Hello lovers of Femdom, welcome to part two of Femdom Myths busted. If you missed the first post, check it out here
Femdom myths busted part 1. Today we are looking at some other myths about Femdoms and femdom phone sex.
Phone Femdom Myth Busted
I’m only here for the kinky phone sex session.
All I want is the almighty dollar, I don’t care a lick about you beyond that contact.
I live to torment and deny you.
Sure there are some on-line Phone Femdoms who are into that kinda thing. “F.U. fork it over, slut”. One look at twitter and you’ll find a lot of guys into that “gimmie gimme, lick my bootie Femdoms”. I’m not into that, that’s not what Enchantrix is about, and one reason why I’m here. One reason you are too. I’m sure. The connections I make are genuine and I’m glad to be privy to and a part of your , sometimes, naughty life.
I delve into many sexual matters. Kinky and otherwise. There are plenty of sessions which don’t end in your orgasm, or any sexual satisfaction. What kinky thing have you always thought about but were to inhibited to share? Erotic Confession is a very common and popular type of session. With my experience and my keen sense of people, many come to me for advice. Others, call to find another who will accept them , help them evolve into the person who’s be yearning to be set free.
In many ways I grow, and flourish along with you. Your comments and review after our session are always welcomed. Good Bad or Indifferent. We have a great Rate My Call Option for you to utilize, or you can just email me your musings. I do listen.
Guys Who Call On-line Femdoms Are Losers
Well, it’s true some of my callers like to identify as losers, worthless heaps of human flesh. I’m good with that. Humiliation, including degradation are just one of the ways we connect and I control. I understand how humiliation plays a part in your sexuality.
But in reality no one is worthless. Well unless you aren’t very imaginative. As one of my favorite tiny losers would say: “I’m at the bottom of the social hierarchy” I confirm: “You are at the bottom, but not worthless you are just worth , less”.
Everyone has some worth, I aim to find yours. Do you have a humiliated cuckold fantasy? Cum eater? Perhaps you have sissy bimbo dreams which are aimed at humiliating you. All of these kinks, affords you some value with me.
But kinky humiliation play aside: The fact is, guys who call on-line Femdoms are not losers for wanting to expand their human experience. In this day and age, there’s no reason to repress your desires. Many find themselves in social circles which prohibit your exploration and that, IMO is sad.
I find the majority of people who call me are creative, intelligent successful and their lives are enriched with their naughty play with me. Some have found the courage to expand their human experience even further and start to step out of the proverbial closet. Start sharing their passions, and desires (not just sexual) with those closest to them. Fortified by the support I lend them, to do just that.
Nothing “loserish” with that, now is there? Nope.
Until We Chat ????
Femdom Erika
After much thought Ms Erika-I want to keep this going with you and the other ldw mistresses for my ongoing permanent feminization. Also once summer is over I’m going to start wearing bras panties underneath my clothes along with women’s clothes, my friend has already picked out another dress/blouse/women’s turtleneck sweater and leggings for me. Seeing how guys look better as a girl I’m going to start doing this. Not going to worry or care what others think. It’s harmless dress up fun. She told me to purge my old clothes and give to goodwill which I’m going to. With girls I play tennis with I’m friends with them but we’ve never dated or had serious relationship which is fine. Next time we all go out I’ll wear my women’s clothes. As said before if they are true friends they will accept this if not their loss. Dieting will start seriously after my vacation as I do want to get girlish figure(no sex change or operations) this is who I am and become and I’ve accepted this.
Paulina! This is fantastic! You know I support you and your erotic journey and so glad to be a part of it! Bralettes are def in your future for undercover girlie starts in earnest after the summer!
Great post Mistress Erika. One of the things that has kept me around is the connection to various LDW Mistresses.
I learn from them. I learn things about me, directions that my interests and fetishes might go that I did not know. And also, they learn from me. I get questions about sessions, or experiences that they can then ise to enhance not just mine, but other people’s (and maybe their own) sessions or lives.
