Controlling your cock is on the top five list of fun sessions we do here at the Empire! Some of you are enthralled by the idea of Mistress controlling your cock. Others are interested but have some trepidation about handing over control of that fuck stick! This post is for both cock camps! I’ll be talking about some elements of cock control, some things that experienced strokers enjoy, why you don’t have to have an ounce of trepidation and a full glass of FUCK YES and get your cock control journey underway! Finally what I love about cock control.

Controlling Your Cock Basics

Controlling your cock can be as simple as telling you how to stroke that dick. It’s so exciting for us both when you follow directions, and ENJOY every stroking inch! But I don’t stop with that cock! I’ll get those balls into the mix, perhaps those nipples, and for the most adventurous that sweet ass hole! But the most important and exciting part of you to play with is your mind. JOI and a bit of mindfucker are always on tap!

Many who are in the “Deep end” of the cock control pool started somewhere, and that gateway kink often starts with JOI sessions or jerk-off instructions, and because they are not familiar with “waiting for approval” often just spew as the urge hits. But moving along the cock control basics continuum and training that cock we introduce orgasm delay orgasm and orgasm edging. Orgasm edging or commonly referred to as edging, is erotic stimulation to your cock, just before that point of no return. At this stage of the game, control of when you orgasm is now on the table for discussion. It’s natural to have an increase in that control. Pushing soft boundaries or exploring interests. Increasing My control over that cock control goes from controlling it in session to well beyond the session, and spilling into your day-to-day.

It wouldn’t be unusual for a pet to call for control for a month,  twenty-four-seven control. Then take a break and return the following month, and so on and so forth. It’s a common misconception with professional Mistresses that someone owned and controlled, every day all the time during their joining for this part of their journey. It’s true for some, but not so much for others. There is no right or wrong and as I’ve said before, I’ll welcome you back with open arms!

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Ok, where was I? That’s right.

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As you might have figured out at this point, you have a safe and sane place to explore here. There’s no need to rush the steps and we are able to enjoy whatever degree of cock control for as long as you are enjoying for as long as you like. I am a very patient Mistress because I know when you start playing in the cock control realm with me,  it’s not a matter of if, only a matter of when. You might not realize that I’m slowly walking you down that path. Adjusting your mindset, show you the pleasure of obeying. Experiencing the pride and purpose you will have when you succeed, and feeling my pride with praise and rewards when you please me. Do I coerce some into behaviors and activities? I certainly do, but it’s because they respond best to that particular style.

I meet you where you are. What your interests and boundaries you may have are important to me! I’m here to create a fantastic experience for BOTH Of us, and since you are new to this I cannot expect you to meet me where I am, right?

Controlling Your Cock For The Experienced Stroker

For those who have been on their cock control journey and those looking forward to their cock control journey they can experience an increase in the intensity of our play. From denying your orgasm for the duration of a session to pushing you further beyond “this session” and increasing that erotic experience over a day two or even weeks. I do have some sexy offerings at our phone sex assignment store that you can get to keep those hands busy.  Keep in mind there are two pages, it’s kind of a mind-fuk with the formatting-check out both pages!

Teaching you various stroking techniques, introducing toys to the mix.  I always appreciate a talented cock that can edge however I like. Sexy tasks to either keep those hands ON that cock or off as I see fit between sessions. Increasing the number of edges you can do without “losing it”. Ruined orgasms, and prostate orgasms for those willing to learn! For many locking up that cock in a chastity cage. You might think just not jerking feels controlling. Wait until that lock clicks. Mmm. Reports are in, it’s a must-try. Increasing the feeling of submission, ownership, and connection with Mistress that you may never have expected.

Many love it when I increase a bit of the humiliation verbally or with tasks. From giggling and calling you a stroker, or hand humper, licking up that precum, and admitting you are loving to be my stroking puppet! It’s amazing to be a witness to and a part of! The more worked up you are, the more you can take when it comes to humiliating tasks and activities. But just like any other BDSM activity there’s a safe word so if my pushing your boundary isn’t fun, or exciting we utilize it so I can seamlessly pivot!

What I love About Controlling Your Cock

Everything. 

Oh what, did you want more? *winks*. Ok but just a tease!

I love introducing new and sexy things to folks, love being a part of their sexual journey and of course, a Lady can’t have too many cocks to control, now can she? Need more?   Absolutely, connect with me in session and you will FEEL and experience FIRST Hand what I love and how I love controlling your cock!

But it’s not just me who loves everything about controlling your cock, a recent Twitter poll demonstrates that most men love to submit to her control or want to! Interesting! Check it out my twitter poll!

Until we chat 😘😘
Your Intelligent Phone Fantasy and JOI Mistress, Erika

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