Male Chastity Phone Sex. Such powerful words, humm? Are you thinking about chastity? Good! I think every male ,at one point or another, should experience chastity. Sure, a lot of “Alpha” males might snort and snicker at the suggestion, but he wouldn’t be the first to find themselves locked up for me. What I’m talking about today is some of the reasons males are interested in chastity.
Reasons For Male Chastity Phone Sex
I know there are various reasons why men are interested in chastity. Some men want to explore and feel that ultimate and complete control. To fully and completely give up any control over their cock and their sexuality to another. I’ve had many convey to me the increase of submissive feelings, how their submission deepened with this caged power exchange. How adding a chastity cage brought them to new levels of submission.
Other men may have reasons for chastity which revolve around managing their masturbation. They know they spend too much of their precious time searching for masturbation fodder, and too much time devoted to the art of self love. Some even confess they feel they are addicted. The reasons for this addiction can be deeply rooted, from not feeling the intimacy they crave, to a way they process stress. Therefore, masturbation only masks those deep emotional needs. Sure it helps them feel good, for that moment.
Chastity And Masturbation Management
Often masturbation addiction is synonymous with porn addiction. Porn is candy for your brain! It’s an instant feel good, treat! But like all treats should be taken in balanced doses. Not sure if you are? You might be addicted if:
1- It is difficult or impossible to achieve orgasm without your eye candy.
2- Decline social events in order to watch porn/masturbate
3- Decline partnered sex because you are unable or uninterested
4- Find yourself looking at porn while not actively masturbating
If you’ve answered yes to any of the above, then we need to chat further about how chastity can help you with masturbation management.
Of course there are many more reasons someone might want to embark on a chastity journey. I’m sure you have your own. I want to hear them. Most likely you are not alone in your feelings, desires.
I own that cock
Chastity Training With Mistress
I understand for a man to submit his biological drive to another is a huge leap. Leap of faith, of trust and submission. Yes, a great deal of trust must be involved when you embark on handing the proverbial key to your cage to another. I honor and respect your trust and faith in me. After all, your chastity is a gift, to Mistress. Isn’t it. Pet.
With chastity training not only do we train your body, but there is a tremendous emotional growth as well. But don’t fear the emotional challenges! Chastity training also helps you develop ways to process those emotions, and develop positive behaviors to create that intimate connection you might be craving.
For those who are new to chastity we will go over chastity care , how to pick out a chastity device, basic hygiene a set a cage schedule as your body and mind get used to the device. You are in good hands. During your chastity, we will re-negotiate the terms of our play as needed. Some who enter into chastity have short term goals, and desires. Others find that they want to really push the envelope, or is that they really want to impress and please me? Regardless, they crave more and we consider long term chastity.
If you are experienced with chastity then we are ready to rock n roll! I know chastity is more fun for you with another than just locking up on your own.
Once I Own And Control That Cock
If you are new, then we need to cover some ground. Some are mentioned above, and any questions or concerns you might have. Your lifestyle and having realistic expectations.
Speaking of expectations, once you commit. Once you submit your sexual life to me, I don’t take insolence lightly. I’d rather inspire your commitment but will not hesitate to use all the tools at my disposal to ensure your compliance. That is to say: Don’t test my good nature, pet.
So what are you waiting for? Let’s negotiate your chastity journey today!
Until we chat
Chastity Mistress Erika
I have had the pleasure of locking up for Mistress Erika and I can say that her appreciation for the amusement it brings her is all the reward I need. While physically handing over to keys to someone is it’s own level of apprehension, being locked and monitored by Mistress Erika is a great way to make your submission tangable.
She has used frequent check ins, photo confirmations, honor system, and web cam to keep me locked up. All of them work at keeping you accountable and honest. Finally, sessioning on cam with her, and wondering if she will permit release or keep you locked is an attention grabber. The toughest part is wondering what to do with your hands while locked on cam.
