Controlling your cock is on the top five list of fun sessions we do here at the Empire! Some of you are enthralled by the idea of Mistress controlling your cock. Others are interested but have some trepidation about handing over control of that fuck stick! This post is for both cock camps! I’ll be talking about some elements of cock control, some things that experienced strokers enjoy, why you don’t have to have an ounce of trepidation and a full glass of FUCK YES and get your cock control journey underway! Finally what I love about cock control.
Controlling Your Cock Basics
Controlling your cock can be as simple as telling you how to stroke that dick. It’s so exciting for us both when you follow directions, and ENJOY every stroking inch! But I don’t stop with that cock! I’ll get those balls into the mix, perhaps those nipples, and for the most adventurous that sweet ass hole! But the most important and exciting part of you to play with is your mind. JOI and a bit of mindfucker are always on tap!
Many who are in the “Deep end” of the cock control pool started somewhere, and that gateway kink often starts with JOI sessions or jerk-off instructions, and because they are not familiar with “waiting for approval” often just spew as the urge hits. But moving along the cock control basics continuum and training that cock we introduce orgasm delay orgasm and orgasm edging. Orgasm edging or commonly referred to as edging, is erotic stimulation to your cock, just before that point of no return. At this stage of the game, control of when you orgasm is now on the table for discussion. It’s natural to have an increase in that control. Pushing soft boundaries or exploring interests. Increasing My control over that cock control goes from controlling it in session to well beyond the session, and spilling into your day-to-day.
It wouldn’t be unusual for a pet to call for control for a month, twenty-four-seven control. Then take a break and return the following month, and so on and so forth. It’s a common misconception with professional Mistresses that someone owned and controlled, every day all the time during their joining for this part of their journey. It’s true for some, but not so much for others. There is no right or wrong and as I’ve said before, I’ll welcome you back with open arms!
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Ok, where was I? That’s right.
Newbies To Cock Control
As you might have figured out at this point, you have a safe and sane place to explore here. There’s no need to rush the steps and we are able to enjoy whatever degree of cock control for as long as you are enjoying for as long as you like. I am a very patient Mistress because I know when you start playing in the cock control realm with me, it’s not a matter of if, only a matter of when. You might not realize that I’m slowly walking you down that path. Adjusting your mindset, show you the pleasure of obeying. Experiencing the pride and purpose you will have when you succeed, and feeling my pride with praise and rewards when you please me. Do I coerce some into behaviors and activities? I certainly do, but it’s because they respond best to that particular style.
I meet you where you are. What your interests and boundaries you may have are important to me! I’m here to create a fantastic experience for BOTH Of us, and since you are new to this I cannot expect you to meet me where I am, right?
Controlling Your Cock For The Experienced Stroker
For those who have been on their cock control journey and those looking forward to their cock control journey they can experience an increase in the intensity of our play. From denying your orgasm for the duration of a session to pushing you further beyond “this session” and increasing that erotic experience over a day two or even weeks. I do have some sexy offerings at our phone sex assignment store that you can get to keep those hands busy. Keep in mind there are two pages, it’s kind of a mind-fuk with the formatting-check out both pages!
Teaching you various stroking techniques, introducing toys to the mix. I always appreciate a talented cock that can edge however I like. Sexy tasks to either keep those hands ON that cock or off as I see fit between sessions. Increasing the number of edges you can do without “losing it”. Ruined orgasms, and prostate orgasms for those willing to learn! For many locking up that cock in a chastity cage. You might think just not jerking feels controlling. Wait until that lock clicks. Mmm. Reports are in, it’s a must-try. Increasing the feeling of submission, ownership, and connection with Mistress that you may never have expected.
Many love it when I increase a bit of the humiliation verbally or with tasks. From giggling and calling you a stroker, or hand humper, licking up that precum, and admitting you are loving to be my stroking puppet! It’s amazing to be a witness to and a part of! The more worked up you are, the more you can take when it comes to humiliating tasks and activities. But just like any other BDSM activity there’s a safe word so if my pushing your boundary isn’t fun, or exciting we utilize it so I can seamlessly pivot!
