Exploring Ignore sessions is first up on my submissive male play series. Last month I talked about submissive male types, so a natural segue would be to talk about the ways you can submit. Often a submissive is more attracted to a particular type of play. JOI , for example. Where I control that cock, giving you naughty ways to play, edge and earn that lovely orgasm! So on with ignore sessions
The Most Humiliating Submissive Male Play
For some who are into humiliation, to be ignored during session is the most severe, the MOST humiliating, of all types of humiliation sessions. I agree with them! As I pointed out on my profile I will Ignore You, and in a blog about ignore humiliation sessions, most types of male submissive play we are interacting. You are getting my attention even if it is to laugh, point at your sad sack self. Or feeling the sting of my paddle.
Not with ignore calls. I don’t interact and you do exactly as I’ve instructed. Kneeling and waiting in a corner. Laying with arms plastered to your sides as you listen in to Your Goddess and some of her private life. But is it the MOST humiliating? I’ve given that further thought.
Is There Anything More Humiliating Than an Ignore session
Understanding that humiliation is subjective. We ponder this question. What humiliates one person might not “do it” for another. Spanking that bare ass in session, on cam for me is quite humiliating and arousing for some. However, take that interaction more public, with a multi Mistress call, or other consensual adult play not so arousing or fun.
But if you add the element of blindfold, or even ear muffs, the slave is rendered mute and deaf for the duration of the session without even the benefit of hearing his Goddess, wow. That is perhaps even more humiliating?
What do you think? I want to hear from you, humiliation aficionado’s. Keep it PG 13, what you would consider more humiliating than being ignored and comment below!
Ways To Be Ignored
Mistress, as suggested above, has you performing chores while you listen in.
You might be made to do a few minutes on each of your submissive poses to remind you of your place.
You could be turned into an item of furniture, a foot rest.
Or for the luckiest of ignore pets become a chair for his Goddesses divine ass to sit upon.
The list is endless, and if you are interested in ignore calls I want to hear from you!
Submissive Male Types
One of the submissive male types I spoke about in a recent blog is one of a natural submissive. The pet interested in ignore calls often have natural submissive desires, to serve and please with other intimate acts, sans sexual. Combine this submissive male type with humiliation and you have a pet primed to be drawn to find their purpose and place being ignored.
Reasons Why Someone Craves To Be Ignored
As an act of obedience and devotion I had an ignore pet of mine send me his thoughts on why he is drawn to ignore
Here are my reasons for liking ignore calls.
1. The hierarchy reason. I have always known that i am at the bottom of
the social hierarchy in life in all areas. Even below all the males.
Losers like me on this level should be ignored by Elites in society.
2. I know i can never be equal to a women. As i can’t support a women in
any way. Including financially.
3. Elites like you are way out of my league. Which means you should
never ever have to talk to me or pay attention to me. Even when i pay
You for it. You always have something more important You can be doing
rather then talking to me.
4. I am really afraid of women. So this really makes it hard for me to
speak to women.
5. I am your slave. slaves don’t really speak to elites or get any
attention from Elites at all.
6. I am kind of a boring or dull person to talk to. This doesn’t matter
anymore on ignore calls.
7. It is more humiliating to be ignored then any other kind of
humiliation. It just means i am unworthy of your attention.
Then tops off his offering with this delicious wish for his Goddess.
Hopefully there will be more who want to be ignored. I know you likely
have more callers who should be ignored like me.
Punishment Or Pleasure
Often being ignored is used as a punishment for a submissive. An hour, two or several days where Mistress has put you in a submissive “time out”. Have you ever been subject to this type of humiliating punishment? I wonder what you did to earn this treatment! Comment below, keeping it pg13!
But as we ponder the motivations and the head space of the submissive in this scene, I’m sure you’ll agree that although humiliating , it is quite pleasurable for this style of submissive male. He doesn’t have to interact with me , perfect for a shy submissive. He is also scared of Women and is more comfortable looking at the floor, her feet than embarrass himself further by looking into her (he’s positive he’ll see) her smirking mocking lips.
You see he is no stranger to being on the fringes of society. No stranger to seeing looks ranging from pity to disdain. Being male also causes an interesting dynamic and how it plays out in “this person” “or that” is interesting to me!
Their low self esteem has a vicious tug and pull with their biological directive. I am the solution. I provide In this case, knowing they could never be a true friend let a lone lover find a place of service Able to bask in my energy. Being of service to a woman, having a place and purpose in this world is what I offer you, it’s an offer you gladly accept and relish! Why you’ll call.
