Back to basics at Intelligent Phone Fantasy and starting with Cock Control Virgins Guide! Now, I don’t mean you are a virgin in the typical “I haven’t pumped my willy inside of a real live vagina”, kinda virgin. I mean, you have never truly given up control of that cock to another! Cock control comes in various forms. Today I’ll touch upon them and some basic techniques and general knowledge you need to know to start you on that sexy cock control path!
Guided Masturbation
Guided Masturbation is widely popular. What many might think of when thinking of “phone sex”. But most don’t consider it as a form of cock control, I do. After all, you are stroking and doing as I say, yes? YES! That is a form of control. Most of the fun with guided masturbation is you don’t know what I’ll ask of you next. Having a sexy Woman like me focused on you, your sex, your arousal can be very intoxicating.
Guided masturbation can come with orgasm control as well. Meaning we can play until you say you want to cum. But mark my words: every single guided masturbation fan who routinely calls me has taken this kinky play to the next level and that’s with orgasm control! Meaning we play in a similar manner, but I say when , how and where you cum!
Orgasm Control
Who Controls That Cock?
With orgasm control “cock control” takes on a whole new dimension. Many guys , develop a very bad habit. Partially because of their lack of alone time. They are used to yanking and cumming ASAP! Sure that feels good for about 8 seconds (sorry guys) but I know, and you need to know, there is more pleasure to be had! The longer you are aroused, the longer you tease that hot cock the more intense the orgasm! There’s also a delightful buzz , all natural, from those racing hormones!
Some might think “OK that’s easy enough, tease me Erika!”. Hold on their , sport. It’s not as easy as one might think. Sure you could probably get yourself all lathered up, probably edge a time or two. But something with solo play, something about the male biological directive urges you, compels you to orgasm.
Few orgasm control virgins can push their own limits. Some virgins don’t know what an edge truly is, but more importantly many are unsure how to stave off that orgasm. This is where I come in.
What A Cock Control Virgin Needs To Know
Either with informal sessions, or signing up for our formal cock control training, you too can become a fantastic stroker pet, for Mistress, and a better lover for those ladies who may find themselves in your bed. Every guy wants that, right? To be a better lover? I haven’t met one who didn’t. It is one of my favorite things about what I do. Sure we have a sexy good time but our play reverberates throughout your life, in all aspects. Not just in the bedroom. Having more confidence in your abilities, brings about a better self image. Better self image…… you get my point.
So what does a cock control virgin need to know? Here’s a list of things you should become adept at.
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- Following guided masturbation instructions to the “T”. Have an open mind , and just because you don’t see the “point” do it anyway, learn to trust.
- Learn various stroking techniques, along with their variations to get better in touch with your body and your body’s responses.
- Being able to focus and “number” your arousal level.
Often lost in your own lust, that O comes on suddenly seems to be a “surprise” for some.But it really isn’t a “surprise” it’s just an
accelerated arousal /orgasm process. The “steps” to orgasm are there, the lesson is for you to recognize those processes, and adjust
accordingly. - Delay. Learn to enjoy the sexual high you’ll get when you learn coping skills to deal with your arousal level. I’m not talking about chastity.
(yet hahaha!) but every cock control pet needs to know how to wait for that orgasm. It’s called Delayed Gratification and makes you a better human. - Edging, learn to orgasm edge and learn more about edging here.
- Ruined Orgasm. being able to properly perform a ruined orgasm. Again easier said than done. Your biological directive dictates that hand stays firmly on that cock. Learning to take it off, or other forms of ruined orgasm is a skill.
- Tie up that cock! Soft tie or cock ring, learn how to tie and use!
- Kegels! Begin today! 3 sets of three , three times a day! After a week 5 sets of three, three times a day. Don’t know what kegels are?
Click here: Kegel - Be honest about your abilities, what you were successful at, what you are weak at. I can’t help you unless I know where I need to focus.
Some guys when they first start to learn how to “EDGE” can’t really get to a 9, lest they spew. OK by me, we’ll take you to an 8 , instead.
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With all of this in mind I invite you to a 15 minute quick training session with me in December. It is My anniversary and your 15 min call just might get you a sexy gift! Check out the offerings on this post about my Sexy Phone Sex Anniversary. A sexy erotic guided masturbation audio or those free phone sex minutes is just what your cock control journey needs!
Until We Chat ????
Intelligent Phone Fantasy Mistress Erika
You have me on orgasm control. Especially with dressing/lipstick kissing my cheeks/turning and keeping me as your submissive weak helpless soft and feminine cream puff girl. After much thought this is what’s best and needed for me as my feminization will take step up in 2020. With you and the other ldw mistresses continuing my ongoing permanent feminization as well putting my small clitty in panties and bras rubbing instead of stroking then stopping on your command. I really am the cream puff girl forever.
On real life scale it’s time to accept who I am and become as I really am her cream puff girl forever. She said no more buying women’s clothes. And told me that she wants me to try on new blouses next Monday which I’m going to with my bra/breast forms/panties underneath as well makeup/lipstick and wig. She’s really taken control over me as I’m in female lead relationship with her. With this being done she does have her nails firmly dug into me with no intention of ever letting me go and wrapped around her fingers.
Yes Creampuff! SO TRUE!!! #Forever!
Oh Miss Erika,
This is a great post. But, I think we both know, too much time with no Cumming is no bueno for Gayboi FF. ????. The train came off the tracks, big time! That being said, my cock (all 2.75” of it!), Still belongs to you.
LOL Aww Aaron, I do know that about you! But we are not talking long term chastity, my cock loving friend! We are talking using that “high level or arousal” and training that cock and brain. You are n ow “out of the closet” do you think that happened by accident? WOOOOOOOOOOT? LOL 😉
I love it! You used my sexual energy to help me out of the closet! Thank you! No turning back now! #nopussyforme…ever
#pussyfree4life
Goddess Erika, I don’t think of myself as a cock control virgin. So if i get trained properly i could still become a great stroker pet. There is still hope for me then.
True you are not a cock control virgin and you make the loveliest of sounds and it would please me greatly to make you into the perfect TINY stroker pet LOL
Mistress Erika you are “shot spot” on when you mention the bad habits we cod wallopers learned as novices! Being raised in a large family, taking matters into my own hands took not only planning, but stealth, speed and a plausible alibi as to why you were hogging the commode! Eight seconds may seem like an exaggeration…but trust me I would often finish before I had even decided whether tonight it would be “Ginger or Mary Ann”!
LOL Little daaaaaaaaaaaaveeeeeyyyyyyyyy!
8 seconds is the average length of a male orgasm, but yea you all “turn yourself into” minute men, lol!
and LOL re: ginger or maryann!
Mistress Erika re: the Ginger reference…how funny is that as time went by it was not so much “Ginger” being the object of my desire, but the beautiful gowns she would wear! Lol!
I’m no virgin to my cock being controlled, but I can’t imagine me in control of my own cock anymore. Of course you know denial is my thing. I Love not being allowed to cum. Orgasms are over and I lose all horniness for weeks. I enjoy being horny all the time. I enjoy the control my Queen has over me and I enjoy when she lets you control this cock as well. I could never go back to being in control of my orgasms. This is way too much fun!
Queen’s pet! Happy Holidays, naughty one!
Thanks for stopping by and I have to agree, you are a LOT OF FUN!
Your submission to her control is sublime and yes “YOU GET IT” orgasm pleasure
is over in 8seconds, this arousal ALIVE feeling can last much longer. It was fantastic getting to know you “Better” this year and look forward to more fun with you and your Queen in 2020!!