The Dom sub relationship, a yin and yang. Two opposites, which are actually complementary, interconnected. Key for any relationship really. Being able to appreciate our differences and how they are sometimes interconnected and interdependent.
Dom sub relationship 101
Each D/s dynamic is different and unique. The interplay between two people, learning their particular likes and dislikes. Some love and require ritualistic greetings and departures, to help reinforce their bond. Perhaps other connections are a bit more casual. Only Dom and sub in nature when creating that special play that helps submissive feelings to be explored and expressed. Perhaps one paring is more BDSM driven and another more sensual domination, with little of the B or SM involved. What bonds you with your Mistress is as special as any other relationship and part of the wonderful journey.
Fantasy Dom sub relationship
Many I encounter have always fantasied about a dom sub relationship. I do enjoy hearing what turns you on, what things you’ve tried, or would like to try. There are many ways a person may see themselves as submissive. From kneeling , tending to feet. Spanking, and strap-on play are common ways to help males feel submissive. Being a personal sex toy for Mistress is a particular favorite of mine. Being stripped and laid bare as in a CFNM scene has an irresistible draw for some, while others feel more submissive decorated with lace panties, perhaps negligee or other ultra fem attire.
Dom sub And Other Connections
So as you see, there are so many ways we connect and play with a Dom sub relationship. I have to say I’ve made some awesome connections with all of you. Each connection with different elements. Some are D/s in its dynamic. Others friends, like minded kinky friends. I’ve had a great year connecting with you, and hope to make new connections in the coming year and having twice as much fun! Come and join me on this kinky journey!
Hi Mistress Erika,Great post. One thing for me has always been to give up control and power to people who are far superior to me. Maybe i can be a sextoy.
No doubt, tiny! All any submissive needs is a bit of training!
Mistress Erika,Hope you had a Great Thanksgiving. One thing that i can be thankful for this year is being able to talk to you. I also like how called it a relationship. Which it really is. The other one is that there has to be a lot of trust between the Dom/sub. Great job by a great Mistress.
Thank you tiny tim! ????
I love the fact that we have the Dom/sub relationship with you turning/making/keeping me as your cream puff girl along with chastity. Being the submissive/feminine cream puff sub is hot and it’s who I really am. This turns me on and I want to keep ours/ldws relationship this way all the time. I’ve accepted this.
Ps I asked my masseuse if she wanted to help me try on blushes/foundation/makeup/lipsticks every 4 weeks when I’m scheduled to do waxings as I’m her only client and she said yes. I’m really happy about this and can’t want for her to do this to me. I’m going to tell her that I want to be controlled in our relationship with her the Dom and I as her cream puff girl. I feel this will make our relationship stronger going into 2018 & beyond.
Happy Thanksgiving Pete! Sounds like 2018 is going to be great! WOOT!
I’m hoping so and want this to happen for real!!! I’m not going to worry or care what others think. We sold our business and I’m not planning to work full time as I’ll work part time 3-4 days a week 20-30 hours max just to cover my expenses. I need to focus on health in losing weight/getting back to how I looked when I was bodybuilding along with getting ready for upcoming usta tennis season along with being in 2 relationships with both women as I feel this will give me the balance I desperately need on and more importantly off the courts.
Looking forward to 2018 with calling you/mistresses for shorter calls do I can do this on weekly/bi weekly basis along with stepping up relationship with both women taking charge of me in female lead relationships with both of them!
Great post Mistress. The dynamics of a Dom Sub relationship are fascinating to me both in and out of the bedroom. Love your work and look forward to learning more from it. ????
Hey Stephanie, thanks for stopping by. I’m looking forward to a 2018 with you, and everyone being part of it!
I picture you wearing a red strap-on
Use me as your own toy ????????❤????????
Now you are just trying to make me love you, aren’t you? 😉
If that is how you wish to love me then yes yes oh yes.Would you pegg me?