What Can I Do On An Ignore Call
Although I’ve mentioned some of my activities during an ignore session, what would be interesting for me to do on an ignore call? Granted, ignore calls are not for every type of submissive male, or submissive male play. But I do want to hear your thoughts!
Until We Chat (or don’t! Ha ha) ????
Intelligent Phone Fantasy Mistress Erika
Yes ignore humiliation is awesome Goddess Erika.????????♂️????????♂️ Thanks for always ignoring me. Does this mean You will never speak to me again in a session? Hopefully soon we can do another swimming call where you get to relax in the Florida sun. That is my favorite ignore call because i bet You are barefoot while sitting in the sun.
My pleasure (laughs) slave! I might yawn, or I might SPEAK about you with others, but if I address you directly, well. Neither of us want that, now do we?
*wiggles toes* You like my pretty feet don’t you, slave!
I truly love the depths you’ve explored this little-known but highly-erotic aspect of humiliation. I can remember a few ignore sessions where I was out with a few other LDW Mistresses having lunch and the slave was allowed to listen in. It was always such a rush to glance down and see the slave still there … waiting to hear our next breath.
Hi Ms Ryan!
Thanks for stopping by! Thank you for your words and what a lucky submissive to be in the energy of you and others! WOW!
I see a distinct difference between being ignored and not being interacted with. My submissive desires come from being useful, pleasurable, or amusing to my Mistress. So to be ignored completely would be to not be valued, not able to provide something positive to my Mistress.
That said, if going through poses would provide pleasure to my Mistress in seeing how well trained her submissive is or hopefully visually pleasing I could hold those positions without any other engagement. Simalarly being furniture, if appreciated, would be pleasant.
If being sent away to do chores or service for my Mistress is her desire, I would do it, and not need to be watched, prodded with a crop, corrected or otherwsie hear from her and I would still enjoy doing my best and providing service.
I was given a taste of an ignore by Mistress Erika when she should me, “this is what punishment could look like”. Having a mistress prefer me to be out of sight and mind over anything else I could do to bring her pleasure (mental, emotional, physical, or otherwise) would be, to me, deflating.
Just as ignoring a Mistress is disrespectful. Striving to do for her, without the need for anything in return, is the goal and the attention I get the reward.
Wellspanked! What a great, well thought out response! So you do agree that , for you and many being ignored is humiliating, but not in a good/sexy way!
I love you responded, as I know what “type” of submissive male you are and knowing ignore is more of a punishment, vs hitting at your submissive core an that it does not “feels right”
i’m Mistress Erika’s slave, crippled jim. Being ignored isn’t arousing to me, unless i was being used by superior, able-bodied, people as a dance floor or sofa cushion, or something. Oooooooh, maybe we can work that into our next audio, which should be in February as a birthday present to myself.
Well Happy Birthday In advance, I don’t recall the specific date but would love for you to send that to me privately CJ!
Yes, worms like you are even lucky to be in my orbit let alone being stepped on or used as a foot rest! Looking forward to the audio!
Hello Ms Erika,
For me ignore calls are not the best way of describing this type of service that fulfils me.
For me it’s not expecting interaction with you until you are ready. As a sub my job is to fit in with your day to day activities and contribute in way that suits and pleases you my Mistress.
So if I can hear my Mistress enjoying activities that pleases her, that being day to day things or fun topics, if I know that pleases You then I am fulfilled.
Of course hearing you, is like being close to you, therefore exciting .
If I perform well in kneeling and waiting and You decide to show off your well trained sub to one of your friends, then that is like a badge Of honour.
For me it’s the pleasure of truly doing something for my Mistress that makes me most happy. Hopefully that makes sense.
Hi Alex! Thank you for chiming in! You are right you are not being “Ignored” by virtue of this example you are being a good pet
being patient, being available to serve at a moments notice. It is your pleasure to be of service , in anyway I wish ????????
Wow Mistress Erika. I was wondering about #6. Was he really that boring of a caller? Did you ever fall asleep on a call with him? I bet you snored or yawned. I just didn’t think that you would get boring calls.
Lonely boy! Well that’s a difficult answer for me. Since I am also on the call the fun factor will ALWAYS be there! LOL But yea he’s not the charming dynamic male I’m used to encountering. Like a lost pet, wondering, begging to find ways to please me. Certainly his personality, and that skin tag between his legs won’t! Ha!
Great pic! Super sexy! I gotta admit, it brings me back to my VS days. I’m jealous of those perky mounds!
