better friend. A better firefighter. A better triathlete. Changing my thinking towards orgasms/sex/preference/identity is only the beginning. I am VERY excited to see where this takes me. Thank you so much!
GBFF
GayBoi! ???? The longer I know you, the more we chat the more I realize “there’s MORE” in there! Your journey has been fantastic! Phone sex therapy , for you my friend has done wonders. No one ever d*ed from not having orgasm, and some men have a pretty huge dichotomy between their pre orgasmic self and energy/erotic level/ vs after they orgasm. You are one. Look how motivated you’ve been! #hotdamn
Ms Erika
I agree. I definitely have a few more creative ideas floating around in my head. With your logic of pre orgasmic positive living vs post orgasm withdrawal , are you saying it’ll be a while?
GBFF
*nods* depends on what you mean by “a while” princess who often comes a while for her is years. ????????
I’m not scared. You know my record. Let’s see how tantric we can make your gay servant.
I agree with this!!! Having phone sex mistresses is great!!! We can talk about anything and everything!!! So much better then having girlfriends who aren’t into this or dealing with the drama of emotion of being in relationships which to me are to much work and honestly a waste of time. At my age most women are married with kids and I’m not and girls I know have put me in friend zone which is fine with me as I can dress up and call of you more.
Paulina ! How great for you to stop by! What a great point you make! Looking forward to continuing on with your feminization and talking about the game plan going forward with your masseuse!
Coach, therapist, trainer, advisor, guide, friend….and all with “certain” benefits.
Phone sex can be, and has been for me, more than just fun way to get off. It is a resource for sexual health, mentally, physically, and emotionally.
The fact that the ladies of LDW approach it that way is what makes them so great.
Thank you WS, you are a fantastic addition to our little corner of the WWW. I’m glad you found us!
It does indeed enable us to explore fantasies and find our true submissive place…. I lived in denial for many years until my eyes were opened (and mascara applied lol) as to my true sissy beta male place… have these calls to thank!
princess! You have been trained by the best, and you are such a great pet to Ms C as well as a source of amusement and support for the rest of her Mistress Friends!
Goddess Erika, It is great to be able to talk to You as You have helped me accept my place. Though just maybe if i call phone sex even more it may improve my sex life. So i may still have hope.
tftt! how did I miss this delightful submissive submission!
I think it is important to note that quality phone sex is important.LDW with it’s staff provides world class phone sex.It may lead to self awareness ,fun,etc. and a higher quality of life. Mistress Erika you are a compassionate, hardworking that represents the best of LDW.Thankyou.
Thank you Gigi! I think you are right. LDW/Enchantrix you are more than a voice on the other end of the phone! Your input made my day!