What I love About Controlling Your Cock
Everything.
Oh what, did you want more? *winks*. Ok but just a tease!
I love introducing new and sexy things to folks, love being a part of their sexual journey and of course, a Lady can’t have too many cocks to control, now can she? Need more? Absolutely, connect with me in session and you will FEEL and experience FIRST Hand what I love and how I love controlling your cock!
But it’s not just me who loves everything about controlling your cock, a recent Twitter poll demonstrates that most men love to submit to her control or want to! Interesting! Check it out my twitter poll!
Until we chat 😘😘
Your Intelligent Phone Fantasy and JOI Mistress, Erika
controlling what Ms Erika?
Oh that’s right SB you don’t have a cock, you have a peanut! I should write a blog “controlling your peanut” LOL
giggles rofl
LOL yea you should giggle!
There is nothing better than surrendering TOTAL control of my ‘coco’ to Mistress…24/7 and every day of the year!
Mmmmmmmm Yes, Prissy you are a fantastic submissive, the fact you are a sissy cuckold, dickless slut is a icing on the cake.
i love how You explain the different needs of cock control, i enjoy our email sessions me being caged up and on Your end trusting me that i am obeying and doing Your tasks. To me this is what makes my cock being controlled by my Mistress so exciting to me. Thank You for Your guidance in this area.
Hi Kimmy! You bring up a good point! Trust is paramount, if you don’t do as instructed you are just cheating yourself! Thank you for your kind words, pet! 😘
Love you controlling my cock. ❤️
Is that what we are still calling it after, well “you know who” found a bigger one? 😘😘😂😂
LOL, “you know who” found a really big one. What should we call what you do to me? 😉 😍 😘 😃
I call it “No mercy teasing” as you after all these years cannot control your fountain when “You know who” goes out with her BF LOL
I LOVE YOUR NO MERCU TEASING! ❤️
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You know Mistress Erika, I think it was a wonderful idea to hand over ownership of my (don’t laugh!) “cock” (okay…go ahead and laugh!🤭) to you.
After years of my “hands all over” the time had come! It’s been long enough!
(Who’s kidding who? It’s NEVER been “long enough!”)
Having Mistress decide how, when or even if, the “time will come” fills me with anticipation and ensures I wii be an obedient pet to earn a treat.
The excitement of locking up your property is just as keen today as when I first started!
Spending every waking hour caged and pantied for you is a privilege.
And then on top of that you have introduced me to the wondrous “Ruined Orgasm” (although I will never consider this phenomenon “ruined”)
Each time you allow me this, I am so grateful!
Put me down as a “Yes, I love it!”
aww my little pink peg! Thanks for your fun and INFORMATIVE comment. See it’s not all doom and gloom if your todger is trivial! There are many ways
you can please Mistress! Speaking of controlling, can’t wait to play you bought the Stroke Challenge! WOO HOO!
BTW you don’t just ruin those orgasms you RUING THEM IN the cage as well! #Impressive!
Good afternoon mistress. Amazing picture. I’m one of your pets that you control even when we are not in session. In my every day life, I hear you say “stroke my cock pet”. It’s a reflex I find a place to stroke your cock. You own it. I’m proud to say that you own it, and control me.
Hi Bob! Thank you for taking the time to be a part of the conversation! I so enjoy controlling that cock, and it’s a reflex ! yumm!
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Hi Goddess Erika. This is a very good post.🧎♂️🧎♂️ Though instead of cock control it needs to be pee-pee control for little guys like me. I was thinking of chastity though. Would be bad if beta’s like me were locked in chastity and there was some way the keys to the cage were destroyed or lost somehow.
Hi slave! Thank you, and you’re right you are in the itty bitty cock committee although what you have, can’t
be referred to as a cock, hence PP !
although I do agree some should be pussy and boner free for life, putting the keys in a safe deposit box or in Mistresses hot little hand will allow access for medical emergencies, the only time it should be unlocked! 😘😘