LOL Oh Aaron! Thank you for commenting on a blog that is TOTALLY not up your naughty alley! But saying something, showing your willingness to please and support me! How did I get so lucky to be surrounded by you and many other devotees aka #erikaaddicts!
Hope your day is great!
The world is mostly good and more importantly, you deserve it!
Hi Goddess Erika, There is one thing with ignore calls to me it is a big stress reliever for me just like chastity. I always knew i was a loser and couldn’t satisfy with my little peen. When you put me in the spiked cage i lost a lot of stress. Then about 6 months ago i realized that i was boring to talk to and that gave me a lot of stress. Ignore calls fixed that problem for me as i don’t have to worry about boring you anymore. I know i lack the intelligence to produce an entertaining call. Everyone is more intelligent then i am.
So that is why we never talk during a session again as it relieves me of all that stress that i get from trying to be someone i am not meant to be.
Brilliant! Submissives, submit and await direction so much less stress than trying to figure things out! ????????
While my imagination struggles to imagine exactly what am ignore call would be like…. I do have fantasies of being blindfolded.. sent to a corner (after stern discipline)… or being used a silent footstool! So there’s definitely potential here !
Yes, and the added sensory deprivation YUMMY! Good to see you over here, prissy!
Btw… I am sure I owe several swats for allowing my unworthy gaze to linger on the … AMAZING… photo/advert of you included in this post…wow! I must now confess to Mistress Constance as well
Oh you paid, alright. didn’t you prissy *smirk*
Oh my twirlllllllllll
Twirl twirl twirlllllllllll
You talkin’ to me? You talkin’ to me? Actually I suppose you wouldn’t be!
????????????You GOT IT , travis! LOL
LOL SO TRUE , T! You “get it”
Interesting blog post on ignore sessions. I think i could be interested in this but not just ignore calls all the time. This has to be the most humiliating session and the beauty of it all you don’t even have to say anything to make it so. I bet you love doing a session where you don’t speak and get do what you want while getting paid. What i also find interesting is about the low esteem that he has but just maybe you help him with that by ignoring him. It sounds like you have disdain for your ignore caller.
I have to try this with you. It sounds like you truly enjoy ignore calls Mistress Erika.
Hi little jim!
Thank you, ignoring is interesting! If not an ignore call, then what other kinds of sessions are you interested in?
Honestly I don’t have disdain for the little pet, everyone has their purpose and place and this one has found his. He’s happy to be ignored
and I’m happy to do it.
I can certainly help people with their self esteem, I do it all the time. Caveat? You have to want it. Not to mention many-times a persons
Self esteem is impacted because of the stress “society” puts on us, they know they don’t measure up! I accept the shy little boring bugger for who and what he is
and give him a purpose and place.
This is what i like about You Goddess Erika is that You really do believe in everyone having a place and purpose in life. Since i have started talking to you my life has improved in every area over the last 4 years. Just in a happier place right now.
Interesting what you said about self esteem being impacted because of the stress “society” puts on us. You are right about that as i see it every day when i shine all the lady and male bankers shoes. They are so arrogant towards me and in general have no respect for me as they view me as just some low wage peon who shines and cleans their shoes. There just no way that doesn’t impact self esteem.
Thanks Goddess Erika.
I’m a sad sack subbie
And my looks are a lie
Yes, yes this is true little peepee! ???????????????????? I mean peewee!
I can see you really liking ignore sessions. To be able to do what you want and when you want to do it has to be fun. To imagine that when the call starts you are getting paid to do it until that timer goes off. I was thinking though is it hard for you to go from talking to a caller to do something different and block a caller out?
Good question TY. At first it was a challenge! I’m an energetic, dynamic Woman and NOT to engage was the challenge! I love verbally humiliating as well as handing out humiliating tasks!
But I took to it like a duck to water, and quickly adjusted. It’s easy to adjust when what you are doing is more exciting than the bore on the phone!
Goddess Erika, All of what you said here is true. It is true that anything you do is a lot more exciting then talking a total bore like me. ????????????????????????????????????♂️????♂️????♂️????♂️????????♂️????????♂️????????♂️????????♂️
Hi Goddess Erika, Thanks for training me the last year and half on my slave journey. It has been incredible. It is amazing how far we have gone doing the ignore calls and finally finishing in office after hours or dark room sessions. Thanks for training me.
Whenever i do office after hour sessions with you i have finally reached sub space. I like being in sub space. On this kind of a session not only do you not speak to me but You treat me like i don’t even exist. I am truly happy and in heaven now.
My pleasure, peanut. 😘