It shows, that the LDW community is invested in itself.
I agree WS! it’s a win win situation when you have an open , willing (and kinky) Mind!
Thanks for your comment1
Yes MISTRESS ERIKA you are very intelligent and a great writer and great about expressing sincerly yours beta bottom bitch tedi
TY, pet
Miss Erika,
Thanks for your observations. Yes, I believe we all have worth. It’s just kink. That’s all. Some of us have brighter freak flags than others and some of us like to fly them high. My freak flag literally has ALL the colors of the rainbow. There’s NOTHING wrong with that. Thanks again for being a leader in acceptance!
Aaron? Rainbow flag? What are you trying to tell my fans? I’m a bit befuddled ????????????????????
Want me to say it????
Gladly. I’m Aaron Crain and I’m proudly gay! I love men!!!!
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Ms Erika ~ Again you have nailed it!!I will admit several of the people I talk to we talk about non sexual/non kink topics just as much as we do the kinky sexual things. I love getting little messages about their day or a little follow up to something we talked about – or even hi. Yes this is my “job” but just like a dr, teacher, lawyer, counselor, coach, etc ~ it might be my job – but I care (and love it) Just like all of us ~ we reach out to where we can find people to connect with. I don’t look at guys who call as losers anymore than I would someone who worked out with a trainer (I happen to myself) or any type of coach or counselor.
Ms Kay Marie
Hey Ms Kay! Thanks for stopping by. Great minds think alike!
Thanks for mentioning my blog on your podcast. If you are reading this and don’t know what I mean .. Check out Ms Kay Marie’s happy hour
https://www.spreaker.com/user/cock-radio
When I can I hop into chat at communitykink.com and chat with the listeners! ????
Wonderful post, Ms. Erika- it’s true, the Empire is far above your average femdom group, and I am so glad you are a part of this place I consider my home away from home ( when I’m not at the lake…lol) I like that line about your caller being worth less, not worthless!
Thank you for sharing!
Hi Ms Stephanie!
I’m happy to be among some of the best here at Enchantrix. Thanks for stopping by!
I came here from part 1 of course, thanks to Feedly (which, oddly enough, You are also responsible for inspiring Me to finally join), and this post did not disappoint. Well, Yours never do, but You know what I mean. Once again found Myself nodding vigorously at the points You made, and also at the artful way you made them.
You’re amazing!
xoxo
Hey Lovely!
Thanks for stopping by! Sexy kinky minds think alike! I’m glad I can inspire you!
Can’t wait to play with you again! You are off the CHAIN!
And… no YOU are Amazing!
(the mutual admiration society of Erika and Rachel has now commenced)
*laughs*
See you Around the empire!
Great post Ms Erika…. myths may be big and small, I am glad you took time to bust them… I am especially glad when you busy the small ones! Lol
LOL Hi Princess! Thank you.
Goddess Erika, I agree that even a loser like me is not totally worthless but my value just comes in other forms. Even that won’t change my place and purpose. i love connecting with you because we do talk about so many things.
Hey tiny one! Welcome back! Hope your respite from the rat race proved to be a JUICY and informative one! Oh and relaxing too! LOL 😉 Can’t wait to hear the update!
Erika you are so right, you understand. This is so real for me. I am your slut. What an addiction.
Ready for what ever is next.
Your cum slut.
Mmmmm I do understand, and you have CUM a long way! #MindBlown
Hah, losers indeed! That our submissive callers know exactly what they want and where to get it safely and in a way that doesn’t hurt their family relationships generally makes them smarter than the average bear. Yes, that includes the humiliation sluts, and they are a fun breed, aren’t they? Hehe.
I agree Ms Claire, humiliation sluts are a fun breed! I mean where else can you “get away” with saying and DOING the things we do, elsewhere? See you around the Empire, sexy!