Blurring The Line Between Sexual Fantasy And Reality is something I experience daily. Hello, my sexy friends, did I get your attention with that introduction? Sexual fantasy mixing with reality? I used this phrase with someone recently and they were curious and asked for an explanation. What does it mean, to blur the lines? Can we take your sexual fantasy and make it more real? Grab your favorite beverage and let’s have a bit of a chat! You know I love your comments, so don’t hesitate to chime in! I WANT you to be part of the conversation!
Sexual Fantasy Or Any Fantasy
Fantasy is the spice of life, and it’s also a very integral part of our (human) success. With my revamped profile for VoxErotic.com, I state that fantasy is to the mind as water is to the body. Necessary and nurturing. We are blessed with brains that can project, manipulate elements, and dream of things not in our immediate world. Think about it. Everything we enjoy in your modern world was once someone’s fantasy, at some point. So fantasy is a large part of our existence and that includes sexual fantasies. Sexual fantasies are why I am here, it’s one of the exciting things I specialize in. From dreaming of being a sweet sissy maid, or a micro tiny man residing in my Giantess Panties, to being coerced into behavior that you have no responsibility for because “I made you do it”, sexual fantasies are ripe with delicious details.
Benefits Of Fantasy Play
Much like what I alluded to in my Vox Erotic profile, there are many benefits to engaging in fantasy play. Today I’m delving deeper into the benefits. Fantasy is a stress relief for our minds and bodies. Anything is possible, and when our brains play like this, transporting you into another place time, or even a different persona leave your stresses behind.
Another reason people enjoy fantasy play is to practice behaviors. For example, many who are bicurious want to ensure they have the skills to please and impress before they make that “next step”. Sometimes the role-play fantasy of being in a therapist’s office practicing telling their friends and loved ones they are gay, helps you try on scripts to find which one best suits you. We can even practice responses to less-than-generous responses.
Sexual Fantasy can also help you when you know there’s no intention of going “real-time. People who enjoy Feminization, even if only in fantasy, help them to feel and enjoy their feminine energy without risk of reprisal. I’ve given examples of just some of the ways fantasy play can help some with bicurious or feminization desires, but it holds with a plethora of kinks and desires! So my question to you (comment below) what other desires do you think can benefit from fantasy play?
What Is Blurring The Lines With Sexual Fantasy Play
One thing that is prevalent with fantasy play, is sometimes it doesn’t seem like fantasy! I never considered blurred lines before, until I started getting comments like: “Oh Wow, that felt so real”, or “I felt I was right there with you!”. After all, most fantasy play does have very real elements of reality. I am “really” talking with you, I’m not some AI bot. I am augmenting the play with my sexy mind, and bringing sexy elements to the table that only I can! There are real orgasms! There is a real connection between us.
Of course, for some fantasy play leads to those behaviors “for real”. As I mentioned above, I have helped countless people blend their fantasy with reality. Do you have a fantasy of being locked, owned, and controlled? That can and does happen “for real”. Do you enjoy humiliating tasks? In our sexual fantasy play, I may play the part of a capricious humiliatrix, pushing you towards more humiliation. You are going to the adult bookstore and asking for help purchasing very embarrassing items. But the thing is, is it fantasy if you are doing it? See how these lines are blurred?
What Is Your Sexual Fantasy
I would love to know! Many of you know I offer all styles of erotic engagement. From the traditional phone call, texting and even talking with you over Skype, or helping you make your CFNM fantasy bloom with my secret weapon, just ask!! But did you know I also can bring your fantasy alive with erotic audio, erotic writing, and email packages? There’s no reason not to share your fantasy with me when I have all of your options COVERED! The only question is, how will we play? Don’t think your fantasy is too “Weird” or perverted, I delight in many fantasies. Sure I do have a couple of boundaries, but I’ll be sure to let you know in a reasonable, mature manner! I know, something woefully missing from the world these days!
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Interesting Goddess Erika. Would it be possible if it wasn’t sexual. Blurring the lines between fantasy and reality. Could that even count for darkroom fantasy? 🧎♂️🧎♂️🧎♂️
Oh Absolutely it can! I primarily deal with sexual matters so the blog focuses on that. However your desires to serve, to be NOTHING but something
to hand me $ and hold my drink on your back, while I do whatever I like, is absolutely blurring those lines with our dark room sessions
I often say Fantasy is often better than reality!!!You are right blending often occurs.
I totally agree.You are extremely mature.That is one reason I admire and adore you.
😘Thank you Gigi, and you are right, because we control all the elements in “private fantasy” play, with everyone behaving as expected, it’s sometimes better than reality!
Oh dear Mistress Erika…is there a door I haven’t opened? (Or had opened for me?🤭)
That micro man never occurred to me. Whatever it takes to get into your panties!🤣
It’s likely I will be in for a scolding after such cheek…perhaps locking up your peanut and putting me in panties? Oh, we do!
Send me to the store for humiliating purchases?
Shall I show you the receipts?
Not to worry Mistress Erika, I have such blurred lines even my new glasses can’t make them clear. But there may be a naughty fantasy or five yet to explore. Behind closed doors though…with my wonderful Mistress privy to my proclivities!
Hello My happy little pink peg! LOL OMG so if I understand you, to get into my panties you’d be willing to be shrunk down to just a few itty bitty inches? I mean tiny ant man is fun
but I’d like an eyeful so let’s say 3″ still small enough to rest in the gusset of my panties yet big enough for me to see that tiny todger, even tho now, it’s “flea sized”
YIKES! Tee hee 😘😘
LOL On the blurred lines!