Enjoying my freedom for now, until I can enjoy my lack of freedom
Wellspanked! Thank you for your words of what it’s like to be locked for me!
I say, those hands should be folded behind your back, until they are called for.
I’ll be sure to make that order , since a locked , teased and denied chastity pet doesn’t have full use of all those IQ points, humm? ????
Wellspanked! Thank you for your words of what it’s like to be locked for me!
I say, those hands should be folded behind your back, until they are called for.
I’ll be sure to make that order , since a locked , teased and denied chastity pet doesn’t have full use of all those IQ points, humm? ????
Good post Goddess Erika. ????♂️????♂️????♂️????♂️ Though i would think that some for males chastity is needed as in permanent chastity. As either they are to small or can’t satisfy.
Chastity means submission though.
I was wondering about Alpha Males though. Would you lock an Alpha Male in chastity? Though Alpha Males don’t need chastity though.
Hi slave!
You are right, some males need and deserve permeant chastity. That percentage is low. I have locked someone who identifies as “alpha’ into a cage. He may be a alpha to the world
but that cock, submits to me. Mmmmm! Every male can benefit from chastity, pet!
Interesting Goddess Erika. ????♂️????♂️????♂️????♂️????♂️ I know i am one of the low percentage of males that need and deserve permanent chastity. How low do You think that percentage is?
It is amazing that You locked an Alpha into chastity. I wonder how even an alpha can benefit from chastity.
Ever so eager to push that envelope a smidge further, chastity was an activity that was right up my alley! Hmm sorry, that line is for a strap on blog. We will sit on that for now.
Yes, the curiosity got to me.
How intriguing, to purposely close the playground, and think this is beneficial for all.
It has been.
Mistress Erika, it is coming up…(odd to use the words “coming” and “up” discussing chastity!) on two years since my first foray into padlocking your peanut, and putting the balls in your court to decide yea or nay.
No doubt you have a better grasp on the situation than me and your control and ownership was inevitable.
Yeah yeah the boys who live downstairs may grumble and moan, but I’ll tell ya, they are pretty happy at the first of the month when they “pay the rent”
The super cleans up the mess and the landlady grins.
Everyone wins!
Looks like this one “Slipped through the cracks!”????
OMG, you are so right! How did that happen? Over a year ago!? You’ve been locked for me longer than two now!
You are a good pet! LOL “grumbling” and they are STILL HAPPY, all locked and pantied up!
Lol!????. Mistress Erika, I thought it was a new blog I had somehow missed. A case of the “right hand not knowing what the left hand is doing”.
Being in chastity (and loving it), we know what each hand is NOT doing!????????
SO true! LOL
As you know I went from not understanding the allure of chastity… to trying to please Mistress… to addiction… to long term and even permanent chastity!
I can say that nothing develops and cultivates the submissive mind and devotion to one’s Goddess like chastity…
So yeah for ???? locking us betas up !
hi prissy, thank you for these words! Yes, chastity certainly as a way with conditioning that mind! ????????
This is very interesting Mistress Erika. I have thought about chastity but don’t think i am cut out for it. Even though i am a chronic masturbator with a little penis. I would think that means i am not made for chastity.
LOL there are two PERFECT reasons for you to try chastity. Tiny butterbeans should know their place, and tsk tsk we’ll have to find you a hobby, other than
playing with your lima bean!
Maybe this is true Mistress Erika. Though isn’t true that small guys usually are chronic masturbators. So i will have to try and call you to discuss chastity.
Often yes, they are chronic. I’d love to hear from you, peanut
Hi Goddess Erika, I have been thinking about this lately.????♂️????♂️ The last 4 years i have been using the spike chastity cage but was wondering. Would i be better off trying a different cage? I know that you like mature metals a lot. Just been thinking.
Hi Slave, you have been thinking well. Always focus on your submission to me and your place in life. You know Mature Metal is my number one “GO TO”
for metal cages, the workmanship, the customer service is stellar. have you stopped by Mature Metal yet?
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perfectly said, chastity slave!