Wow! Talk about a “Hammock from Heaven”!
I could lounge in that all summer!
Since I can relate to those dimensions you mention, three and the flea shouldn’t be such an adjustment!
LOL thanks PEG!
In my experience, fantasy rarely lives up to expectations in reality. Something that is sexy and arousing in my mind is very different with a partner. Not always worse, but different. Fantasy isn’t restricted by the boundaries of physics, biology, and communication.
Taking a fantasy and adding real elements to it allows for the best of both worlds. Brining in a mistress who learns ahead of time the drive of the fantasy, the edges, the elements that make it arousing and then able to incorporate real elements is an elevation of the fantasy. The fantasy still retains a “start and stop”, a goal or outcome that you choose, but also the uncotrollable, or better said ceded control to a dominant, creative, captivating, enchanting, sexy mistress.
My fantasies have changed over time since interacting with LDW mistresses, you Mistress Erika included. Some of them now are more inline with the realities of calls of skype, allowing for less fantasy and more reality. Brining more clarity to the blur.
Hello Wellspanked!
It’s true because in fantasy we control all the play, no one ever misspeaks, belches and things move along as expected so that hotness level is not only ramped up but
it’s PERFECT, right?
Very well said “taking the fantasy and adding….”
Thank you for your words, I’m honored! Speaking of blur, did you figure out the background blur on your skype box?
LOL JK! 😘😘😂😂
while a fantasy may be “perfect”, the excitement level, the emotions, endorphins, and adrenaline are all amped up with reality.
would Mistress prefer a blurred background? is there something else you would rather your focus was able stay on? LOL
LOL WS, although yes I prefer certain parts of you to be in plain view, truth is the blur background sometimes blurs the “good stuff” too 😉
Some gurls fantasize about being a Hooker. Wearing the Hooker Daisy Dukes platform heels fishnets. My first night out as a crossdresser was exactly that but back then We T Girls had our special nightclub .
.Some T Girls and women play Lot Lizard 🦎 4 Truckers
This is something that I haven’t seen in reality 🤔😜
Upon further review I have seen 2; lot lizards.Just after I sent this. I hope I wasn’t too mistaken for a panty boi lot lizard :& wearing red 🍒converse sneakers 😆
LOL Oh what an image!
Fantasy and reality. I have made my best efforts to make Fantasies into realities. I seen a large brim Black and white woman’s Sun Hat at Target 🎯 instant fantasy of Misstress Erika wearing this at a beach in a swimsuit red ♥️ full body shapely one piece. I would have bought it if I could hand it to you.
I’ve seen a, or I saw a, I don’t think it’s “I seen”!
Nice fantasy AST! See you get a sexy erotic charge and a 2bit grammar lesson LOL
Great post as always Mistress Erika … one does have to keep one’s feet planted in the real ‘work a day’ world too… but there’s no reason I can’t be locked in chastity and wearing panties under my suit while I do! Lol
BTW… I kinda wish that photo had been total blurry so I was tempted by such a display of feminine Goddess like heavenly beauty and sheer hotness!
I’m soooooo NOT worthy!
Hey Prissy thanks for stopping by! Oh What an image you painted I love it! Cover your screen and only look at the blurry part LOL
For me fantasy is reality
Hey Tiffany! Are all your girlie dreams coming true?
No they’re not Ms Erika😢😭
“You are going to the adult bookstore and asking for help purchasing very embarrassing items. But the thing is, is it fantasy if you are doing it? See how these lines are blurred?”
That line was definitely not blurred because I did it, and I had the sales lady sign my shopping list for you to confirm that they didn’t have any small condoms.
If Mistress is happy, beta is happy.
Hey Little dick man! LOL that was so much fun , wasn’t it! Yes you hit the tiny little nail on that even tinier clitty head!
Thanks for stopping by and commenting, makes me smile, or er… SMIRK knowing your depraved little heads are HUNGRY for more
of what I dish out. Mmm
It’s good for me to know that you’re smirking at me. Like all of the women in my life who’ve known about my little attribute. Not to mention my twisted sexual habits…
twisted, depraved and Oh so much fun! LOL
I’m scared of you.
I’m scared of everyone at LDW who knows me.
Oh yea, lots of ladies know little Tommy small cock! and with the size you have? yea I’d be scared too!
You always know how to make my ears turn beet red…
I have a small penis and I am very embarrassed about it.
LTSC, small? Small is an understatement. I got your email, lol. Did you just get out of a polar plunge?🤣🤣
Try TINY as in two finger tommy! Perhaps LTSC isn’t the most accurate, LTTC is better.
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Thank you, Headmistress Erika. I agree. little tommy tiny cock has a nice “little” ring to it, doesn’t it? You just gave me a small-on…
LOL small on!
I am so scared of you today. You are so powerful and I’m so addicted to you…
😏
Of course you are little dick man
I am sexually useless unless I am entertaining you by pleasuring others with my mouth.
Because my #1 sexual organ is my mouth.
LOL OMG! SO TRUE! you can only please a Woman by being a little bitch and using your mouth!
I’m not going to comment on the article other than you look absolutely amazing in that black outfit…. WOW 😍
Why Thank you 3D, do I know you by another name? 😘😘
Fantasy 🚛 truck stop Hooker Girl’s ( also called Lot Lizard) Reality Mon here at FL reststop.